My boyfriend smacks and hits me a lot during sex. Is this a sign of abuse? He has also smacked me once in the face outside of sex?

[NickiMinajAtVEVO]

[ohshee]

You need to walk away right now dont look back you are head for a place you do want to be and the longer you are with him the harder it's going to be to get away I want you to read this 10 times so its stuck in your head so every time he hits you you remember this because I know today not out not goi g to listen but one day after he fucks you up a few times you will try to get away if he let's you I'm telling you run right now

[BlackCatBone]

Saddly this tends to happen a lot:

Research company Savanta ComRes asked 2,002 UK women aged between 18 and 39 if they had experienced slapping, choking, gagging or spitting during consensual sex, and if it was ever unwanted. The sample was weighted to be representative of all UK women by age and region.

More than a third (38%) had experienced these acts and said they were unwanted at least some of the time, while just under two-thirds of women had either experienced it and said it was never unwanted (31%), or they had no experience, didn't know or preferred not to say (31%).
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-50546184

[chrissykerdock]

don't listen to these creeps... you should never be hit... unless it's a spanking which is a popular fetish... but being hit with a fist is another... get rid of him asap.

[socksguy]

If you didn't ask for it... literally say please hit me... then it's wrong.. others have said walk away... I say run away. Find someone who treats you like a queen.

[theharshtruth]

a lot of guys like this during sex but you definitely have to ask first. hitting outside of sex not ok

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

unfortunately yes. You didn't consent to it and he's treating you like you're a ragdoll. Just no.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

If you didn't ask for it, it's abuse.

[omegajosh]

If it's outside of sex yes it's abuse. During sex anywhere other then the ass and breast and even depends how he smacks and how hard then yes it's abuse unless it's just smacking your ass.

[razzmatazz090]

Does he cum in your ass?

[omegajosh]

How does that help her situation?

[razzmatazz090]

Don't be a square dude! Inquiring minds want to know.

[omegajosh]

Squares make for good foundations.

[razzmatazz090]

Right but the hot girls are gonna want alphajosh

[omegajosh]

Which is easy to be, but honestly boring also she probably wouldn't of answered your question anyways since it doesn't have anything to do with her question.

[razzmatazz090]

Is it easy lol? You're either alpha or beta sir, and simps are always betas. Something you may not understand is IDC if she answers capn save a hoe.

[omegajosh]

It's easy to be any of those the fact people think you can either be one or the other are living in a false reality that is their single minded reality. Alpha you act all tough and have rough sex and tell your girl what to do and she is yours an object to you. There is no such thing as alpha or beta. Alpha and beta is such a stupid concept.

[razzmatazz090]

Only a beta would say that

[omegajosh]

Pretty much anything I say to argue or defend myself will just lead you to say only a beta would say that. So tell me teach this beta what a true so called alpha male is. Hold on I'll go get a women so I can prepare to mistreat her and leave her unsatisfied and leave emotional and mental and physical scars on her because I'm ready to be an alpha.

[razzmatazz090]

They don't get emotional scars! They have ice water in their veins.

[omegajosh]

Yes sir ole wise leader of the pact teach this so called beta your ways.

[ravagesavage]

He's just rough af but if you don't like it tell him kid

[omegajosh]

He also hits her in the face outside of sex so yes it's still abuse.

[ravagesavage]

It's not you little bitch

[omegajosh]

The bitch part is a bit uncalled for, but I reckon I deserve for butting in.

[morganlove]

Outside of sex, DEFINITELY NOT OK. Inside of sex, only if it turns you on. Otherwise he's a power hungry asshole that will get worse.

[Twalli]

Hitting you outside of sex is. During sex, not really, it's just rough sex.

[bamesjond0069]

Sounds like fun.

[Sylvanas_Windrunner]

Yes... unless you told him to do it

[B2281]

Get out of that relationship.

[gandolph3]

Yes, a red flag

[Anonymous]

Jeez... Why are you with him?