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Do you think women treat men with small penises badly?

I always wondered how difficult it is for men with this issue - where its something that they are born with andcannot physically change without undergoing plastic surgery which could potentially be dangerous.

Even with some of my girlfriends - I've heard good few of them say "if he ain't packing, boy bye" or something similar and be willing to throw a way a good man who ticks all right the boxes - but that would a

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Do you think women treat men with small penises badly?
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  • Please answer this. So if your a girl that has had a big dick how does it fill to be with a smaller guy? Do you crave a bigger one or is it not as big of a gap as people act? Like do girls say they want a big dick as in a guy that is confident or do you really want a BIG DICK? How does going from BIG to little feel?
    So its soooooo not cool to make fun of a guy over his dick. It's like a curse from God because nomater what. You get what you get and nothing is going to change that. But guys are just happy to get some pussy. And it's that dicks job to please her. So it can be devastating to think your not big enough to do that! Girls allways say they want a man with confidence but want to act like little sizeqweens! Ust to be girls were pleasers. Now they just want to lay there and take big dick! Why what happened? Porn lol its porns fault. And I have a nice fat dick myself but still there have been a fu girls in my past that sed I was small in a breakup or fight. that still messed with my head for years!!! It took a lot of girls and reassurance at times to get over. Like I got it going on with what I can do! with girls like. (Wow no one has EVER fucked me like that!!!) On the real. But do to those girls that talked shit. I still have doubts. So dont do it!!! Guys put so much pressure on there dick to wow a girl they forget that its attached to them! If you mad a box of all the things a guy would give up to have a huge cock... it would blow your mind. Like health, looks, money, family, it just what a guy thinks is the most important thing. And girls back that thalt up!!!

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    • many girls tend to shame guys with below average or even average sizes these days. also dick size is like top 5 reasons why many girls guy on their partner these days.
    • partly due to porn industry pushing the narrative. that many girls like bigger and/or thicker dick. which ruined many peoples standards.
    • party due to modern internet, social media, dating apps/sites, smart phones, hookup culture and one night stand culture. all playing a role in ruining peoples standards.
    • many females have the natural ability to slowly reshape their body. from the neckline down over time to some degree. with changes to their diet and/or exercise routine.
    • many males can make similar changes to his diet and/or exercise routine. to reshape most of his body from the neck line down over time to some degree.
    • but the size of the males penis is mostly genetic and/or a lottery from birth. with almost not real natural way to increase the size or shape long turn.
    • good foreplay game can help him to have sex to some degree. but sometimes the girl is still unwilling to deal with his small size.
    • having a below average or even average size dick. is partly why some guys end up going gay/trans or just offing themselves. because the can't seem to be able to get a female partner.

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  • I'm not really sure, generally speaking, but have heard a lot of people joke about it. However, I think a woman would have to be a really shallow, low quality person in order to treat a guy poorly over a physical trait he has no control over. It's no different than guys shaming girls for having longer labia (commonly known as "outies" or sometimes even "roast beef"), asymmetrical or "flat" breasts, etc.

    We all have different bodies and there's nothing wrong with that. It's beyond cruel to make someone feel bad about something they have no control over.

    I will say though, that I have heard a couple of women say that size doesn't really matter if he knows how to use it. I can't say one way or the other because I'm sexually inexperienced, but have also heard of couples being sexually incompatible because the guy was too large for the woman, so there's also that.

    Honestly, the right person who really values you will not shun and reject you for something so unimportant. There are much worse qualities a person can have.

  • Well I guess all the girls who reject a good man with the misfortune of having a small penis ( in their opinion) will most likely go for the players who may have big penises, but small brains. They count on their penises to get somewhere because that is all they have. A good woman who wants a good man will not treat someone with a small penis badly. For one thing she won't be sleeping around to know if someone has a small penis or not. She will be dating to get to know someone , to find out his likes and loves, and to see if he is a good match for long term, not strictly for sex or for what he has in his pants.

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  • I'm not saying that it never happens, because it does, but I'm saying that women feel FAR more entitled to degrade a man over penis size than a man would about the size of her boobs or ass. It's far more socially acceptable for women to do that then men, and how is that right?

    It's kind of the same thing for short men - women say some extremely hurtful things about guys who are below-average height - especially 5'5" and below. I've heard some just hateful women saying stuff about them, and no one says a word.

    It's one thing to have preferences, but it's another thing to show such disrespect (and I say that to men talking about women as well!). Neither sex deserves to be treated that way.

    • Yea I agree neither should be put down like that, I definitely not into short dudes though but I’m never mean to someone unless they have an ugly personality. But I hate when they try and hide their height on dating sites I don’t hide things like that about myself my pics are unfiltered etc.

