How long to wait in relationship until having sex? What time frame do u consider slutty?

So, i love having sex. And am dating someone new but i dont want to ruin things or have him see me as a slut. So, as a general rule of thumb. How long should i wait? What time frame do you consider slutty or easy?
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Superb Opinion

  • If you're a slut, sooner or later, he'll find out. If you're not a slut, then the only reason to delay sex is to make sure he isn't just after the sex and then disappears. I get the feeling that's not a worry for you, so do it when you feel like it

    • So if a girl puts out on the first date it won't affect your view of her?

    • My point is don't pretend to be something you're not. If you're a slut, see if he's into it. A relationship built on deception is not going to last, and even if it's after ten years of marriage, he'll find out and things will be much worse than if he were put off by it right now

Most Helpful Guy

  • I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new.1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship.2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days.3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean.4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy. if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I waited a whole year. My partner is patient and wanted to not base the relationship on sex

  • Until marriage. Before you're engaged is slutty/cadish.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You can’t really put a one size fits all standard on every relationship. People are different. Their expectations are different. Situations are different. Don’t overthink things. Have sex when it feels right. Trust your instincts with him. In my experience, guys want sex in a relationship and they want you to want it too. They don’t want to wait too long for it but they don’t want you to put it out there on the first couple of dates either. My advice is to wait at least a month. After that, if he’s pushing to make things sexual and you’re into it, then let it happen.

  • Anything less than waiting until marriage can be considered slutty.

  • Nearly all bad dates ended before a month, so I would wait that.

  • I won't have sex before three months for nonvirgin. Before 6 months if I am with a virgin, but I like a strong relationship first.

  • Don’t worry about “slutty” or “easy”, the right time is whenever you’re both ready

  • There is no general rule of thumb for this can be the first time you see him or 3 months later you have to decide what seems appropriate to each situation and for each situation this might be different

  • Once you’re a couple it’s fine no matter how fast that is.