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Please Help My Sex Life! How Do I Ask For What I Need?

Starlight_Whimsy
So I’ve only ever been with two guys, one was my ex, and the other is this guy I’m currently in a very... non-labeled “thing” (idfk).

Anyway, he’s a bit bigger than my ex, and he fucking tears me every goddamn time. And I know I’m wet during sex, but it’s when we’re first starting that things are difficult because I’m particularly... tight I guess and it takes some work to get started. I want to tell him “hey, dude, either eat me out, use lube, spit start this, or at least spread my damn pussy juice around” cause ommmgggg he’s thick and the tearing is starting to become a problem.

Once we get going it’s fine, but starting out is impossible. I don’t know how to talk to him about this without ruining things. Me being too tight was a problem in my last relationship too and almost got me dumped because it was too much work but I managed to work around it. With this new guy he’s even bigger and that means more work, I don’t want to fuck things up.

HELP!
Please Help My Sex Life! How Do I Ask For What I Need?
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