    • YOU ARE 100% RIGHT, AND THOSE SAME WOMEN COULD BE FLAT...

    • 💯 true

  • I guess some do. They're nasty. They should get together with the superficial guys who only like them for their breasts. Same thing, basically. You want to compartmentalize people as objects, leave the rest of us out of this. We'll figure out the whole human race future thing.

    • Thank you for writing this.

    • @AlwaysBelieving My pleasure💐

  • I don't know if they do, but I do know that it's much more socially acceptable than any form of the reverse. Now if it were just me, I'd actually approve- I like to know who to avoid, and a person who openly declares their narrowminded bigotry is identifying themselves as such. But the rest of the world exists too, and I see way too much psychological damage being done to just let it be.

    • That's an interesting way to see it: If they're vocal about it, you know who to avoid. If they think like that but are forced to hide it, then you never know, and the chances of getting into a poor relationship increase drastically

  • it all ends up with how he makes you feel.

    The whole "motion of the ocean" thing to me is a joke.

    I need a real dick to feel fulfilled.

    • You mean you have a loose pussy?

    • @6suejsjsj you wish...

    • Shallow grand canyon vag maybe?

  • Not sure. I've heard stories about situations before. But I know if I had a partner, I wouldn't want them to make fun of me being short and having a smaller body than most women. So I'd have to say it'd be wrong if a woman left a man just because of his size. It would also make me wonder if she liked him only for his body and looks. Reason why I say this is because I kind of believe that if you fall in love with someone for their personality, then you may not leave them over something so silly. And that you would try to find solutions when you start a sexual life with them.

    • If only more women thought like this.

  • Not all women, but I have seen a lot do it.

  • Well we treat everyone very shallow, as size is the only thing we women understand

  • I haven't treated him badly at all. Felt a little sorry for him. He was a good guy, but how do I put it, Hmmm. He wasn't packing, a suitcase, maybe He even treated me a little bad. Even gave me back the gift I got him. I mean, don't get mad or upset with me. I had nothing to do with his penis being thumb-size.

    • Thumb-size? Are there men who actually have penises that small? Or were you just exaggerating?

    • @thehorriblesheikh For real, real. No fake news.

    • @thongqueenflirt I'm surprised.

  • This may come off as cynical, and that is not the intent, but from my experience, I think women treat men badly in general, even if they never deserved it, due to unresolved emotional baggage. It does not only relate to penis size, but many women feel the need to attack that part of a man as very defining of his value, despite it being completely out of his control. As much as men are touted to only want *insert stereotype* of women, I think women are equally as toxic in shaming of men, especially if the man is intact.

    Ultimately the man will have to decide his self worth, and if it rests on the size of his penis, then he will have his worth shattered throughout his life.

    • I agree that women are equally toxic in shaming men, particularly on things he cannot change like height or penis size. I do disagree with women treating men badly in general because of emotional baggage. I think women would have less unnresolved emotional baggage if more guys treated them right. A lot of women live in a dating world where only the guy who "thinks you are the one" will treat you right. If you aren't the one, it doesn't matter how he treats you or how it ends or whether he takes the time of day to communicate why he changed his mind one day while offering you the world the day before. I think there needs to be more integrity in how people, particularly young men treat girls they have no intention of settling down with. If something is not for you, don't destroy it for someone else hence creating emotional baggage in women in general. Yes, women do this to men as well, and it's not right. All relationships fail until the last, so why do we only measure how people treat their last relationship?

    • @Xoxocutekitty The abuse is cyclical in that a woman is abused by a man, but will then abuse the next man, either intentionally or due to being guarded. Many of the men who did it are carrying the same issues from earlier in life, even pre dating. If you think that men not staying with women is abuse, I see it as predatory, but the women are also entering into this with consent. I despise liars, but that is simply rampant among humans. From my perspective, women have been far more abusive to men, and to me. I grew up with a mother who literally didn't love me and beat me daily, sometimes to bleeding, then would gaslight me and say it wasn't abuse because it didn't leave huge bruises or welts. She would lie about the cuts because "boys will be boys." My grandmother molested and raped me for years, and when I brought it up with the rest of the family, after attempting to kill myself, the family backed her, because she was a woman. I gave up dating after being drugged and raped by a "friend" because she was lonely and wanted something to get her off. I woke up in the middle of it (drugs don't work well on me). My mother laughed at me about it happening. I won't date much out of distrust, and seeing mannerisms in so many. That level of childhood abuse takes its toll. I'm still unhappy that my body was violated after birth. Who thinks cutting a baby's penis is good? Studies were done and proved even that causes permanent brain changes. Men are basically told they don't even have a right to their whole body, and they're stuck with that level of abuse. People wonder why men have troubles? Abuse starts early, and extends through life. Most would rather avoid it and continue on, and plenty are unaware.

