Is sex better when people are the same height/weight?

Im 5 ft and my boyfriend is 6ft. I weigh 110lbs and he weighs 330 lbs.

Would sex really be better for both of us if we chose partners within the same height? Often times in missionary position i am only facing his stomach/nipples and he seems a bit frustrated with me
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  • There are certain things that would be easier if your height matched, and other things that are much easier if you are smaller. For example, you can much more easily be carried, placed on a counter or held up against a wall.

    Is sex better when people are the same height/weight?Is sex better when people are the same height/weight?Is sex better when people are the same height/weight?

    Conventional missionary might be tougher to see face-to-face, but if he puts a pillow/cushion under your ass/lower back, he can probably adjust well enough to make that work too.

    Every couple is different, and part of the fun is figuring out what works and what doesn't.

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  • No, because a man is supposed to be taller than a woman, but I think that what you should asked is if sex is better when partners don't have a huge size gap between them, maybe so, considering that man should be half head taller than a woman, you are not able to see his face? you are lucky that you didn't get crashed in the missionary position, but that said you likely feel more dominated by him, and that you got your hands on the best man that you can get, and that mental feelings can offset the technical difficulties. :)

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't think it has anything to do with weight. Unless it's an extreme difference

    • Right in not sure why i included the weight difference., i was mostly refering to height

    • Well I think the weight isn't that important anyway, but why are you worried?

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  • 1) most sex positions do not have the "height difference" issue.

    The one that has is doggy style and it variances. But with proper technique, "height difference" can easily be resolved.

    Hence height is usually not a concern.

    2) weight is usually not a concern unless he rests himself on you during Missionary and choking you.

    And common sense will help you resolve that "problem", if it is at all.

    3) great sex requires common sense, creativity and laughter. Yes, laughter.

    It's the silly part of being "incompatible" and then make it great that creates intimacy.

    Hence height and weight are non issues. Brains are. 😁

  • Why are you dating a man who is 330 pounds?

    are you trying to make another guy jealous or piss off your dad?

  • am not sure. i would think a larger portion comes from creative thinking on how to better pleasure each other.

  • I don't see why not

  • Not necessarily

  • I think it is kinda nice to be close to the same height for making out and 69.