Do Guys Even Want Hand Jobs Anymore?

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Or is it different when it's your partner's hand?👈 In Detail:  👇  Can You Climax From Your Partner Just Jacking You Off? Meaning NO sucking or licking... Follow Up Question: 👇 Are HandJobs Just A Tease OR A Necessary Part Of Foreplay?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I second @scott04sa22

As being close (emotionally near) to me is accepting what other won't, and having this special bond you can say.

So licking my parts would give the feeling, not the hand job. Unless she can do it, hand job I mean, in a teasing way. That she is doing it as part of being playful with my soul, not just doing it because it is obvious my nerves down there will get me aroused. It is not arousing if done like that. Except if she wants to intentionally tease me with this obvious part 😬.. still I'd love it because it has a meaning or feeling behind it. Otherwise, She has to initiate it, and just fondle me as if she is fondling my hand, head, back, or whatever else, and my Johnny is no different. I may take her hand as asking her, but in the context mentioned.

Same applies to her, when I love her, I lick her, wherever licking occurs.. simply because I won't lick a person I find interesting at street 😅
It even feels better when licking or fondling odd parts, for example shaved armpits.. I don't know if you saw that. But there are some people who like it.. including me. Not full licking, at least around it and catching the small sweat droplets with any other available playing around 😐

The thought is that I was once discussing armpit thing with a friend, he said he would like his fuckbuddy to have some armpit hair. I totally understand him, and probably some other guys do understand what this is. As in, a ready package -all shaved- is nothing new, but with little pubic or armpit hair, you feel excited that you are having her, and you accept her even with that part of her.

So, I think guys do not need it as an obligation. But naturally it would be lovely if she knows how to do it, yet if I was to ask, I typically like and prefer her head, or do it in the context of playfulness or teasing or special bonding mentioned previously. And you can see this context meaning conveyed in almost or if not all other guy opinions.

I simply would never ask her to suck or give a hand job if doesn't want.. yet I know how to play with her so we can play lovingly with bodies of each other and share these caring vibes 😌

😂😂😂

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Do Guys Even Want Hand Jobs Anymore? Yes, absolutely. Is it different when it's your partner's hand? Yes, for multiple reasons.  
 *There is the psychological effect of being taken care of by your partner. 
 *She is able to to use two hands for additional good effects, such as testicle massage, perineum teasing and anal fingering. *Like with Cowgirl Sex, you get excellent visuals if her shirt is open or she is naked to the waist... watching her work... boobs swaying. In Detail:  Can You Climax From Your Partner Just Jacking You Off? Meaning NO sucking or licking... Absolutely yes. Lotion and using both hands almost guarantees it. Like everything else, there is a learned skill set. Follow Up Question: Are Hand Jobs Just A Tease OR A Necessary Part Of Foreplay? They can be: *A fun brief tease even without a happy ending. *Foreplay for a blow job or sex. 
 *The Main Event. 
 
 What more can I tell you?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When Aunt Flo is visiting, me and my man don't make love so I always try to / suggest that he get some fun despite us not being able to go the whole 9 yards. I pride myself on taking care of my man by selflessly giving him hand and blowjobs when we can't make love

MrsJaximus-Lion · Accepted Answer

i can barley manage with switching because i get so tired and going only hands will kill my hands wrists i can do it for few seconds and then switch to other things

MrOracle · Answer

For me, it's fine for some foreplay, but the chances of her being able to finish me that way are very small, and if she's not using lube, she's probably going to chaff me trying. I feel like once you graduate high school, you're kind of past the limits of HJs, and should be on to better things. I'm sure others disagree, but that's how I feel.

rkf_helps_247 · Answer

Oohh yes... It's very different feeling when we jerk off and when our partner jerks us off.

Do we need partner for handjob?
Yes and no.

Yes... we need a partner to have fun with us and jerk us off. It'll be more fun, coz you're not in control of jerking. And she can control when you cum and not cum.

No... we basically started jerking off when we were teenagers. And we still jerk off like that. So it's not a huge deal if they don't give us one. Coz we'll do it ourselves.

We can definitely cum on either.
But i think we'll cum faster if we're jerking off. Coz most of us... when we're at the point of cumming... we can't stop. Some natural instinct thing i guess. Coz we jerk faster at that point and just cum.

But when partner does it... unless the guy has probs with premature ejaculation, the jerking part is gonna last a while.

