He asked me to eat my ass I told him I'd rather die. Was it mean?

[Anonymous]

He came home horny as shit, took a cold shower and came back again rubbing on my back. Cool it's a daily thing I can handle it, I tell him "please don't mess my hair up I just straightened it" he says I looked beautiful and goes to my neck. I turn on the ac full on because I don't want my hair to curl back up, he pushes me on the bed takes my dress off and turns me around. Starts kissing my lower back, biting my shoulder and said "can I eat it?" I turned back real fast and said 'I'd die before letting you do that" he got up and said "there goes another erection". We ended up having some wild sex some minutes later and now he has been pretty quiet laying on my stomach and I've been watching Netflix.

Was I mean? Would you take his silence as him being hurt, or better would you be hurt?

[simonqq]

Ask him? This story just seems like something from a fiction.

[Asker]

I don't want to bring that subject up again since it was weird. He knows I don't do the back like that so I'm not sure why he would ask and it caught me off guard so I just spit the aggressive reply without thinking

[simonqq]

Not sure there is anything to answer, he asked you said no and that's the end of it. He has the right to ask and you have the right to say no. The insane details described made this whole thing very strange.

[Asker]

My medication gets me all over the place and I was meant to explain the hair situation that turned into the ass situation.

[simonqq]

That's alright, you did nothing wrong don't worry.

[On_the_other_hand]

Just let him know you didn't mean to be so harsh.

[Marcuslrh]

It's not mean if he ment your ass that's fair

[Browneye57]

Wow. A match made in heaven. "Don't touch my fucking hair. And don't touch my ass."
LOL

[winterfox10]

Nah, you're good. The silence is just after-sex glow.

[Makeushiver]

I think you could have let him down a bit more gently. Not sure why the suggestion upset you as much as it did since many girls supposedly like rimming. Originally I thought your question was going to be him asking you to do that which you would have every right to be heavy handed in objecting. The problem with comments like , "I'd rather die" is that he will hesitate to bring up the next idea because of your last reaction and it might be something that you would have liked,. It's always a good idea to allow or even plan conversations where you can discuss sexual boundaries rather than reacting w/o thinking. It was a nice offer on his part and indicates how comfortable he is with all of you.

[es20490446e]

I have not asked.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Yeah, that would hurt a little ☹️

[apollo3000]

that sounds like a relationship devoid of emotions. of commitment. on both sides - friends with benefits

[asshole_]

nope

[In_Trance]

Grounds for divorce

[Asker]

How do you get a divorce without being married?

[In_Trance]

sigh... it's a metaphor

[Asker]

Welp 😂 English is not my first language, give me that at least

[JamesBlackDragon]

You wasn't mean you were being honest he might be hurt I personally wouldn't be hurt but I seen a lot of girls and guys post on here about SO not wanting to go down on them so I guess the majority of people would be