Is rough sex part of BDSM?

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  • Of course it is. Rough sex can basically be either B/D, D/S, S/M or all of these at the same time.

    • I agree 😊

  • Yes, it is. How could rough sex be vanilla lol?

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  • Well duh because BDSM is far from being vanilla

    • Yes or no?

    • Yes!

    • Obviously. Some people deny it, I don't know why. It's crystal clear that it is though.

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  • Not always you could just enjoy being told what to do but not wanting it extremely hard I enjoy it rough but not everybody does and you don’t have to to be part of BDSM

    • Is being told what to do not part of BDSM?

    • Again sometimes it is sometimes it isn’t BDSM is a very wide range of fetishes and relationships

    • Indeed. So what is rough sex if not BDSM?

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  • It can be. BDSM is much more than that. There is a very strong emotional component. A lot of amateur BDSMers do not understand that.

    • How can rough sex not be part of BDSM?

    • I'm not saying it cannot be. I'm saying it is not always essential or present. There are things such as orgasm control, non violent punishment etc. etc. etc.

    • So how could it be or couldn't be BDSM? What are the differences?

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  • To me rough sex means aggressive and passionate sex, along with manhandling, biting, choking, hair-pulling, back scratching. Sometimes it's one-way, but it can go both ways where both are being rough with each other. The woman doesn't necessarily have to be completely submissive here.

    Sometimes I really enjoy it when it kind of feels like a fight because she's aggressively turned on too. While I'm on top of her with a fist-full of her hair fucking her roughly, she's digging her nails into my back.

    BDSM to me is the other stuff. Giving orders and telling her exactly what to do, bondage, impact play (spanking with implements), speech restrictions ("yes Sir"), verbal humiliation (name-calling). The difference being the toys and the woman acting in a completely submissive manner.

    Rough sex can be part of the latter for sure, but it can also be separate. There are plenty of people who love rough sex without the BDSM stuff involved. Rough sex is more just aggressive/passionate, and BDSM is more "I'm in charge and you do as you're told". That's how I'd differentiate the two at least.

    • BDSM isn't just about submission...

    • No, also bondage and sadomasochism. I supposed things like hair pulling, spanking, choking etc. could be classed as a form of sadomasochism, but like I said there are people who like rough sex without all the rest. Those people would say that they're not into BDSM.

    • Rough sex is about masochism/sadism and submission/domination.

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