A mother's battle scares; stretch marks & C section scars How do you feel about it? Men do you give it much thought? Women do you still feel sexy?

[meetkitty123]

WOMEN DO YOU STILL FEEL SEXUALLY APPEALING AND CONFIDENT AFTER PREGNANCY? Does it affect your sex life?

For the most part I come off sexy and confident but I figured I'd share something. I don't much care for my stomach. I've had two pregnancies. I've lost quite a bit of weight. There's a touch of stretch marks or slight loose skin. Both pregnancies had to be c-sections.
Of course they never cut in the same spot though they say they will. So I have two scars.

I did not stay with the father of my children. so when I entered the dating world it was very difficult for me. I was afraid the men would find it unattractive because they were not the ones who made me pregnant.

2 C-SECTION SCARS

My man was very sweet. He's never complain about the marks and he's even kissed them for me. However I still feel self-conscious when he runs his hands on my stomach. I don't like being touched above the panty line and between the navel. Of course sometimes the c-section scars are still sensitive even after all this time.

I sometimes wonder how other men feel about the marks or do they feel indifferent as well? Especially if they're dating a woman who's had children prior to them coming together. I've posted a few more examples I found online.

[spartan55]

First of all, I commend you for having the courage to post those pictures after sharing your insecurities about your c-section scars. With so many females on this site choosing to go anonymous to ask the most inane stupid questions, it is refreshing to see you completely own it.
Second, I think your scars are nothing to be ashamed of, and are something that are a part of you as a beautiful person.
Lastly, your mindset and overall confidence make any physical imperfections you have irrelevant. Your guy is very lucky.

[meetkitty123]

Thank you. I thought I could make the post without using my own picture but I couldn't find any with two C-section scars All I could find was an appendix scar and a c-section scar and that wasn't what I wanted. So I opt to use my own picture it's the only one with two scars. the 2nd picture after the baby pic.

[meetkitty123]

I was nervous about posting it but I figured what the heck I'm trying to boost my confidence up anyways time to get out of the comfort zone

[spartan55]

You did something that 90+% of the females on here wouldn't ever do, that in itself is sexy af.

[meetkitty123]

Lol Now I feel like Bashful from snow white. Im red cheeks ☺️. I am flattered ☺️ by your words thank you.

[Chiefbenttwig]

Are you ashamed of your children?
Do you feel regret that you had children? IF you do then you have no right to be called a mother or honey or any terms of endearment, because you are a shallow individual & should be hung with your own scares.
The battle scares, wounds & trama that you speak of should be seen as medals of honor, bravery & triumph. If Webster's dictionary were as intelligent has a cream that would be they would say the true definition "LOVE" can be seen on a mother's stomach the scars and, she trama that she endures during the 9 month of gestation
Is the true meaning of love.
If men are replaused by the sight of a woman scares from her pregnancy that doesn't know the meaning of true love & is a very shallow pathetic little boy.
I applaud you & every mother that wear these badge of Love.
May God bless each &every one of YOU.

[bleh27]

I didn't have a c-section but I myself am struggling to be comfortable in my own skin. I've never thought of myself as particularly sexy but my boyfriend has always put in effort to make me feel that way. Here lately even that doesn't help. What my body accomplished is beautiful but I just don't like it at all anymore

[HeadCase1]

Just remember. A body ages over time. None of us will never have the body of a 16 year old again. Never compare yourself to others.

[Guardian45]

You sound like you have body image anxiety. At least your profile pic is beautiful. Please speak to a mental health professional 🙏

[HeadCase1]

Many women have issues with their bodies. It doesn't mean they need psychiatric help. A good therapist will tell you. If your issues are not interfering with your daily life you don't need any treatment.

[meetkitty123]

@bleh27 The aftermath of pregnancy, struggling with weight or sometimes just being a woman in todays society of perfect imagery is a challenge. One I struggled with internally. I too am fortunate to have a man who encourages me even if I put on 10 pounds loose five or simply nudge his hand Off my scared area. He loves me. Yet I'm still sensitive about my belly. So I understand when you say you are struggling. I hope with time it gets better for you. I found I am beginning to feel very confident when I wear things that hide the marks. This post is my attempt to step out of my comfort zone and embrace my new body. I wish you the best thanks for sharing.

[HeadCase1]

If having a scar is a true issue no matter where it is located it can be made less noticeable through some minor surgery.

[meetkitty123]

@HeadCase1 👍 That is very true but perhaps best done if a woman is done with child baring

[HeadCase1]

True

[MrsJaximus-Lion]

my best friend has 2 daughters and her third is in the way and her first baby she had a C section and if it was turn off for her man he wouldn't make her pregnant 2 times more for it and i think she is gonna have another c section for her third baby

[centerline]

a REAL man will understand the scars (and probably have a few of his own)...

scars are not often considered sexy, but some are... but they ALWAYS show that we've been there and done that, and lived to tell the story about the scars...

