Do women find pleasure in rejecting/ghosting men/boyfriends, who are low on money?

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meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Seriously are you implying we only want a man for money?
I do not need a man for money.
I'll make my own damn money.

Now would I be with a deadbeat whos lazy and won't keep a job or has no form of income coming in or simply does nothing productive to help out in the house hold or community...

No absolutely not I dont need a man baby.

He needs to do something productive. He has to be able to contribute. Even if it is volunteering or emotionally being checked in a shoulder to lean on cheering me on or helping around the house.

If he was injured and unable to work he needs to be doing everything possible to keep up with unemployment workman's comp or seeking disability.

Most important is to be checked in emotionally and not give up.

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

Atm I reject most men it's not really about status, low income or anything. Right now I'm just rejecting that side of life because I've been really hurt.
I personally can say that I want a man that wants to build a life with me ideally a man with a good stable income but life just isn't guaranteed anymore. Sometimes you have to look at the person and see if the values they posses are something you can get a long with.
A couple are a team. A team cheers, supports and works together to make things happen.
I don't take pleasure in messing with others

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

I think it's more about security and the approval of her parents when she presents them. Something like that...

Which should be much different in this day and age with two people bring in income but I think it's fair to want help when on maturity leave too

skeetskeetskeet · Accepted Answer

Of course... wouldn't you? A broke dude is about as good as an ugly fatty

btbc92 · Answer

Unless you really that angry and bitter and you feel like that is due Justice, I think is sick and disrespectful for any woman let alone a man to do that to somebody. Only an evil person would take pleasure in doing something like that. I don't find any pleasure in rejecting guys at all. Unless that person I don't find any pleasure in rejecting guys at all. Unless that person really annoy me, I don't think it's something to actually find pleasure in. Doesn't settle right with me. I don't see how anybody else can do it.

ineedatan · Answer

The heck? Generally speaking, no. "Taking pleasure" to do such a thing makes one a narcissistic-scocio. However, if the guy is low on money due to corrosive behavior - such as gambling/blowing it up on substances... and if a woman is standing up for herself by rejecting the man and leaving him - than that's a whole diffrent case. She has my upmost respect.