But just jerking without anything else could get boring. That's why it's always recommended to jerk with hand and mouth.
Both are important as part of foreplay and such

Hope i was able to shed some light on this 🙂

scholastic_vibez · Answer

It depends on how good she is at talking dirty while giving you the handjob. It’s more enjoyable if it was her idea, and she enjoys doing it to you. Lastly I really like if a girl with long nails giving a handjob because its more cat-like, and sexy.

centerline · Answer

YES... hand jobs are the very best... when we are tired or not really into reciprocating, a hand job is the answer to giving us a big smile... and if you do it willingly, its so much better than having us ask for it..

Kittyboy · Answer

For me handjobs are just a tease... cause that's me^^ and teasing me is the whole point, I'll probably experience some soon but I can only talk from how I love it in erotica, porn, art, related to tease and denial: it bores me to watch a basic-handjob, it "meh"s" me in art if a basic handjob is depicted and she's just saying "not now", or "you're not allowed to cum", even if that's denial and technically it gets my rocks off.

So yeah it gets old, but what I really love is for exemple focusing on the head, one-finger "hand"jobs, excessively teasy ones, head polishing, bare almost insensitive finger taps, edging of course, everything else you do with an hand.

Now when I'll be experiencing it, it's gonna be both from a born-again-virgin experience (got some 8 years ago, unrealted to my current identity integrated into kink), and well... I should be so crazily horny from everything before, and potenitally not allowed for long to have done it to myself, so I'd not get the luxury to find that even a flick is a too-low hanging fruit :D

(and out-of-context, thanks from your like coming from nowhere on my all recent answer on the strap-on + chastity post, I'm sure I blushed and double checked it wasn't you that posted this question lol)

Chriscunning · Answer

Hands jobs are still awesome. I love / hate it when it get ruined! So cruel.

skullwulf · Answer

I get surprise hand jobs all the time. And I love every one of them. I like the eye contact. The sexy chat durning and watching them titys shake from the work she's putting in!!

TonyV · Answer

Oh yeah it's different when someone else grabs it, I've had a bad stripper grab me threw my pants, its definitely different when it's not my hand.

So yeah I still want hand jobs

I can finish with a handjob

It may not be a "necessary" part of foreplay but at least from time to time why not? It's one more way to mix things up.

JigyW · Answer

Yes, even from a handjob I would cu*m. Who wouldn't?

triff · Answer

Yes definitely Hand jobs are so different to a blow job A hand job is a visual climax Watching the person become so happy with result More a shared outcome

Jjpayne · Answer

It's not a goal for me but if she wants to I'm open to it

pierre7i · Answer

A handjob done nicely & sensually can be amazingly pleasurable, even more so if the girl edges the process

2 examples are especially exciting for me:

* during massage (either in a sexual health massage session or as foreplay) when a girl teases the whole pubic & genital area with 'butterfly' strokes, then concentrates on slow, sensual massage of the by now ultra-hard pns with the fingers of one hand while encircling the ballsack tightly with the thumb & forefinger of her other hand and pulling it firmly downwards -- the resultant orgasm can be mind-blowingly sensational

* frenulum massage: when a girl kneels facing me between my spread part legs, my knees upright, and massages the underside of the head (frenulum) of my pointing-straight-up so-hard pns with her 2 thumbs -- done sensually + rythmically this always leads to an orgasm of electrifyingly beautiful sexual pleasure and a fountain of warm whiteness

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I can't climax with only HJs and it's more like a foreplay and under intercourse too. Am gonna get that penis soap one day :P i love it.

Barry88 · Answer

Handjobs can be very nice. I think they are underrated! Sometimes it's just what you want... a girl taking your dick in her hand and giving you a nice handjob.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Did I miss something, like the commercialization of something so awesome that people resent the notion of slumming in heaven in comparison too whatever wonderful distraction from one of life's greatest joys you are asking about? Unless this pandemic has destroyed all testosterone and estrogen on 🌎, I will always be receptive too a skilled handjob performed by a sincere, friendly lady with a healthy libido and an appreciation of male anatomy.

Glojoeblo · Answer

I'll take one any day gives more mouth to mouth time. I'll need to be rubbing you too though at least eventually.

josephinelcajon · Answer

Yes I like a simple HJ

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

I think it's a total diffenrence. Sure is a climax possible if it's done right ;) for me it's not an necessary part of foreplay, but I don't mind it. I am also happy getting just a handjob. It's still a lot better then soloplay :D

QuestionMark19 · Answer

I like getting handjobs. Keep in mind that the two hander-interlocking thing is a porn thing, really. Most guys aren't big enough for this.

0112358 · Answer

Yeah I like them. As long as she’s into it not acting like “is this gonna end”. Also I guess it does take a little technique not a lot but a little, if the guy is circumcised. My impression is that in countries where circ is the norm a lot of women basically skip developing any confidence with hj and go straight to bj.

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