Do you think slutty women should wear a colored bracelet to be recognized?

[Anonymous]

For instance :
I'm a whore: pink
Sub woman: black
Into rapeplay : red
Crazy about threesome: blue
What do you think?

[On_the_other_hand]

I think it would be more useful for a girl to wear a bracelet that indicated what kind of interactions they like.

1. I don't like strangers approaching me.
2. Strangers can approach me but that doesn't mean I will be interested (but I will be kind no matter what).
3. I'm ok flirting at the gym
4. I feel feminine and I like a masculine man who likes traditional gender roles.
5. I'm gay
6. I'm bi
7. I'm conservative
8. I'm liberal
9. I'm in a relationship
10. If I'm interested I will make the first move

99% of guys will do whatever she wants. He just doesn't know what she wants... so he ends up doing NOTHING.

[Asker]

Exactly. No bad surprise. For instance, a guy tries rough sex with a girl who's into something more respectful or the other way around.

[asshole_]

yeah

should men do the same?

[Asker]

Why not? Any suggestions?

[asshole_]

nope

[Asker]

All right. You can go now.

[asshole_]

yet im the one with mho

[kaylaS91]

That sounds like a way to make it even easier for women to put a target on their back and attract negative judgement/harassment while out in public.

[Asker]

And?

[kaylaS91]

and?

[EyesOfGod]

If they into rape play wouldn't that sound like to some people they want to be raped?

[Asker]

@EyesOfGod Honestly, if that's what they're into...

[kaylaS91]

@eyesofgod Rape-play is a fantasy where someone engages in pretend rape, after everyone involved agrees to certain things like safe-words, boundaries, etc.. . Rape is when someone is penetrated without consent or limits.

[Asker]

How can something called "rape-play" even exist?

[kaylaS91]

It’s definitely a controversial kink that’s not that widely practiced because many question it from an ethical perspective. People who are into it are also super stringent on the rules as it’s super easy to switch from rape-play to rape in the blink of an eye. But ummm.. from what I’ve read, people into rape play seem almost like radical BDSM fans. I know there’s a bit of a therapeutic aspect to it for people who’ve actually been raped to recreate their rape but the fact that it will be done so that now, it’s 100% consensual will help them ‘regain’ control of their sexuality? (Lots of reading available on the psyche of rape play. Fucked but interesting nonetheless 🤷🏻‍♀️)

[Asker]

This is so offensive for rape victims. Some of my relatives and a friend d of mine were raped. Is it a joke for these persons? How can they "play" rape? Is rape funny?

[kaylaS91]

... play as in ‘role play’. I thought you were familiar with that. You’ll have to ask the rape victims you know if it’s a joke for them. It’s not a joke in the context of therapy, though.

[Asker]

Therapy? Like a psychodrama?

[kaylaS91]

Therapy like CBT

[Asker]

Psychodrama would be more accurate. But how is it therapeutic?

[kaylaS91]

They’re both used in conjunction with each other. Like I said, there’s lots of information to read up on this topic so feel free to google whatever answers you’re looking for

[Asker]

I see. An other question : do only women who have been raped want to experience that kind of things?

[nerdybutlazy]

No, there's a lot of talk about it in BSDM, but some people find 'rape play" interesting because of the power dynamic changing. I highly doubt anyone would ever want to be raped but for some people the idea of having all there power taken away is hot. After all, rape isn't just about sexual satisfaction it's also about a lust for power

[Asker]

@nerdybutlazy And it's ok?

[nerdybutlazy]

For someone people yah, not only women are into rape play some men to do it too, in some cases, it helps people get over the experience when they do it with a trusted romantic partner. and I mean if you want people walking around with coloured bracelets like that I don't think you should really judge them

[Asker]

@nerdybutlazy yes men enjoy to rape the girls lol

[nerdybutlazy]

Not all men just the few

[Asker]

@nerdybutlazy are you kidding me? So many slap, spank, choke women during sex. Is that "regular sex" for you?

[nerdybutlazy]

A kink is a kink, you can't kink shame people and then walking around wearing bracelets calling yourself "whores", and saying this will help women if all men are rapists then doesn't that just mean that the guys will abuse this system and rape women more then they already are, like what's your point with this system then? is it sexual liberation for all or are you trying to aid rape statistics,? just cause you don't like spanking and chocking doesn't mean all women don't and it doesn't mean it's weird, I mean have you see 50 shades of grey get over it, not everyone is going to like the same stuff as you. They don't have to

[Asker]

@nerdybutlazy my point is: people want different things. People should be aware of what others want. Is wearing a bracelet a way to indicate what you want? It may be, yes.