I dont think anyone needs to put any energy into trying to feel proud of the scars, but they should never be ashamed of them or feel they are ugly... they are a part of us and are really no different than the wrinkles we get as we age... and if one is living right, they won't have time to worry about a few scars, but only about when and where the next one will be...

[DSimus]

I chose sexy

but really I'd only find it sexy on the mother of my children. A proud mark of bearing my children.

[ohshee]

Ok Time out time out Time out , i jave been reading your post and answering them for awhile sbd i love them I've seen your heart your passion your desire your horniness i have seen all the beauty with in i have seen and felt the real you. And you are a very beautiful sexy person within thst is who you are ok so now I have seen your face again Mmmm still very beautiful and today I have seen your body * time out * need to be a smart ass for a min the purple panties picture Mmmm so freaking hot * ok time in ,, lol. If a guy you like only likes you for you body and your with him because of that well good luck,,, but if a man likes you because you are you Mmmm he's a good guy you just need to keep being you being happy and wearing purple panties lol sorry had to say it the part of you you don't like that's your choice years ago when I was married my ex had same issue's I woukd rub lotion every night or other night on those places it works your body changed change it back by rubbing it. It will take about a year so do this you have these pictures this time next year show mtpe your new picture after rubbing lotion in all the places u don't like and please send to me
Ps the purple panties picture you can send every day if you want lol

[meetkitty123]

Thank you for the sincere words. I appreciate it. 🤔 As for the purple panties... I think I tossed them back in the drawl where all my undies have been retired to or hibernating since quarantine. I have had no use for them except for taking that picture 🤣 🙄 Apparently the website wouldn't appreciate it otherwise 🤣 😇😇

[Apple1996]

I luckily have no scars or stomach stretch marks from my pregnancies. I have some on my boobs and ass. They are unnoticeable to most people though so I never struggled with my body after having kids.

[AndyOh]

To me is shows that you have gone through the trial of having kids. My hat's off to all women who have had kids. I have dated women who had the scars of childbirth and I have never thought negative of it. I say wear them proudly and if a guy is a jerk about them, then you know what kind of guy he is.
So be proud, and enjoy your body, sexually as well. Good guys will appreciate it.

[Jjpayne]

Being a father, it's with pride and happiness that I kiss them. :)

But for a woman I did not have a baby with... It makes it slightly more awkward... I'm honestly not sure... I think appearance wise it's harder to be sexier and as a guy I'd worry about hurting the girl by putting pressure on the wound accidentally. And this is all involving intimacy specifically.

It's not a deal breaker per say... It's just awkward

[Browneye57]

Sex and intimacy is simply not about your flaws. You worry too much.

[MannMitAntworten]

It doesn’t remotely bother me or take away from her in my mind.

[Makeushiver]

If they are on an otherwise attractive body, don't worry about it,

[Thatsamazing]

Uh, can't vote for any option-- I would vote C but I'm not "struggling" to find it sexy, because it/they isn't/aren't sexy. It's not complicated, really.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thank you for posting those pictures. That was very brave of you. And it gave me better understanding of what a C-section actually is. Because before this point I didn't really know.

If my woman had a C-section then obviously I could never be mad about that and I would always respect her greatly for what she had to go through to bring our child into the world.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Guys will be anywhere from disgusted to loving it. We do not know the reason why you had to get a c-section and it's not a thing to be ashamed of. It is a part of who you are. It just means you brought a precious life into the world. I for one do not find it to be disgusting.

[larry69]

You look great. Its a situation that is very positive. The scars are hardly noticeable. Look at what the scars represent. Its symbols of your love for your children.

[TisTheTruth]

I think stretch marks and C-section scars are proof of some one who has survived some extreme change in their life. These are true women who don't mess around and can live life like they mean it. This for me is the sexiest any woman can be!!! Wear them with pride. It doesn't reduce anyone's sex appeal in anyway.

[meetkitty123]

Thank you so much.

[COMMODOREII]

Sounds like my mother's story tbh. 🌹

[pizzalovershouse]

No i dont mind them if she doesn't mind my scars from ny exstrne sports acidents some of mine would make glad your not me

[jasco]

i frankly don't care that much i mean life is life so it is what it is but u can hide those with different things but i don't care that much

[KrakenAttackin]

"Did not stay with the father of my children". ... and immediately condemned your children to all of the failures and problem associated with being raised by a single-mother, all so you can go back to riding the cock carousel.

Another wildly selfish woman.

[meetkitty123]

@krakenattackin Thank you for your input it was very valuable I appreciate your concern for my children not too many people are genuine like you are I suppose you forgot that you have commented before on another post and therefore you know the story to the father but that's okay cuz you're only human I'm sure it's hard to keep track of everyone you follow but I appreciate your following me thank you. You following me does of course help promote my post. I hope you have a wonderful day

[alance99]

I would say i am very young for this but in my point of view, a woman goes through a lot in her life and carrying a baby for nine months isn't easy at all and i would always make her feel sexy and comfortable about her body and scars and stretch marks dont matter to me at all

[bamesjond0069]

its only sexy if its from my kids. If its from some other dudes kids its not hot and i dont want to see it.