Hm. Maybe just tell him and agree to approach your vagina step-by-step? Like let him look at it, touch it - explore it without coming too close with his face...
Vagina shape is a NON-ISSUE. No man cares.
Only thing about vaginas is that you should not have a bacterial infection. If ever so, simply have it treated - easy to fix - and keep fucking... There is no other possible issue about vaginas. (except with some very few not-at-all-masculin sissies, whom you would not want to date anyway...)
Take your time to approach that issue carefully, tell your boyfriend what your insecurity is (he probably won't be able to guess as from his perspective there is nothing wrong) but most importantly you need to eventually MOVE ON!
There is a very justified fear of a man performing oral on your vulva (not vagina).
There is an enormous risk of infection through HSV-1 (Herpes Simplex type 1), which is the lip herpes. It is a dangerous infection to which there is no cure. You don't want to be infected in your genital area with herpes, believe me. On the opposite side of the spectrum, you could have HSV-2 (genital herpes) and give it to your boyfriend, which is not something you want to do either.
Once you are infected with either type 1 or type 2, there is no cure to get rid of it. You have it a lifelong.
Furthermore, performing oral sex is really nothing appetizing and I would refrain to do it because there is no need to do something just because you have seen it being performed in porn videos. For more than 99% of the living species, this is an unnatural act that is avoided for a very good reason and that is hygiene (or lack thereof) and the resulting risk of infections.
She asked how to get over the fear not what's the risk of it
@LonewolfMeme Fears are part of a process to get over the problem but taking into consideration of all aspects, mainly the ones associated with health is an important factor. And there are definitely a huge number of health issues involved. Getting over the fears does not mean it is without risks.
Yea true but there is making sure both parties are health and test negative for said disease or infection or whatever. If they both test negative they are good
If you guys already had sex then he already saw it and you shouldn't be insecure of who you are body and personality wise
You seem to understand that having longer inner labia is perfectly normal and very common but you still have an insecurity about it. At some point you're going to have to truly love and embrace that normal part of your body and love yourself enough to allow yourself to receive oral pleasure on your genitals. You're part way there. Unless your guy is very immature and ignorant about normal female anatomy he's not going to think anything negative about the appearance of your vulva.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I can't speak for him, but we know people come in all sizes and shapes. After two years together, he loves you, right?
If he asks just let him do it. I mean if he aska he wants it. It doesn't matter how look down there. Just lay back and enjoy it
He probably already knows. I mean if your having sex i am sure he can feel your lips with his fingers and also with his penis.
He'll just have more to hold onto with his mouth! Don't worry,
You need to focus on getting over this fear. He's seen you naked and asked to go down on you, so why on earth are you so hung up on this? He does need to stop asking and just go for it, but you are depriving yourself of some amazing pleasure.
newsflash. He knows what your pussy looks like already and doesn't care.
Pretty much every guy likes naked girls. Since he picked you, seeing you naked might make his day, if not his entire year.
Have you done it before? If you’re not ready that’s okay and normal
what are you scared of?
you will never know till you try
Honestly it sounds like personally I'd want to eat you out even more, bigger labia turns me on
Don’t be insecure. I love giving oral and and I give her lips great attention as well. It’s fun to lick and suck on her lips and she seems to love it. Try to lay back and relax and enjoy and not focus on that. Most guys are not going to care at all!
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