[kaylaS91]

You could wear a bracelet (letting a few people with similar interests known and hope they.. approach you?) while also letting the majority of the population who are vanilla af know that you practice what they believe is inferior to them. ... or, you could take the smarter route and join fetlife to actually meet and hangout with people who you know not only are into the same kinks, but are also available/attractive enough. Take your pick

[Asker]

Fetlife sucks. It's just online anyway... It looks like a porn site.

[Anonymous]

Hilarious lol
Why not?

[AustinMan]

I feel like it just sets her up for being abused.

[Asker]

Who? Your girlfriend?

[AustinMan]

LOL!! No. A girl who wears the bracelets. Just my take on it.

[Asker]

Why would it be?

[AustinMan]

Some men react too aggressively to a display like that.

[Asker]

And?

[AustinMan]

It might give them the idea that they have her consent for things she's not ready to do.

[Asker]

If she's wearing the bracelet, she is.

[AustinMan]

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree. I have no problems with sending signals but that doesn't give her consent.

[Asker]

Whatever

[DonCachondo]

@AustinMan That's what the colors are for dawg!

[Justacatlady]

Good grief, why? For what purpose? I’d rather meet someone and once I like then talk about my kink. Not advertise it to the world

[Asker]

Are you ashamed?

[Justacatlady]

Not at all, but I also don’t open myself to ridicule from people who are judgmental and rude

[Asker]

Well if everyone does it...

[Justacatlady]

Still wouldn’t stop the rude people or judgment. There would still be people who either wouldn’t wear them or would wear ones that mean they are vanilla. This is not a good idea

[Asker]

Sluts should admit what they are 😌

[NamerOfStars]

I remember reading somewhere that there used to be a "handkerchief code" among gay guys in New York, decades before it became socially acceptable. They'd wear a colored hanky in one of their pockets, and color and positioning would signal what they were looking for. I suppose there could be some merit in having similar codes today. Come to think of it, there may be similar codes today, and no one would've told me...

[simonqq]

Lmao no, that's retarded. Also don't know what a slutty woman is.

[Asker]

Maybe buy a dictionary then

[simonqq]

Slut is only a derogatory word to describe women who are promiscuous and who gives a fuck if a woman is promiscuous or not. It's a useless word and even if there is a definition people don't use it for that definition most of the time. Again it's also just a derogatory to try and make some women seem less worth while thinking themselves are somehow better. This whole question is dumb.

[Asker]

Don't answer it then 🙃

[simonqq]

Can't always be surrounded by yes people :)

[Asker]

Sure but if you think the question is stupid, why bother?

[simonqq]

Didn't spend much time on it so why not. Also I despise the word slut and maybe it's a cultural thing but still equally stupid. It's a really outdated word in my opinion.

[Asker]

Whatever... You're probably or misogynistic dumbass anyway 😉

[simonqq]

Hahaha of course 😂

[MrNameless]

terrible idea. Society already judges sluts and deviants badly. Why not keep it to yourself instead of telling the world? People will judge you and dismiss you even before even getting to know you

[Asker]

No if everyone does it

[WolfyGirl2077]

Im not much for putting people into groups also this would prob ruin their lives aswell

[centerline]

i have always thought something like this would be a good idea... a shortcut to meeting the "right" people and hooking up...

and its not always about a girl, but couples who are into swinging, or people who are Bi...

maybe bumper stickers that are only recognized by the individual group or by people in the "lifestyle"...

[Asker]

Maybe guys should wear them too.

[ohshee]

I THINK. Ummm wait I think you should send me a message I want to go tell you something very Smart girl thank you

[Asker]

Don't be slutty!!

[Marcuslrh]

I dont think that's a good idea at all

[Berethor]

Yea, but the pink would be fitting for all those women, maybe with exception of some subs.

[Asker]

Slutty women. Are common on G@G but not in real life 😉.

