BLOWJOBS... How does a female make a blowjob more enjoyable for the male? He enjoys it but I want it to be more fun and exciting?

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Dargil · Accepted Answer

I want it to be more fun and exciting. The fun and excitement are found in intercourse. A blowjob is all about  nurturing sexual therapy.  It's sole purposes are arousal and a satisfying orgasm. If you want to accomplish that, this is how you do it. A skilled blow job is the single most important sexual thing you can do for a guy. Most girls do not know how to give an effective one. They have to resort to trial and error, partly because guys can't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of ejaculation. What struck me is how much alike they all were. So I laid out an effective routine. With no porn drama necessary, here's what works. *What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. The goal is to get us hard and drooling precum, but not too near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production of semen so his volume will be bigger and his orgasm will be stronger. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. Five to ten minutes is good. *You make a blow job  all about him.  It is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking. Conversely, vigorous stroking overwhelms the head, and the shaft doesn't respond as well to a mouth as it does to a hand. So a good blowjob is  suck and stroke.  In the early stage, they are synchronized, with your hand just below your mouth, bobbing and stroking in unison. This will get him ready to cum. It should only take five to seven minutes after foreplay, once you get the hang of it. *Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. It is OK to level off to "edge" him for a short while, to make him last a little longer, so long as you don't  lose ground.  When he starts to buck and breathe deep, he is ready to cum.  Go aggressive.  Increase the intensity and speed of sucking and bobbing to where you can still sustain that for a few minutes and break away hand stroking to go as fast as you can with a moderate grip. *He wants to cum in your mouth while you suck and stroke. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight-suck only. Keep hand stroking, but at a slower pace, to coax out the last squirts. If you have a gag reflex at ejaculation, curl your tongue up to deflect the stream. You should  like  doing this. *Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. Also a little  brief , occasional "suckling", like a baby on a pacifier, is a good tease while we drain. It will make him jump, but he will like it. *Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out; particularly true with braces. *Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could. *He may instinctively grab your head and try to drive deep when he cums. It's nothing personal. It's biology. You can avoid choking by gripping his penis firmly in front of your mouth so he can't drive it in too deeply. *Swallowing is up to you as it gives no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I actually like her to spit the load into her palm so we see how we did, like this.  *There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job, where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious. Developing this skill can help cement your relationship and make it less likely he will cheat. A skilled blowjob is not slutty and don't act that way. A blowjob is  girl power.  One more thing. This Meme is funny but absolutely true.

Amraam · Accepted Answer

Personally I do not care about blowjob. If my partner doesn't start doing it or asks for it I would never specifically ask her to do it. However, there may be some ways to make your mouth more enjoyable. For me, it is less teeth and more flesh. Put your tounge in the play, let it sit firmly on the underneath the penis in your mouth, press against it and lick its head. use your lips, turn your mouth into a fuckable vagina. dont be afraid to make it wet, spit on it, let yur saliva drip from your mouth and make a mess, the more slippery the better

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

a man likes to be treated special without a doubt... so that means undoing his shoes but them dirty shoes on your thighs as you untie them and take them off... take off his socks be sure to fold them nicely... undo his belt and zipper/buttons... lower his pants... pull down his underwear... kiss his leg kiss his stomache... maybe even kiss his feet a little kiss his toes... then start in with his blowjob however and deep as you wish to give.

Quackthulu · Accepted Answer

Tease him, use your hands, don't neglect the balls, look into his eyes, moan just enough to convince him that you enjoy doing it but not so much to be porn star fake.

AustinMan · Answer

Is this helpful?

centerline · Answer

squeeze it tight around the base and work the head and about 2 inches down the shaft below the head...

deep throating is good too... I've have had a couple girls who could swallow it, and they would put pressure at the base with their teeth, and it would drive me crazy. then pull off of it to catch their breath and then do it again...

godfatherfan · Answer

I have seen more then one of these kind of posts. exactly what else needs to be done? As a male, I don't want a blowjob to be fun. I want it to be pleasurable. it isn't really exciting, it is enjoyable. Fun and exciting are two words that don't belong aside the word of act of blowjob.

Marcuslrh · Answer

Just dont forget to play with the balls multitasking is key

bigmatt98 · Answer

Focus on the foreakin as well add a little bite here and there don't tske his dick off though. Judt mix it up make it very sloppy don't swallow your spit just spit it on the cock and even play with your self while you do really add that extra factor

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

Maybe ask the guy himself? Since everyone has a different taste what pleasures him/her it's not easy to make common rule for this.

perineum · Answer

While giving him a blowjob make sure to massage the area between the base of the balls and anus. This is a very tender spot and will make him cum when you get tired of giving him head.

Bowdabra · Answer

To make it more enjoyable for him you might want to ask him

Browneye57 · Answer

Get naked. Use both hands. Vary speed, watch for his response. You ever find the Stormy Daniels vids? OMG can she suck a dick! LOL

es20490446e · Answer

It's just that simple.

genericname85 · Answer

ask your male. cause he knows best what he likes. not all males are the same ;)

hellacray · Answer

Try dressing up as Batman and choking yourself with a belt while you do it.

wondering_guy · Answer

I'd like it passionately, her taking her time, having it be more like she wants it rather than get to the finish line

jmf909 · Answer

Well I don't know your technique but I like variety and not just up and down twist your head squeeze it with your hand lick the head only de eR p throat it but make it touch somewhere your cheek roof of your mouth stroke down inner thigh around other back of knees tickle his feet if can reach. look him in the eye and wink at him. and tell him he has a b jig dick and you love it and bigger then your ex's that sort of thing

Rocco70 · Answer

Put some vaseline on it, shouldn't taste bad, makes him feel more sensitive, massage his balls while going down. Dont just bend down your head over him, turn on your side , you too. Do it from behind and from sides. The most useful tip, the best is dont just bob your head up and down, like a machine. Use you tongue and mouth and literally suck, like a hungry baby, slow and steady, faster then medium then slow etc. Run fingertips through pubic hair, just make his dick your whole attention. Make him groan.

Wise4myage · Answer

Use your tongue a lot and don't neglect his balls, they love to be licked and tickled. Flick your tongue all around the tip, that feels so good. Suck him off in different positions, like on your knees or in the 69 position.

joeldalton · Answer

Massage his prostate.

SirrVeta · Answer

Foreplay is important. Touch his balls and touch the side ereas next to the dick and just genly move your hand over the skin. Look at him sexy a lot and even look at him while sucking sometimes. Biting your lip is a turn on aswell. Sucks his balls aswell and when you suck his cock you could also play a bit with his balls. If he got foreskin then he would probably like it when your tongue would go under it and just move there. You should use your tongue a lot anyways and maby put it deeper in your mouth by doing a few seconds of deep throught for him. Also suck harder so that he touches your inner skin more, this is more important when taking the dick out of your mouth. I don't know if you already did stuff like this but this would surely make it better