Is sex really that good or overhyped?

[Anonymous]

Our society loves to talk about sex and getting laid, but it is really that big of deal?

[meetkitty123]

Interesting question now how to answer it because there isn't just one simple answer I'll try to break it down.
Is it over hyped by society yes. yes it is but sex sells so society uses it but that doesn't mean that every single person in high school and in their early twenties are doing it. some people choose the remain virgins until they find the right person even if that means they turn 40.

Is it a big deal? well that depends on what do you mean is it a big deal? the answer basically is yes and no.
It's not a big deal if you haven't engaged in the activity yet. There seems to be a lot of peer pressure among people now based on society and the misconception that everyone's doing it so why aren't you? Sex isn't the most important thing in the world. it's a life choice on how people choose to handle sex and that's to each their own so long as it harms no one.
It is a big deal as it shouldn't be taken lightly. it has to be done responsibly. STDs and pregnancy is always to be considered. Now some people will argue that it's all right to be free and loose as long as you use protection and others will tell you that it should be with someone meaningful to you. Me personally I've never done the free and loose every person I've ever laid with I've been in an exclusive and long-lasting relationship and I felt love for the person.
Now is sex that good well that's another question that has to be broken down because that is also a yes and no answer.
With an individual who is self-centered not patient or not skilled or combination of all the above then no sex is not good. If sex becomes a chore or is forced on someone then no sex is not enjoyable.
Now if sex is done willingly with a partner who is patient, observant, who cares about you, willing to learn, listens to your opinions wants or concerns and you both try your best to please each other's then yes sex is amazing.
Sex is amazing when done right under the right circumstances.

[roody]

As a woman, I think it’s fine. It’s okay. Sometimes it’s really really great but that’s kind of rare for me.
sometimes it just feels like work to satisfy my boyfriend...

[ohshee]

I THINK it depends on who you are what you like for me it's not just about sex it's everything that comes with it you ask if it's really that good ,, well it can be and the can be even better it depends on who you are and what you want you and I could start chatting with each other and let's say we started talking about sex how it's done or what we feel as we chat there is an energy that's between us the more open we become the more we want to know and the mire we open up with each other the better it becomes so sex. Can just be sex ,, or sex is or can be the most beautiful thing everrrr try it some time lol no wait I mean talk to 2 different people about it you well feel a different with each person

[Reaperbot666]

• For the most part people overhype it.
• But with a willing partner who you built a bond with. An active sex life can be the clue that holds everything together.
• Ideally a strong relationship needs 4 key pillars to stay in sync with each other.
• Physical attraction, mental attraction, emotional attraction and sexual attraction.
• When all 4 are in sync you can go from having a decent or good sex life. To having a great or excellent sex life. Together with your partner.

[MrNameless]

physical and sexual attraction are basically the same thing

[rowzay]

I agree with you, physical attraction nd sexual attraction are similar but different, sexual attraction is a hybrid per say of both emotional and physical attraction, if its your first time having sex please don't expect it to be mind blowing, in most cases its not and with every activity, sometimes its good, sometimes really head fliping back arching good, sometimes its just bad... Sex isn't going to be good all d time and don't expect it to be

[RemoErdosain]

For me, it isn't. I used to think it was. Now I think it's greatly overhyped by people who just live for short-lived pleasure, like drug addicts and hippies

[RemoErdosain]

I used to think it was before I had it

[slatyb]

No one can answer that for you. You'll have to find out for yourself.

[Bhavin2184]

Overhyped..

[omegajosh]

Overhyped I've been told. Still feels good and fantastic, but it's overhyped I've been told.

[Tobi_Lerone]

Depends on the sexpartner. I mean se is a part of everyone usually. At least we wouldn't exist without it and I love it. Even if you have just sexdates it makes you just feel better. In a relationship it can be something beautiful to share with your partner. So yeah I think it's really that good

[0112358]

Sex where both are excited and into it is underrated.

Sex where it just happens is overrated.

[dreamstar72]

Sex is somewhat overrated for some it is bragging rights. Sure I love sex but it’s not my number one priority my wife and family Is number 1

[Bowdabra]

Sex is really really good with the right person but i think that with our over sexualized culture it is over-hyped.

[Browneye57]

Yes, it really is. And while it may not be everything, it sure is far ahead of what's in second place. Same for money.

Sex and money are what makes the world go 'round. :)

[es20490446e]

Good sex is the best thing created by biology. The rest of sex good, but not a big deal.

[Akshayjosh]

I think something that has a prohibition of a kind becomes more of an interesting thing to do and achieve.
So I don't think sex would have been the prima facia as it is today if it were easily available and done.
Its definitely over hyped indirectly

[OutdoorsForLife]

With the right person, when you are in love and trust them completely, the passion and intimacy is unlike anything else. It’s better than good.

[oncpl]

It is certainly extremely good, a gift and prize of nature.

[FriendlyEnigma]

Probably not, i hear the first kiss is more memorable than your first time. I think sex has just been hyped up as 'taboo' that everyone wanted to do it. I'm sure it feels good, but there is so much more to live than just getting laid

[TeddyGotT]

Eh, it's alright

[Dchrls78104]

Kids less than 12 are getting involved in it, and often get pregnant as a result and regret it. Men who should know better become simps for it, kill for it, die for it. At one time a Swedish woman visited my country and some men had sex with her even though they knew beforehand that she was Hiv-positive. Yes, sex is overhyped in the West.

[Jok3r5]

It can be.. if both people are really into it, it can be a mind blowing experience. But it’s not the only thing in the world that matters, even though some people make it seem that way

[Bigggylicker]

Depenss who your fucking.. how? Where? When? Risks? Danger?

[Guardian45]

Its NOT overhyped, and IS REALLY that good, if BOTH OF YOU know what you're doing!

[meetkitty123]

@guardian45 Hi

[CharlieDMX]

Society makes a really big deal of it

But it is that good