Why does he need details I slept with him 6 years ago?

Anonymous

so this guy hooked me up with my 1st love ( his best friend) We were together for 2 years and he cheated on me. The guy messaged me and asked for a blowjob. Since I was a hurt upset/ revenge seeking year old. I went behind my house met him and fucked him in the shed he told his best friend and of course he was hurt. Now 6 years later, with my ex still as his best friend. he's never asked to talk about it before.. why does he want me to explain it with as much detail as possible... I dont understand what's up?

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Honestly I'm worried my ex is sitting beside him trying to incriminate me more. I was 17 young and heartbroken. He tends to want me to get caught up with his friends to help convince himself that I'm no good. He's done it before. My ex was always protective and territorial. He was so fucked up when I slept with his best friend and to this day he dogs every new boyfriend I get..

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AustinMan Influencer
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I'm guessing there's more going on than you know currently.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  My guess to. My friend is trying to convince me to sleep with him again
- Asker
  +1 y
  to piss my ex off
- AustinMan
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  I'd call the cops for him stalking you.
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- Asker
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  I'm thinking about it

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Tobi_Lerone Xper 6
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Guess he needs some refresh. Maybe it was so good that he still needs the memory of it. And if you tell him every detail I bet he get totally turned on. At least I wozldn't tell him anything^^
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I hope so. Thank you
- Tobi_Lerone
  +1 y
  To your update: maybe he tries to get you to write him this because he can make a screenshot and use it to make your life hard. Don't why someone should put in so much effort. I mean shit happens and no ones perfect
- Asker
  +1 y
  That's my fear. I heard I took his virginity too.. 🤦‍♀️ i definitely fucked up but I was just a kid.. i wanted him to know what a broken heart felt like. I mean I miscarried because of him! 😞 sorry I'm just getting a little upset..
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- Tobi_Lerone
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  No it's okay. I understand your point. It's somehow crazy that he does this even if it's 6 years ago... maybe a little bit obssessed
- Asker
  +1 y
  Right! I mean he got forced into marrying someone else.. he still talks to my dad and asks about me. He sent me flowers last years but I don't know if they were really from him or a sick joke from someone else.
- Tobi_Lerone
  +1 y
  Wow this sounds really crazy...
- Asker
  +1 y
  You know what's really sad. He had 4 kids and sneaks over to see my "dad" every 2-3 years.. we don't do anything we act like strangers honestly. Its really fucked up
- Tobi_Lerone
  +1 y
  Yeah fucked up fits this situation well. I hope you will have good luck in your future with all this sh*t!
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm definitely going to need it. Thanks for being so sweet and listening to my madness. I needed that
- Tobi_Lerone
  +1 y
  No problem. If you need someone to talk to, you are free to contact me. If you want
- Asker
  +1 y
  Thank you
- Tobi_Lerone
  +1 y
  You are welcome :)

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Browneye57 Master
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Time to move on toots. Just ignore/block them.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Thank you
MarkyMark77 Xper 7
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did u suck his cock or just fuck him?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Both
- MarkyMark77
  +1 y
  @Asker gottcha can we chat in private? i have questions especially after the update. so his friend just randomly messaged u asking for head?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah back then lol
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- MarkyMark77
  +1 y
  lol nice. can u follow me? did he know u just split?
bassinguy76 Xper 6
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He's probably going to jerk off thinking about it.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I hope that's it
- bassinguy76
  +1 y
  I'm sure... why else the details?
- Asker
  +1 y
  update.
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- bassinguy76
  +1 y
  Why do you let your ex say anything about who you are with?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I dont really. He still talks to my dad and keeps tabs on me.
- bassinguy76
  +1 y
  You should put a stop to that so he doesn't ruin your current relationship
- Asker
  +1 y
  I dont have one, he's actually one of the reasons I stay single.
- bassinguy76
  +1 y
  Sounds messed up
- Asker
  +1 y
  More than you could ever imagine
- bassinguy76
  +1 y
  Move on... you will be happier
Anonymous
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Maybe thinking about it turns him on
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Maybe. I hope. My ex has been known to set me up with his friends and try to incriminate me too.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah I like hearing about my girlfriend's sexual past
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh. So that's normal?
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  I don't know if it's normal but it's definitely a real thing though
- Asker
  +1 y
  Thank you. I was honestly scared my ex was there or he's gonna expose me for my past fuck ups
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Would it bother you if he gets turned on by the thought of you having sex with someone else
- Asker
  +1 y
  No. But it would surprise me. He was super protective tho. Like that broke his heart when I slept with that guy, which is what I wanted. Every boyfriend I get he finds out about them and puts them down
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah you can still be hurt by something and turned on by it also
- Asker
  +1 y
  Thank you ❤ this helps me so much
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah he probably wants to watch you do it
- Asker
  +1 y
  he did want a 3 some before I slept with him..
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  With another guy or a girl
- Asker
  +1 y
  With him and his best friend which is the guy I slept with much later lol
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yeah definitely sounds like he wants to see you have sex with him
- Asker
  +1 y
  His best friend just sent me a dick picture 🤦‍♀️😲
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Was it big
- Asker
  +1 y
  Lol yea
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Do you want to have sex with him
- Asker
  +1 y
  I mean he wasn't the best and I feel like its a game. Sex would be great but I think I'll stick with my hand