Girls, which one would you pick? A handsome guy with a small-average manhood or a not so attractive guy with a big one?

There are similar questions about certain female body parts, plus men seem to worry a lot about this thing as well, so I hope people don't get offended.
Consider both the guys in discussion are similar in terms of personality compatibility.
The handsome guy not so gifted there
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The unattractive gifted guy
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Neither
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Both (secretly)
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    • well it is true that size and shape of a guys dick. can effect his ability to pleasure a girl to some degree.
    • if your talking vaginal sex. the average woman's canal is 2-4 inch deep when not horny. but can expand or stretch to 5-8 inch deep when horny. however some can go more those are just the average numbers.
    • average width of a woman's vaginal canal is 2-4 inch wide. but can stretch out more depending on her level of arousal. since it can typically expand to let out a baby after all.
    • the average woman's g-spot is only 1-3 inches deep inside her. so if a guy can hit that mark regularly. she should still feel a good amount of pleasure. might need a vibrating toy, cock ring or use fingers to hit the g-spot. since it can be a difficult angle to range. however good foreplay skills can tip the scale in his favor for sure. when it comes to pleasing a woman. since most girls tend to orgasm better from clit simulation.
    • ideally just talk with her and ask what she likes and dislikes. she might be unsure but willing to try something new.
    • most girls who like 9+ inch typically do anal or oral more then vaginal. however there are those rare few. who can take one that big vaginally. with little or no discomfort.
    • I don't think your numbers on width are correct. I believe those numbers are referring to circumference. I think that a vagina which is 4 inches wide (unaroused) would be an anomaly.

    • @Jamie05rhs might me more likely

    • got the information from the internet by a few different sources. but could have copied or remembered it wrong.

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  • I have a question I'm hoping you can answer because it has always perplexed me. What is it exactly about penis size questions that seem to offend women sooooo much? I mean if you looks at ALL the body insecurity questions on GAG from both men and women, overall there are at least as many questions from women about boob size and shape, nipple color, labia shape, butthole color, thigh gaps, butt size and shape, etc., as there are from men about their own body insecurities, and yet men don't shame women for asking them like women do to men.

    It seems there is something particularly annoying to women about penis size questions and women are particular nasty toward men in response to them, even though they are at least as "guilty" as men are of asking the female equivalents of these questions.

    Why is that? Why are women sooooo annoyed and hypocritical about men being insecure about their bodies? Is it because it is more "acceptable" for women to have insecurities? Is it that women have less empathy than men do? What is it?

    • Probably because it is more acceptable for a woman to be confident in being insecure enough to ask. But since I am an influencer at present in this topic I decided to satisfy the curiosity of some guys as it seems to bother a lot of men, espcially considering that men themselves help spreading this belief that women only care about big dicks.

    • It's more acceptable for a woman to be confident in being insecure, and that is justification for women shaming men for being insecure too? Huh? Women themselves also help create the perception that men only care about big boobs, which of course is completely false. And yet men don't shame women for asking dozens of questions on GAG every week about boobs size. So essentially you have provided no valid answer to my question. I have asked the same question here before and I have literally never received a valid response from a woman, because there isn't one. I think the reality is that women despise men who show any insecurity. Unless you can provide a convincing argument to the contrary, it's clear that that is the truth.

    • You said the same as I did in your original comment. Youa rr just denying to response because you don't like it

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  • I chose this one because my ex was not good looking and felt insecure about it but I really didn't care cause you know love is blind but his insecurity was very obvious cause he would try to control me out of jealousy in order to stunt my personal development. Which made me realise guys that aren't good looking are too insecure to be with good looking people because they fail to understand that there is more to a person than the outter appearance and even if you tell them they won't believe you. This means that people should date someone who is physically equal in appearance to themselves but is also equally compatible personality wise. So a guy can't just be good looking and be a dick because that would mean he chat be all thst you hope for in a man but he can't be ugly either cause then he will feel insecure and see the difference between him and you and get jealous as a result. So I think both are important and need to be harmonised in a way that is a good balance for both of you.

  • Whoever I click more with.. but if I had to choose solely on size and looks then I’d pick the handsome one.. Size doesn’t really matter.. unless it’s too small or too big 😅 but we talking average so yeah, I’ll take the cute one 😂😂

    • Well, I have to say I agree with you. Because I'd take the cute girl with small boobs over the not-so-cute girl with big boobs.

    • We need more men like you! 😊

    • Honestly soul is most important followed by health

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  • Can't really answer here because there's more to it than just attraction and a big dick.
    Often guys with big dicks don't know how to use them. Lol
    And I wouldn't want to fuck anyone regularly if I didn't like their personality.

    • That’s a good way to look at it and some guys have one that’s too big. I saw a guy once, not in person, who had a foot long. That would hurt or at least it looked like it would.

  • These questions are ridiculous
    The only thing that matters is his personality.

  • Guys don't you want us to value your face/eyes/smile? Like really, why is this a question?

  • Looks aren’t everything and if he has a sense of humor and good personality he will become more attractive with time. You shouldn’t even know his “size” until you have had time getting to know him THEN when your attracted to him you can find out whats down there but it isn’t important until that point

    • I mostly agree with you, but I think it's totally okay to ask someone their size early on if that's important to you.

    • If you are both on the same page and agree that it matters to you then of course. Some people can be mature adults and prioritize differently than others which is fine as long as no one is being used or abused. I agree

    • Well, it doesn't matter to me. But my opinion isn't the one that counts here. Because I'm a man. I'm going to get off regardless. The woman is the one whose opinion matters in this case since it's more difficult for them to orgasm than it is for us.

