I'm probably goona sound odd, here, but I don't have any examples of catching a guy I knew well lying about his sexual experience. I've known both very experienced and very inexperienced. I don't think people really have a need to lie to me, I guess because I'm very accepting and I don't mock or ridicule people.
I'm quite particular about how I really consider to be a great person, though, and I probably just attract these types around me. I wouldn't give them much attention or thought.
Online some people are lying about things (especially profile pics), and I don't like lying of any kind, really turns me off and makes me lose interest.
People are looking to inflate themselves, their ego, their value, their image in the eyes of others. Strange, to me, how they don't see that losing credibility is a cost.
Sometimes people lie about experience cause they themselves have problem with it, it doesn't have to do anything about the level of comfort you provide for them...
With regard to the number of partners, that's a sign of insecurity. It doesn't make a person more attractive if he/she has had numerous sexual partners. However, a person with 0 partners is likely sexually naive. Keep in mind that an open-minded and trusting relationship with a single partner might involve much more than meets the eyes. Thus, quality, and not quantity, rules the day.
Each of us are unique, and this includes our interests, kinks, and fetishes. One's demeanor or outward appearance is a poor indicator of one's personal desires.
what would you find sexually naive?
Naive meant in the way of lacking experience upon which one can draw. For example, clinically, an opiate-naive person is a person who does not have a history of significant opiate use. Thus, his/her body will respond differently to opiates than that of someone who regularly uses opiates or has a history of significant opiate use.
i know what naive means but i meant i dont get how can you tell a guy is sexually naive
I think every single person lies about their experience or lack of. Not even worth talking about
has been also my conclusion that almost everyone lies about it lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have talked about sexual experiences very little with my friends. Sometimes out of nowhere one of my friends will tell me that they got laid. I don't think it's that ridiculous, considering it's not even that often that they come up with such situations, and one of them was even a paid prostitute
I think mature guys talk about sexual exploits with other guys very infrequently. I have one female friends with whom I sometimes have such discussions, be but always in the spirit of asking advice or wanting a female perspective on my experience.
When another guy brags about how often he is getting it and who he is doing, it is usually quite obvious.
do you ever ask advice from a guy?
Not about sexual matters.
I don't hang out with to many guys if I do it might be for a couple hrs most guys like have watched it from grade school till now at world I I hear all the bull crap everyday sometimes we woukd meet up at a club on the week ends and if I didn't have s date or friend with me and started talk to a girl come Monday morning they start telling there story's anpbout there girl friends or wives I look at them and say dude I know her she's my friend WTF WE don't need to know this shit have some respect hot or your old lady tgen when I don't tell them whsypt I dud they start making it up most of the time I woukd go home alone nut that's not the story they have lol. And for any guy that's talks about a girl or says he so did so thing with a girl and it's a lie he's fucked up
You know it is a lie if this girl is someone you've never met... and they can't prove it with DM's.
When it sounds auspiciously like a porn, it's a lie.
i can usually tell, but my good friends don't usually lie about it
How can you tell?
you can tell after knowing someone for 20 years
I have a simple metric: the more they brag, the more they lie. Imagine Jay from Inbetweeners, he constantly makes up stories of fucking strippers, gang bangs in caravan parks, etc. The exaggeration makes it obviously false. The guys who are more coy or vague about their sexual encounters tend to be more truthful.
couldnt coy or vague also mean not that experienced?
I guess so.. It's not an airtight theory, I'll admit 😅
How do I know when my friends lie about there sexual experiences? Well It's usually when there lips move! lol
I pretty much just assume that my friends are lying when they talk about their sex lives.
i would say mostly i don't xD honestly i don't even really care if they tell the truth or not xD
mostly? what would you lie about?
i don't lie. i just intentionally misslead a little bit. i don't straight up lie. i have very minimal experience withs ex and relationships. but if i don't explicitly say that, it's easy to make it seem as though that's not the case without lying.
oh gottcha Do you think that less experienced guys would straight up lie or rather go with your technique?
"We all know a lot of men exaggerate their sexual experiences." Uhhh... actually no, this is a common misconception that females have. Most of us do not do this.
you must be really naive if you think most of your friends are truthful about it
You don't know my friends. I'm not naive at all.
Because in todays world if guy is a virgin or on experienced its laughable and also women usually like when a guy is more experienced sexually, women on here have even said they prefer experience guys than inexperienced
my question wasn't why they lie, i get that. My question was can you guys tell between each other and how
Ah I see
Funny how you think I have friends
They dont have to be friends, could be any sex tqlk with guys..
Hard to tell
It doesn't make any difference to me whether they actually did it or not. The fact that they're actually bragging about something like that tells me all I need to know about their character.
did you have a lot of experiences them bragging about it?
Of course! All men have witnessed this behavior at some point during their lives. For me, I first started hearing those "stories of conquest" in my freshman year of high school.
jesus, so early on lol does it decrease over age? like how was at collage/when working etc.
Every guy brags about his sexual experiences at some point in his life. Men are sexual hunters. It's in our DNA. They like showing off their hunting ability... it's a masculine thing.
You can talk about toxic masculinity all you want, but that doesn't alter our DNA.
When there is too much detail or the body count is too high
It's a bit of mines bigger than yours.
Yes they brag to much about it
Insecurity is the biggest reason.
I didn't ask why they lie, i get thwt. I asked can you guys tell between each other
Of course we can tell. It's not that hard to know when someone is bragging or lying.
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