Help, I need somewhere to stay buut he wants sex if I live with him?

[Juststrollinagain]

I have a friend, or someone I enjoyed speaking to online, and he offered that I stay withhim.. he is also uset because i went ghost on him because i was struggling financially.

He says he doesn't think that I can live with him if I am not in his bed?

I have had really bad experiences in other places and I movedout somewhere and Ikeep getting harassed during the pandemic. I worked retail and my bosses kept conspiring to get me fired., even lying iand it threw me off so bad becuse i earnestly did a good job and followed rules.

So now. What do I do?

there's also like demon things and people like seeing Im a young woman and I am alone and now I ache and it feels like everything is all buzzy sometimes.

He lives in a different state and last thing he said was "he doesn't think that i can stay with him if i am not in his bed".

ugh he was really flirtatious, he asked me months ago if i needed a sugar daddy.

[JKingOff]

Figure it out. Either get a job and find a place to live, or don't and be homeless. I'm so sick of people expecting to get something for nothing, especially when what little someone asks in return is so trivial for you to give, like some company. I wish I was lucky enough for someone to let me move in with them in exchange for having a good time. Sorry, but I have absolutely no sympathy for you. Get a job and pay your way like the rest of us...

[KrakenAttackin]

@jkingoff This^^

[Marcuslrh]

Sorry to say but he does mean sex red alerts back on specially asking if you want a sugar daddy how can you relax after that you must be desperate 🤯sorry to hear your situation

[Lykkeme]

Don’t live with someone if you have to give something that you aren’t will to put on the table.

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants sex and that is the condition for living with him. Why else would a man want a random women to move in with him? Sex is expected if you two are living together.

[asshole_]

well, to him it's either pay rent, or give him sex. you can't just live somewhere, free

[Juststrollinagain]

how is sex payment though? honestly I told him I got offered paid training at a software developer company but they start in October SMFH. And side note, the company has a 2 year contract and relocates to major cities and we have no choice on where we canmove. this is only after training which is 3 months. Honestly the check is so fat that i can just travel on the weekends though? I feel sort of bad but I would love this contract. oh its 20k to get out of it too. I wish it was all remote but te training is remote.

[asshole_]

k, if this is just you boasting, im done answering

[Juststrollinagain]

ahaa I dont mean to boast.

[asshole_]

i mean, i saw your username, i figured you're just trolling which you are of course

[msc545]

I would be very careful about doing this. I think when you get there you may find out that he in fact does expect sex. It's not clear to me that any Red Alert has been cleared. Find some place else to stay

[Anonymous]

Did you get the job

[Juststrollinagain]

Yes! I know I have it all each job i interviewed for I got them!

[Anonymous]

Um, sharing a room will lead to sex. He is just trying to trick you into lowering your guard.

[Anonymous]

Don't stay with that creep.