Are you a switch (BDSM) ?

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KilledByBees Xper 5
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I am more submissive but I do love to switch sometimes. I think switches are the best and most fun as they have the perspective from both sides.
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- Asker
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  How does it work then?
- KilledByBees
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  What do you mean? Most times I am submissive, but sometimes I am permitted to be the dominant one.
- Asker
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  Permitted?
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- KilledByBees
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  Yes, when my dominant allows it
- Asker
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  What kind of things?
- KilledByBees
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  I do love restraining her and slowly teasing her, but she is usually the one in charge.
- Asker
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  I don't understand how it can work but ok...
- KilledByBees
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  You have to have a mutual understanding with the other person. Each couple has their own dynamic.
NorthwestRider Guru
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A submissive switch so yeah hehe
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- Asker
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  How does it work?
- NorthwestRider
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  I am submissive but can dominant sometimes

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AustinMan Influencer
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I'm a 100% Dom. You?
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- Asker
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  Have you ever tried to switch?
- AustinMan
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  Just not something I'd want to do unless there were some wildly different circumstances.
- Asker
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  Why not? How can you be so sure if you haven't even tried?
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- AustinMan
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  Just doesn't blow my skirt up.
- Asker
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  I'm pretty you'd expect it from a woman lol.
- AustinMan
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  Expect what?
- AustinMan
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  Send me a follow and we'll chat.
- Asker
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  You'd expect a woman to try it all to be sure she wasn't into it but of course, not you 😉.
- AustinMan
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  Not try anything she doesn't want to do. I found when I was dating that if I just laid out what I wanted and needed, including all my kinks, they almost always were squirming in their seat with wet panties by the time I was through. Surprised me at first.
- Asker
  +1 y
  So what?
- AustinMan
  +1 y
  Why are you being snarky?
- Asker
  +1 y
  There's nothing surprising about any of this. You attract the kind of girls who goes well with a guy like you...
- AustinMan
  +1 y
  Experience says you're right. Godspeed finding a worthy switch.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Are you looking for a switch?
- AustinMan
  +1 y
  No. I have one of those and it's an ongoing source of contention. Somewhere along the way she lost her kink and subness.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I bet you didn't like the challenge 😉🙃
- AustinMan
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  It wasn't the challenge. She also lost her sex drive so the sex just kind of died.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Which was impossible to handle for a sex obsessed guy 😂
- AustinMan
  +1 y
  We're still happily together so i guess he can handle it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Nice to know 🙃
Liskitty Xper 5
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Yes. I used to believe I was sub only, but I think the ability for both is inside most of us. Depending on the partner I can feel more this or that of course, or depending on the time and my mood. But it's very satisfying to not limit yourself and let out all of those desires!
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- Asker
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  In my view, not everyone wants or can be both. It's a matter of individual and maybe education or experience.
wankiam Master
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rarely... but its fun when we do flip it
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- Asker
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  Why rarely?
- wankiam
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  because if it was regular it wouldn't be as exciting given that we would normally prefer our designated master and sub roles
- Asker
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  Why that?
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- wankiam
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  its the fact im usually the dom while she is the sub that makes it interesting when we flip it... if it was more regular then she may as well be the mistress with me as the sub but thats not generally who we are
- Asker
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  Why would it be a problem?
Dr_Latex_McPeggin Guru
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I am SWITCH but before to be Sub...
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- Asker
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  Why?
- Dr_Latex_McPeggin
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  In my job I make major decision and am a leader all the time. In the bedroom, its nice to be able to not be in control...
- Asker
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  I've noticed that sub men tend to be the wealthier, have the highest education levels or the highest responsibility in their jobs.
Anonymous
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Sub here.
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- Asker
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  Have you ever tried to switch?
- Opinion Owner
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  I have.
- Asker
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  And?
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- Opinion Owner
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  I just prefer being dominated. Its more fun for me. My ex loved her new role as the dom and it was just understood that it will stay that way.
- Asker
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  What do you like?
- Opinion Owner
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  I like being tied up. Degradation and humiliation.
- Asker
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  Nice
- Opinion Owner
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  I know. I just wish more women were dominant. Dominant women make me cum much harder.
- Asker
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  Well I used to be one. I quited.
- Opinion Owner
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  Why'd you quit? :(
- Asker
  +1 y
  I don't believe in it anymore.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  So you're a complete sub now?
- Asker
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  Absolutely not. I can't be a sub. This isn't my personality.
- Opinion Owner
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  Then what did you quit? Bdsm?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yes, the lifestyle
- Opinion Owner
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  Ok I see.
Anonymous
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No. I am a Dom.
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- Asker
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  Too bad for you
- Asker
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  Have you ever tried?
- Opinion Owner
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  When I was younger. Didn’t like her dominating me.
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- Asker
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  What didn't you like?
- Opinion Owner
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  When I was bleeding and how hurt my ass felt for a few days. I don’t like pain during sex, prefer pleasure.
- Asker
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  And if pain wasn't involved. You can be a submissive but not a masochist. Also some dom enjoy pain. It happens...
- Opinion Owner
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  I’m ok with being Dom. Prefer to give pleasure and tease than anticipate pain.
- Asker
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  What if it wasn't about pain at all? She simply tells you what to do and not pain is involved.
- Opinion Owner
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  She already tells me what to do, just not in the moment. I control the action and do things I know she will enjoy. After we talk about it and she lets me know what she likes and doesn’t like.
- Asker
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  You're a top then, not a dom.
- Opinion Owner
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  Nope
- Asker
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  You are. Top is the correct word. Dom enjoys dominating, it's not just about giving sensation to a receiver based on what this person wants.
- Opinion Owner
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  I like to be in control. I like mind control erotica and want to move her around and play during sex. It’s not purely about her pleasure, there are elements of each. A top is a word more known in a homosexual relationship.
- Asker
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  Not in the BDSM world.