  • www.thesun.co.uk/.../

    Women, if your answer is anything other than "physical appearance doesn't matter" then you should tell off the women who make these kinds of articles.

    Fat women be like: "you can't judge me at all based on my weight/appearance!!"
    But attractive women be like: "I'm gunna judge you very harshly on your attractiveness because why the fuck would I want anything romantic/sexual with you if there is no physical attraction?"

    • Isn't uk size 8 like an eu 36? If that is the case it is indeed shallow. You don't even need to be fat to be above EU 36, people wide wide bones or women with big boobs and asses but otherwise small waists and thin torsos can easily go up to an EU 40 without looking fat or unhealthy. I am between an eu 36-38 in jeans because even though my waist fits a 34-36, my bum only fits a 36-38. I basically have abs and my body fat% would classify as fitness level. So i am not sure on what planet above 36 would be fat. Other than that I agree that being overweight shouldn't be encouraged.

    • I don't know much about uk or eu sizes, I am from Canada, I don't know how our systems differ. Regardless I don't think it matter what the guy prefers, it's his preference to hold. If a guy wants a girl who is a 36 then why should that make him a bad person? Is a woman who wants a 6 foot tall man shallow? Is it shallow for a woman to want a man who makes more money? Also, I'm not calling you or anyone else here fat or anything, I'm just pointing out the hypocritical double standard. I read the women's comments, they want an attractive man, just like men want an attractive woman, so I don't see why it's only shallow for men to want attractiveness in a partner, but when women want attractiveness it's treated like a normal thing.

    • It's not regardless. I highly doubt most men think women over EU 36 are too big. Eu 36 is US 4. The problem is the article is responding to whoever spread that false information that the majority of men think women over that size are fat and don't take care of themselves. That is unhealthy body standards. It is like I would say guys who don't look like a ripped bodybuilder are fat and don't take care of themseleves. I mean, really? There is 1 thing to have a preference that is high, but to insult people who don't match that preference and to spread this information like it is the general opinion of all women is fucked up. You could have picked better article. Again, that is like women saying guys who don't look like ripped bodybuilders are fat and don't take care of themselves.

  • Dick size literally means nothing when it comes to how good a guy is in head tbh. Besides both options are kinda swallow. If a hot guy has a small-average dick it means it could be 4-6 inches which isn't bad it doesn't mean he's gonna suck at sex but again not so hot guy with a bigger than average which is 6.5-infinity inches, even if a guy has a 13-inch dick... it doesn't mean he knows how to use it

    • well i have 4.5 girth and 6.5inch.. what would you think of that? will any girls like that?

    • The point of the question is to be shallow in order to show how important dick size is when it comes strictly to appearance and sex.

  • What? No personality? That’s the deciding factor and that he adores me and wants to have lots of sexy time with me.

  • I have dated both types. I can admit I like how a 7 to 8 inch dick feels. But if I really liked a guy because of his personality and my attraction too him, I'd still be with him. There's techniques he can do and toys to help us have fun sex.

    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that

    • It's hard to explain. All I can say is its fun and feels really really good.

    • But, Please try to explain me as possible for you.. Pleaseeee..

  • First there needs to be an "Other" option. But I really don't care so long as you treat me good and are willing to put in the work so I can finish too.

    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that

    • It feels good, I just can't orgasm from penetration alone. I've tried, I can't, I have to have clitoral stimulation.

    • But, What kind of feeling do you feel inside your vagina during intercourse? And, do you think vaginal wall is also sexually sensitive?

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  • Rather with the big one...

    • That’s surprising

    • @OutdoorsForLife thanks

    • @Afrajakia How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that

  • If I were a girl Id have both, but you judge people like that and you dont know what you might miss. Anyway I have somewhere for bothq,

  • What matters is the dude able to make her orgasm

    • Exactly.

  • Girls, which one would you pick? A handsome guy with a small-average manhood or a not so attractive guy with a big one?

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  • attractiveness is subjective.
    What I find attractive you might find ugly you are getting caught up on size and weight and build. Surely peoples characters and nature is more important than physical attributes alone. Its no good being with someone who looks amazing if they are abusive or couldnt raise children or provide security. There are a lot of things that add up to attractiveness.
    Besides a dick is a dick I have one, end of not insecure about it. Im not interested in mines bigger than yours willy waving competitions.
    I can satisfy a woman in other ways if needs be. As long as you both get off in the bedroom who cares about dick size.

  • I don't know. Which one has a better personality and is better at sex? Are we supposed to totally disregard those two things? Well if that's the case then probably the handsome guy just so I can show him off.

    • Nice that is the better question

    • I already said that personality wise they are similar in this case

    • Ah ok yeah, so does that mean they'd both be average in bed? Like does personality reflect their sexual abilities as well?

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  • Lol 😆

  • I'm not so attractive with a small dick

    But i feel i would be good at sex if i had enough pratice

    And i get along with most people lol

  • Voted A

  • There's more to sex than just size. If you don't turn me on: your face, body, voice, touch, then your penis no matter what size won't. Plus there's no way I would give or receive oral from someone I'm not attracted to because I wouldn't want to touch them/be touched by them or look them in the eyes. One of the sexiest things is turning someone on, seeing the pleasure on their face, hearing them moan etc. but if I'm not attracted it actually might just gross me out and I'd avoid looking at them which takes most of the fun out of sex. If it was just about their size I'd close my eyes and imagine I'm with someone else which isn't fair or pleasurable for either of us.

  • I will assume they want the average manhood. When some of the girls I’ve been with saw how thick I am they seemed intimidated.

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