Looking like a kid is a turn off? Baby face is a no?

I saw some post and comments about a girl looking younger than her age is a turn off? Me for sample, i got a baby face, being 22 yo but looking like a 15 yo, and i do dress up like one sometime i got miss understand as a teenager too. So is this also a reason why I am single and guys dont really ask me out? Guys seem scare cause i looking to young for to have sex? To what I usually wear and get misunderstand as a teenager.
Looking like a kid is a turn off? Baby face is a no?
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  • Yeaaah! Those dungarees without bra are already sexy in a pretty provocative manner. On their own they would not make you look like an underage though, if it was not for that Sylvester-cat pic on them... (oh dear, how do I write this)

    WARNING: Ok, now come some probably tough but very honest words. I want you to know that I do not mean to imply that you consciously try to create that impression your pic has on me and I apologize if there are any insulting statements in what follows. I think its easiest to be honest up to the risk of hyperbole in order to get that point across. Here we go:

    Sorry, but clothes with motives from child-cartoons is something 12 year olds would refuse to wear nowadays once they start to become interested in boys and do not want to dress like a primary school pupil anymore. That cat-image makes an otherwise edgy (but ok) dress-style outright *creepy*!

    Add some very red lipstick with no other makeup and you will very much look the lolita-style that is considered "barely legal" in a certain context...

    You have to understand that the single worst insult you can throw at any man is the word "pedophile". I am not a bit surprised that normal guys stay clear of you, when you dress that way - that is just over the top. Even I am scared / creeped and I am quite the opposite of a traditional-values person. You could wear a burka, a potato-bag or grandma's pyjamas and have less trouble dating guys. You are hitting the probably only remaining taboo right on the spot.

    There is however a certain kind of elderly man that would "invest" a lot in a "date" with a young woman styled that way. I mean the kind of creep no female would ever want to date and that most men would like to beat up on sight...

  • Nope.

    For that guy alone it's a turn off. Probably because, to him, girls like you look jailbait,

    It's more about charm and style when you're teen. In your 20's you mature a bit and you're after someone who can talk and earn as well.

    But if you're going for the "baby face" look. Then you're going to struggle, as teen guys will be too immature for you, and older guys will be a bit intimidating and too wanton.

    You'll probably find that you'll need to initiate the contact most of the time. The younger guys will take you for being out of their league, or taken. The older guys will take for being jailbait. It's similar for other girls who go for niche looks. I have a couple of cosplay mad female friends. They both look better than most celebrities most days, but struggle in relationships.

    In their case it's work commitments make it difficult to fit a relationship. But also going out, most men assume her guy friends like me are her SO or security detail.

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  • For women our inbuilt senses make us attracted to a man that looks like they can look after us! For men they are drawn to women who are fertile!
    Hence usually men are older than their partners

  • With boobs like that how would anyone confuse you with a 15 year old? They are too amazing to be on someone that young.

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  • I think age can be really difficult to determine sometimes but usually it's overall demeanor and behavior that is a turn off and not that they look young.

    I don't know what you look like besides your cleavage so can't really speak for your situation but personally never thought someone looked too young. Only times it's been a turn off is when I know their age or when they behave like a kid.

  • Oh yeah. With lush tits (a bod) like that I'd be afraid that you are too young for sex. LMAO
    I'd feel more secure if your face was more mature looking. LOL

    Looking like a kid is a turn off? Baby face is a no?

    In actuality, I LOVE women with fresh, baby faces. I can't imagine why anybody wouldn't. On top of being cute and sexy as hell, you'll age well.

  • no its NOT a turn off... I prefer young looking girls, but I want them with some experience and without inhibitions..

  • No. If I was in your age range and knew that you were “legal age”, I would have no problem dating you. Youthful appearance can be a turn on!

  • I avoided a girl who was hitting on me hard, she looked so young. Her girlfriend said she was 18, but I just wasn't going to risk it.

    I think she was over 18.

  • I think no one can say you are 15 while you have those boobs. Especially with those kind of revealing dresses. Just because it has a cartoon character on it, it doesn't mean that guys won't think of you sexually.

  • It just makes guys less likely to approach you if you look to young that's the only problem not knowing your age. Nothing wrong with looking younger I would take that as a blessing like I do it's great am 27 and people think I look a lot younger which I am definitely happy with just think would you rather look way older or way younger? Definitely younger for me just think when your in your late 30s and still look in your 20s you will be loving it

  • If you look underage I'm not going to be interested, that's just wrong.

    If you prove your age then I dont have a problem with it really

  • In a lot of ways it is a good thing that you look a lot younger than you are. As you get older this will play out in your benefit. I am the say way, as is my father. I look about 15 years younger than I am. And I feel that way too.
    As for you, being a girl, it probably does keep guys from approaching you, though with that chest, I would question if you really were 15 or so.
    Anyway relax and enjoy what you have. Later, you will have the upper hand.

  • Can I see your face?

  • Hmm might feel like a trap, obviously thinking about legal ages

  • Considering how many 23+ yo teenage-looking girls and 16- yo mature-looking girls I saw (and knew their ages), one of the first things I'm interested in in a girl is if she's legally an adult or not. I sometimes even asked girls to show me their ID (here, you can find their birthday from their ID, even if the dates themselves are not explicitly written, they're part of the unique ID number), because I didn't believe them.

    For me, it's not a turnoff, it's actually a turn-on, if she is 18+ but looks much younger. Why? Because, statistically speaking, the chances of her preserving her young looks for longer than girls who look older than they are, those chances are very high. So if she will look younger than she is even when she's in her 40s and 50s, all that much better for me!

  • thing is looking young and being too young are two completely different things, same way being legal age of consent and actually being of legal age of consent are...

    some people cannot seem to accept or cope with the fact someone looks younger than they actually are, and therefore instead of being able to differentiate between legal and not for them is difficult... for me as long as someone is truly legal age or rather 18 and over, but at most 10 years younger than myself and as long as we click... i honestly dont mind... and i've dated a couple of women who had babyfaces over the years and each one were similar ages to you, or bit older..

  • A girl having a so-called baby face where some people think she looks younger than her actual age isn't a turnoff. It's actually a gift.

  • If a girl is attractive and if she is old enough, I'm fine with it. Some girls look way younger than they are, no problem for me. Seems the rest of your body looks like a grown woman. :)

  • I want to have sex with you.

  • I mean at first it seems like you look very good. But it maybe that guys think "wow she's damn hot, but looks to young". So guess you have to do first step then to take the fear of doing something illegal away :D

  • If you're East Asian then it's fine cos alomst all girls there look younger than they are.
    Any other race, I personally wouldn't want to feel like a pedo hitting on someone who looks 15. Even if they are 18 it will constantly be at the back of my mind that they look like a kid.

  • it's just a "turn off", if you fear to be put in jail for touching her xD

  • natural is the best , but if a woman is doing it on purpose its kinda tackey

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