Do you feel attached to the person you lost your virginity to?

Any sort of attachment or perhaps resentment? 🤨
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  • In a way. I still think fondly of her and hope she's doing well, but I don't think about her very often.

  • I have the deepest respect for the young girl that took my virginity as I took hers at the same time.

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  • I don't feel attached or resentful of the guy I had sex with for the first time.

  • Yes. When I left my first wife after 27 years, she was one of the first people I thought of. Turns out she's still married to my old college nemesis.

  • Not anymore... Wasn't a great experience as I recall.

  • Resentment I feel. I don't feel attachment of any sort. I wish I could just erase that part of my past entirely, as it makes me physically sick whenever I remember it

  • If the fact that we are still friends means attached then yes I am.

  • A prostitute on Washington St,, 3AM, drunk out of my mind, a cop car behind me on the street, after being a groomsman at a friend's wedding the night before? I don't think so.
    All I can feel is sorry for her, and sorry for me.

  • I don't maybe because I only new her for a couple years

    Ok so let's say your thinking about it doing it,, and your a Virgin because you believe in something as your getting older u have and get more feelings and you think deeper you masturbate more and one day you just want it ,, in time things happen and the moment it happens it's over LMAO. and you say WAIT WTF JUST HAPPEN And on you way home your talking to your self BIG TIME, LOL. THINKING did she like it. WTF was I thinking I'm going to have to go to help for that nooooo.. nooo way that sucks you replay it over and over few days go's by phone rings and its her or him, and they say um did you like that. ,, and you have to be honest and say Yes as LMAO. ,, no it sucked it wasn't you I think it was me and she agreed .. Lol then you hear the words you want to come over no one's going to be here to night. In my mind I hear hello. Hello and I'm standing at her door Ding ding the door bell rings ,, i wake up and say yes i will come over,, and and once again it starts and ends lasted maybe 1 min longer lol. And we are laying there talking and she said it was better no we have done it 4 times all together. And as we are laying there it all hits me. There's no way out of this I will be in hell before I'm 18 and I'm thinking God going to take me anytime for get this I'm up going out happy I need to do it and make it last all night and I said let me try some thing I started and stoped and started and the more I kissed and touched the more she was moaning ok time out wrong question.
    What I'm trying to say is depending who you pick to have sex with make sure you like him and he's going to make it all about you other wise your going to be talking to your self ,, it can be a very beautiful moment if I could do it all over I WOULD but with someone I really wanted to do it with I did it with that chick because she was older than me and she wanted to do it lol. But you know what I take it all back I need to thank her because that night I learn to make it about her all about her and it was so much better an add another million years I thin I've gotten a little more better I hope I forget was the question was but be ready because that's what u really wan , and pick the right guy and no matter what you can't change it so learn from it

  • I didn't and part of me wishes I did.

  • You always remember your first. But that is it.

  • Yes I have I did and have massive resentment for that person I hate with a passion because of how they left me as we was due to move in to our new house together and she just up and left less than two weeks before no answers as to why or anything nothing what a joke waw you got me fired up now😅

  • Not there yet but I'm pretty sure that I will when it happens

  • Yeah, I'm still very attracted to the woman I gave my virginity to, we're still dating till this daym

  • I haven’t seen that person in 32 years. No.

  • No, we where together for 15 years but strangely I do not feel a connection to her at all besides my daughter

  • Not attachment nor resentment. It was a hookup. I had no emotional connection. The sex wasn't good but i don't blame that on her. Could have been worse considering it was my first time.

  • Yes. I have nothing but very fond memories for the person that I lost my virginity to. To this day I still wish that it worked out between us, but unfortunately just due to life circumstances we gradually grew apart. I am married now but I still think of her as my friend even though we haven't seen each other for quite some time. I would hope that she would feel the same.

  • Nope it was a mistake

  • No, that was a wam bam thank you moment and nothing more.

  • If it is the only person I get it. But if you have this problem just have sex with more people

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