Do men get more aroused by your actions during sex rather than just needing you to be pretty?

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  • There is this one picture of a middle-aged lady that used to be on the web- looking for a massage partner. She included a couple of photos. In one she was just standing in a park or somewhere, and she looked pleasant, smiled a bit, had a bit of a paunch on her. Molly McAverage, I guess. Very forgettable. She had another photo where she was perched above the camera, on a staircase, in off-red studded boots, a black micro-brief, a very loose white top tied at the waist and show about half of her breasts, with the greatest little "come hither" smile you could imagine! Very UNforgettable.

    Yes. Action CAN and DOES make a BIG difference!

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  • I guess you mean the female's actions vs female being pretty. Answer would be YES for me.
    A female needs to be reasonable pretty, but even a not-so-hot looking girl can totally beat a pinup-type girl in bed if she is self-confident and relaxed.
    Men enjoy sex with females who are really into it and take action. Looks are required to some extent but they only get you so far.
    Best sex partners I had were all quite regular-looking.

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  • I dont usually need a girl to be pretty during sex.

  • 100% for me. Looks are nothing compared to actions can make a 1 a 10 easy for me. But generally it's just both.

  • Of course :)

  • Of course. Pretty much no one is into 'starfish-sex' or 'duty-sex'. Your enthusiasm is critical.

  • absolutely. looking good is helpful to get a guy in bed with you. but once you're in bed with them, that's not all you need anymore xD

  • Doing "kinda slutty actions" during sex is a huge turn on but it's not essential for me to get aroused. On the other hand being a little bit pretty is needed because I wouldn't sleep with a girl I don't have a minimum amount of attraction toward her

    • Well I get that. I wouldn’t sleep with anyone I don’t find attractive but I meant as in it’s probably gonna take more than her looking at you and you looking her pretty face for you to get aroused lol like you said she would have to do something even something as slight as just taking her hand and rubbing it down her leg lol you know something to get a guy going.

    • Sure thing that's a huge turn on! because it means she's also into it. Having sex with a girl without her doing anything still feels good but in my mind I'd still be kinda hesitant or confused why she's not interacting with me, and start doubting maybe she doesn't like it or she did have sex with me only because I wanted it which ends up reflecting negatively on the experience.

  • In many cases that's what gets you interested is her looks. But some lass

  • I think beauty is good, but I already had sex with not so pretty girls, but they really excited me, that aroused an uncontrollable desire in me, besides being intelligent, charming and very interesting.

  • actions speak louder than words

  • yeah

  • Exactly

  • I do, pretth only goes so far

  • It definitely helps.

  • Definitely

  • Enthusiasm is key.