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Do you all believe that in order to be more comfortable with sexual intimacy you need to have it more each time?

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I mean like noone was born an expert and a pro and the more you do it the more you earn experience, right?

What can you honestly say about a man who ignored, and ghosted a lady, just because she told him that in order to enjoy more of his company, she needed to get used to it each time she sees him and also told h im that she would like to eat and drink first like a date, you know a normal kind of date setting before the fun like to be more at ease.
The guy seem got turn off to the lady beacuse she told him this: " Sometims I feel like making out with you heavily but lets go out and have some drinks first. Me, jumpy? (she text a question mark indeed, like inquiring him) Well, you know this is all new for me, I have to get used to it so I can enjoy more of your company"

The lady and the guy twice before had sex already but it was just 2 times, and in those 2 times the lady was jumpy right in the act and the guy seem not enjoy that from her much. For him the big turn off was her being jumpy in the act the 2 times they both may had had sex, cause he could not enjoy himself well at the penetration. But like she told him inthe following weeks, if she was jumpy probably was because she was new to all the sexual intimacy so she need to get use to it an the only way for that was to see him in a more often basis to get comfortable each time in his company. Noone was born an expert in sex that takes practice and frequency and in 2 dates noone was already a super experienced, and in 2 or 3 dates a person could still be a little nervous cause it is only 2 times or 3 times of sex before.

Why a guy can't understand that? A woman needs to be treated a little bit slowly. We get turn on in a different way and mode.

What do you think of this guy who ghosted the lady cause it seemed her answr did not fullfill what he wanted on HIS time. Was he being selfish, or full of himself, or egotistitcal, just thought of his needs or what kind of a man was he?
Do you all believe that in order to be more comfortable with sexual intimacy you need to have it more each time?
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