[Berethor]

You sure? a know saw a lot of slutty women in real life, it's good women who are rare nowadays. :)

[Asker]

I'm pretty sure you're into sluts 😉

[Berethor]

Everyone are into sluts but a sluts are only good for a one-night stand or not even that. :)

tvtropes.org/.../MadonnaWhoreComplex

[Asker]

Big misogynist spotted ☝🏻😂

[AndyOh]

Maybe at a play party, those ideas would be great.

Out in society... nah, kind of dumb and you are asking for some real trouble from horny guys that feel they now have a girl who is a " whatever" in front of them, and they want a piece of the action.

[Asker]

Some girls are "whatever" lol

[Sapioit]

Good idea in theory, in practice can lead to a lot of problems, unfortunately.

[Asker]

Oh no!

[SjE78]

any tag or identifying item/tool could be seen as discriminary and could result in those women who know what they like and go for it as being pushed to the side or discarded entirely

besides the better option is to communicate with who you are with or want to be with and if they feel same way or willing to accept your interests then go from there

but the fact a woman is more submissive and open minded would be a good plus sign for me personally... however it all depends on how we click and get along that decides what happens next

[Miristheiss]

Well, it could never happen but, in a way, if all men and women in the dating pool wore things like that to accurately state their values, what they are after, what their tastes are it would save a lot of time and effort with people going directly after the type they want and people not wasting each others time.

If a guy wants a loose, slutty girl and he knows girl A is one... saves time... or if he does not want a loose woman... he can avoid all those that would waste his time.

If a girl wanted a relationship and a husband and could go after a guy who wanted that and wanted to avoid players... or vice versa... it would save a LOT of time and effort.

[ImagineSketchy]

Would just be a Scarlet letter thing. Most women probably wouldn't parade that about proudly. I feel there might be a decent amount of shame associated with it. A lot of women would need to wear multiple colors. Some might have a rainbow. I can't see it working out well.

[Asker]

I guess it would be really helpful and prevent a hell lot of violence.

[ImagineSketchy]

I don't see how it would prevent violence. Violence wouldn't stop just because we knew what women liked sexually.

[Asker]

OK, so for instance, if a woman had a threesome but don't wear the bracelet, then it was a rape which is illegal.

[ImagineSketchy]

That isn't accurate and leaves out a lot of variables. Rape is simply forced sex, always lacking consent.

[Asker]

So no bracelet, no consent

[ImagineSketchy]

Still wouldn't work out well... If she's not a whore, why would she need a bracelet? Maybe she gets involved with someone once a month. Maybe even less than that.

[Asker]

If she's not, why would she wear one?

[ImagineSketchy]

That's the point I'm getting at. Most women would not call themselves whores... Most women would not consider wearing these things. And just because she does any of these things doesn't make her a whore. Even if they did wear these bracelets, it wouldn't prevent violence.

[TraceyByrd]

Actually the color pink should be pure freshness which is perfect for me clearly the other colors can go in the trash.

Red should be skank alert which a lot should be wearing 😭💯

[Asker]

There should be an anti-feminist bracelet too.

[TraceyByrd]

🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

For the women who want to be treated like shit 💩

[Tobi_Lerone]

I think it's a bad idea. Maybe on some events it's okay so you see who is who. But in general? Bad idea even if it wozld make some things easier, like getting laid and so on. But this exposes people and they may get harrassed for it.

[Asker]

Maybe this would change the mentality

[Tobi_Lerone]

Maybe yeah. But when I see the people today I don't think so. I am openminded to thinks like that, but most people seem not to be.

[Asker]

Of course if no one's never willing to make some changes...

[Tobi_Lerone]

I am for free love in all situatuons. Nothing would make me happier if we could throw that "monogamy"-thing over board and have free love for all. But that not acceptes socially. And I don't see that people can change

[Asker]

Yeah yeah, men are always for "free love" 😂

[Tobi_Lerone]

Why not? If you hang bracelets on people's arms to show what they are interested in, it's the first step to free love or not?

[Asker]

Not really. The point is for every womand to get the "treatment" she wants.

[Nikkisadova]

This would be kinda thrilling.. putting myself out there with just a bracelet..

[Bowdabra]

what is next putting yellow stars on Jewish people?

[Asker]

No. Why?

[elizamichale1]

And what color will i choose then coz pink, red and blue are all for me

[Asker]

You'd wear many bracelets darling 😉