Why do guys always say girls need dick or a good f**king?

Often when I talk to guys, and its usually when we disagree about something, they say I need this. I am a virgin so I dont think that is something I need as of yet. It doesn't offend me when they say this (if anything it actually turns me on) but its weird to me that they think their dick will like solve all my problems 😂
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  • Everyone is pretty close. Essentially, when a woman has N attitude or is combative or doesn't agree with that guy, he'll say a douchebag thing like you need some "Good" D. I emphasize good because typically when a woman gets fulfilled sexually, she becomes relaxed, happy & queen of the world. Everything is great and if it's really good, she'll forget where she is or who she is lol. Now, I personally have made this happen many many times 100 % effective. Then again, I think EVERYONE is happy and everything is great and whatnot after great sex

    However, I highly advise you, if you're a guy and you don't give her great sex, you better fucking run cuz not only was she pissed off before, but now you just gave her shitty, annoying sex and failed. If you thought she was a bitch before, uh-uh, it becomes exponential. But again, it doesn't just pertain to women. Both dudes and chicks can get like that due to frustration.

    So while the douchebag who suggests she needs to get the good D, he's dumb and doesn't know how to say that she just needs to rub one out cuz he thinks that one guys can give girls orgasms & he'd probably volunteer himself.

    I've seen women go off on their husbands cuz they failed to give them what they need and it just blow up in their face. I feel bad towards her, but it's funny as hell. One time I offered to help them and ended up becoming their bull for a little while (I would come over to please his wife, him being the cuck or cuckold). Damn near saved their marriage

    • WOW 😆 thats interesting. Thank you for sharing haha

    • Your welcome 😁

  • It's called "negging" and it's manipulative behaviour. You should watch out for it, especially if it's colleagues or people you're close with ; as these will be the people to spike your drink.

    You're "turned on" as you don't know any better, but while some guys may simply be joking. If you're getting such innuendo and suggestions often from one person, then it's a problem you need to confront quickly to shut down.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because those are the type of guys that are disgusting pigs, and that can be considered as sexual harassment if not a threat sexually. Any person that tries to throw that at me they get blocked and reported immediately. Be careful around those types of men. Because you don't know what one of them. Ben may end up doing. Don't go telling him you're a virgin, or any of your personal business. Too many sickos out here. It's demeaning, it's disgusting, and I'm pretty sure the parents would not like having to hear how they talk.

  • They say that when they think we are being bitchy. Little they know that if we fuck they are the ones that are likely to agree with everythig we say xD

    • Thanks for the MHO dear!

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  • It's because, like most issues with guys, they think that you have a problem they can easily solve with their dicks. Lol

    It's a demeaning statement meant to make them feel superior. But it's also a numbers game, i. e. if they say it enough eventually you might agree and fuck them. Lol

    I'm the opposite of you, I have a lot of sex. So when a guy says this to me I just reply "Nah that's not it I've already had plenty today." and just stare them down. Lol

  • Because its just another way to demean women. They’re basically saying that you're acting super cranky because you haven’t had sex recently, which is just weird af to say to someone

    • Not really. I often say that guys I know need to get laid. It relaxes a person who is wound a bit a bit to tight.

  • It's just the equivalent of "You need to get laid". Demeaning, but not intended to be insulting.

  • They’d like to believe that them giving it to you would solve your attitude lol

    You know what would be funny? If you’re hot, go have sex with your boyfriend or somebody else then come back and tell him okay I got it. He’d get mad. 🤣

  • Some girls can get in certain moods or not understand what good sex really is. Guys think they all know how to please a woman, but most don't. It takes a real man to really understand how to please a woman, and the truth is most men say this on Hope's of getting some action. I personally know that I can please all the women I am with, because I take time to make sure they get off multiple times before I do. I get off on women getting of, plus once the woman's orgasms start coming (no pun intended) it makes for better intercourse for both sides.

  • It's more of them thinking you need a good fucking to sort your emotions out is the perfect stress relief

  • Because it's true sometimes.

    • Is it true for you?

    • It's true with me. And I'm not proud of this. I see a LOT of guys, being a bartender & all, and sometimes I can't help myself from catching a "feeling" for one of them and I need to get fucked to get over the tension I'm feeling sexually. It keeps me sane to get screwed on the regular, but I know, as of right now, I am hooked on one regular and its killing me inside. If I wasn't single I would be fine, but not only is he a regular, he is a friend, and I'm trying to make sure I don't fuck up a VERY good friendship. I already feel like I've fucked it up by us screwing once, he asked me, and I'm trying to just be a friend to him. I am not proud, especially since he asked me not to speak of this encounter, and I asked the same in return. But sometimes sex should he just sex.

    • I get it. I agree sometimes sex should be just sex. When was the time you got fucked hard?

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  • Maybe he's needing a good f... g! A loud nasty one. Let it go he's trash!

  • Well girls who can't get sex tend to be more bitter, especially considering how easy it usually for a girl to get sex, so a girl that want and can't get a dick is likely very unattractive. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BeerGoggles

  • They're ignorant. Its seems about on par with saying a girl "must be on her period" to me.
    It just seems like they can tell your upset but dont care enough to find out why, or they refuse to see things from your perspective, so they just blame it on that mysterious organ we dont have.

    It might help a little just cause it's fun, or might help a bit if your issue is pent up sexual tension, but mostly I think it's just a rude guy that dosent care that your mad.

  • I find it very interesting that others were talking bad about comments like this, but on the contrary you mentioned that it turns you on!;)
    Hmu if you want to discuss further;)

    • maybe if it came when i was actually mad itd upset me... but most of the time it seems playful hehe

    • Lol, I understand. Care to follow me?

    • We've talked before. I'm not looking for sexual chats 🙃

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  • They say that cause they either mad or dislike the girl.

    Or they think the girl is fine as hell and would love to be the one to do it.

    I feel like it's a lame and unoriginal thing to say.

  • If you're a total bitch sometimes, sex usually turns you a bit soft and calm.
    We tend to look at girls who have that stiff upper lip and we know they aren't getting any

  • They are uninterested in your feelings or pointof view.

  • Some guys say such things not all..

  • Dude say the sames for other dudes too.
    "You just needs some pussy". It really pisses me off when people say this due to how dumb it is.
    I have sex with my girlfriend, but besides being sexually satisfied all of my other problems in life are still there and they don't disappear.

    Like, people who say that shit really need to shut the fuck up. Like you fucking illogical dipshit, go shit in the corner and think about your life choices.

    • *Dudes say the same for other dudes too*.

  • A good orgasm will make you forget many problems. Or just masturbate abd see how you feel after.

  • a lot of times sex just put u in a better mood

  • well it could, it depends, if you are horny or turned on then you can't really focus on anything else, even if you aren't, im sure after having sex or just knowing you can get sex from someone cause you got dick, it would make you happier, but I don't know about all this tbh 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • Insecurity perhaps?

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