Have you ever regretted having sex? Why?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. A lot.
There appears to be a trend / growing consensus among young femals that sex or at least heavily making out has to happen during the first four or five dates.
Once clothes have been dropped however many women who have rushed it are nervous, inhibited and fail to communicate what they like.
As a partner, I will hardly receive any feedback from them as they will be so self-conscious that non-verbal signaling is very ambiguous and virtually indecipherable.
Sex is not a therapy for body issues and I am not a therapist either. Very stressful for me.
Luckily those issues become less frequent with more experienced partners...

RickPen · Accepted Answer

I have, because I allowed myself to think the person was worthwhile or held any real value or merit to me at the time. They quickly tried to use it against me, cheating shortly after. I stopped trusting people after that, and practice that to date. I won't sleep with someone easily again, and that has saved me considerable heartache. A worst case is that the hope of "someday" is less painful than that one time of mistreatment and allowing myself to be duped.

samiammm · Answer

I have, it was a while ago.
So I met this girl at a social event.
She seemed okay but I was too much into her it seems.
I shouldn't have been.
The girl just wasn't worth it. I jumped into bed with her too soon.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I think maybe a couple of times. Back when I was in a relationship I can recall once where she and I didn't really set the mood enough beforehand and it wasn't as passionate as it could have been. We should have waited for a better time. That kind of thing.

Marcuslrh · Answer

Yes I have a couple of times

jenna92 · Answer

Yes.

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

Yeah. Because it was the girlfriend of a very good friend. So I declined her offer and told my friend about it (she wrote me on whatsapp). He broke up with her and told me "if you want to get in her now, you have permission." And so I did xD

Kreneman · Answer

Yes, because all of them were not my type, some were drama queens, and I wish I had waited for marriage.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

A couple times. I really didn’t want to with ‘them’.

es20490446e · Answer

I had done different, but not big deal.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Yeah once, with a fat girl. It was a weird situation and I basically didn't have much of a choice so it happened.

OutdoorsForLife · Answer

Yes, because it was with a friend and she was beyond thirsty.

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

Nope!

TonyBelanger · Answer

I never regretted it, because always when I got to sex, both me and the girl / woman were totally sure of everything we want, desire, and want to give to the other.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

It's hard to have any regrets when you're still a virgin

asshole_ · Answer

yeah how i lost my virginity

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, twice. Once, after a drunken one-night stand; I really had nothing in common with her than the sex. Second, after an affair with a woman, who lied to me and broke my trust.