Have u ever had sex thinking about other guy or girl?

[Pallavi37]

[EmoKate97]

I think a few times i might've thought of my ex during sex, but in a pity / i feel bad for rebounding way and not so much a "i wish you were my ex" way. I will say i have let a friends with benefits call me another girls name and pretend i was her, apparently it was a hooters girl crush that died overnight from a random ass heart attack and i went with it because it was cute, sad and fun. Another time i pretended to be a black girl stereotype just for fun. Didn't bother me because i wasn't serious about these guys and i genuinely thought it was interesting and fun.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I have, but only with someone casual while thinking of the person I like.

[Opinion Owner]

Otherwise I wouldn't have genuinely been able to get off without faking it. Mechanical sex does nothing for me, there has to be some form of connection to make it enjoyable. Afterwards the casual guy happily said "I've never had a girl do that before" so it's not like he didn't enjoy it.

[centerline]

very often... wide and varied fantasies... my wife knows it.
she says she doesn't care WHO or what I think about to get me all worked up, as long as it happens and she is the recipient of the results of my thinking about it...
i feel the same way about her fantasies... we have had a great relationship for the past 10years of our knowing each other

[TaureanBull81]

I've thought about another woman when having sex with an exGF or previous fuck buddy but never blurted out their name!

[meetkitty123]

No actually I've never done that before.
It would be sort of weird I don't see why I would be sleeping with the person I'm sleeping with if I want to sleep with someone else.
Now If a Masturbating thats my imagination I can do whatever I want in there. But even then most of my characters are fictional.

[Guardian45]

Fictional, like a detective or Superhero? LOL 😆

[Gramkabir]

@meetkitty123 I most of the time fantasize my wife which I cannot perform with her... instead of porn... I watched her pic...

[katiesmuff]

Would think it would be pretty hard to think of someone else while actively being fucked.

[flamiE]

Yeah it has happened a few times..

[Jjpayne]

Not had sex yet myself 😞

[modeve]

I'm fully involved (physically and mentally ) with my husband.

[jshm2]

That would be hella weird. Like eating one dish, while thinking of another.

[Kaneki05]

I could see that happening in like a mealiness one night stand with some random or other situations were your not really having sex with someone you want too. But with someone i know meh disrespectful and couldn't do it anyway since i would 100% be thinking of them.

[Barry88]

Yes, it has happened. Can make things more exciting. It's just fantasy, nothing more... :)

[Reaperbot666]

so long as it stays fantasy and does not become reality. it is fine to think about someone else now and then. but tends to help if you stay in the moment when fooling around with your partner. kind of why roleplay and cosplay fetish's are so common. need to spice things up once in a while.

[Bananaman177]

No, but one time my girlfriend asked if I ever did and I said, "How do you know I was imagining you as somebody else? How do you know I wasn't imagining myself as some other guy?"

She goes, "What?"

And I go, "Yeah, or like picturing myself as a minotaur?"

She went totally silent after that. Obviously that had never occurred to her.

[Nikkisadova]

All the time, I'm careful though if not saying their names.. lol

[Don-_-Don]

No, and I don't think I ever will.

[helva]

It happened a few times.

[Bowdabra]

No I have not

[elizamichale1]

Yea that has happened a few times

[Sparda20xx]

Yea I have. And that's why I say nothing during sex

[Akshayjosh]

No it doesn't happen to me. Though I've had my share of exes

[Littlebirde]

Not at all

[ThatKidInTheCorner]

No, and probably won't

[Jessie91331]

all the time