    • I am sorry to hear about your experiences. They are traumatic and quite obviously those women were monsters. Of course you know that. Most people don't have those experiences and will treat you like shit on the basis that they grew up with body esteem issues from their parents and their neighborhood bullies. Women have different issues, although as a gender not as traumatic as the specificity of your childhood. The same way you see women as capable of such heinous, there are women who have also been drugged or molested and see your gender as responsible and capable of such evil as well. Of course they are not the majority and the ones you come into contact with when dating are probably selfish, immature, and in a weird way thats the hallmark of a "normal" childhood - of getting everything served to you by healthy parents on a silver platter until they are dropped into the "real" world. Overall, do whose problem is it to fix these wrongdoings and seeds of mistrusts? In this society, it is often upon the victim to "get over themselves" and "become healthy." It doesn't seem fair does it? Young women who grew up with similar calibers of child abuse from the opposite gender go towards domestic violence prevention movements. Perhaps, use your story to make these centers most "centered" on making their image of domestic violence more equal, accessible and less one-sided. Domestic violence happens regardless of gender, and society flooded with the stereotypes that it happens in one direction is wrong. There are ways to share your story without discrediting another's experience. There are ways of altering people's paradigms and "assumption" of what qualifies as "real or valid." There are many young men out there who have gone through experiences like yours. What if you could lift them up (without putting down young girls) in the process? Again, I know this a lot to ask yourself, and in general the world we live in.

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  • 1. How would I know?

    2. How do you define "small?" Thanks to porn, some girls think that anything less than 8" is small. In the US, the average adult male has a penis that is 5 1/4" to 5 1/2" when erect. And when you compare the average male anatomy to the average female anatomy, an average guy can reach everything necessary to sexually satisfy his partner.

    3. What women say, and what they actually do, may be two different things. Guys sit around talking about "a girl isn't really a girl unless she has at least 36D boobs," because they are insecure and they thing that's what macho guys are supposed to say. But when a cute girl comes along with 34B boobs, they fall in love (or maybe just lust.) I suspect that there are girls who engage in this talk because they think that proves how sexually mature they are, but it does not truly reflect how they will react when they get into bed and discover that their new partner is a bit small.

  • they get treated in the same manner (not the same way, but the same MANNER) as obese people and ugly people... its not always rudely, but its with an indifference... and like ugly or obese people, they have lived with it most of their life so they know kinda what to expect going in...
    we ALL have our preferences and we can't help that anymore than they can help their issues...

  • I do not know but any woman who does this to any man is a woman not worth any mans time

  • I think if the girl runs for that reason then he dodged a bullet.

  • I can't say, what women think or how they treat men, only what I have experienced, and heard from some guy friends.
    I do think that there is a 'penis size' bias, with some women, much like some, OK, MOST (But not all!!!) guys drool over big breasts!
    Neither gender is blameless, with regards to physical attraction.

  • I've never had that problem. What i do know is this.
    If a woman would ever mention that to a guy, she never cared for him to begin with. One thing a woman who truly cares for a guy is tell him he is bad in bed or inadequate with his penis size.
    Women know that that will crush his spirits.
    So at the end of the day. If a guy is small down there. The woman tells him about it. It was intended to hurt him. Her true colors shown.
    Hope we learned from this.

  • I've only sent a dick pic to one girl, she dosent seem super interested in me.

    Her reply to the pick was, well let's just say a complement, so either she liked it or was being nice.

    My small dick doesn't make me eager to put myself out there but I javent gotten backlash yet, mostly cause I haven't tried.

  • from what i have been seeing yes they are treating them bad and make them be ashamed for some reason that is not logical at all
    i only been with one man all my life and my man is good and even if he wasn't i would still love him he is a very handsome and good man very thoughtful and grateful and he is the greatest cook in my eyes :D

  • I don’t know if I’m giving out a girl secret, but women use guys “small penis” as an attack. Not as a complaint.

    • That's not a secret, it's blatantly obvious.

  • I think a small dick is a deal breaker

    • I agree. Same goes for a big vagina.

    • How do you describe small one? How much is small?

    • @beatcoock I don't think women carry something to measure dicks around, so if they throw a number, it's just what the guy told them, which is probably a lie. You'd be better off just googling for studies on the Internet, and if you're not very comfortable with your size, just don't sleep with a whore, and the chances of her judging dicks as small just because she has seen so many will be lower

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  • I've never had this problem, yet with terms such as "Big Dick Energy" are often being used as shaming tactics by women to degrade a man. So yes, they either target him by his dick size (mostly), height or muscles. Anything that can be taken as damage to one's masculinity will be used, especially dick size.

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