Can you deal with sexual frustration?

How do you handle being horny and frustrated without masturbating or cheating
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my boyfriend is away and I dont want to masturbate
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  • Exercise, cold showers, WORK (hobbies, labor, actual employment)

    There's a reason Christians always had the mantra of "Idle hands are the devils workshop". Do work, stay busy, stay productive and you won't be tempted to do either.

    Any time spent doing nothing in front of the computer or phone is time spent lamenting your own horniness and you'll eventually just start flicking it.

    • good advice it works its been 2 wks now

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  • With out cheating or masturbating... hmmmm let me think... how about having sex with the person you are in a relationship with.. frustration eased for a few minutes until I tug it because I'm frustrated because I want more and my boss won't accept I'm fucking my girl for an excuse not to come to work...

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  • Distraction through workout or working on my goals. If you're busy, you won't be bothered by it as much

  • Good question. Have no answer for this. Usually I hope to find a girl to trade some pics or smth. Don't know... I hate it but have no solution for this

    • To your update: why not? I mean there is literally no other way to release it. I tried a lot, but didn't work. Only other way is cheating and that's always a problem

    • I want to wait for him

    • Yeah masturbation is absolutely okay. It's natural and at least then be frustrated or not?

  • Why not. there is nothing wrong in masturbating. and your defiantly not cheating if you do masturbate. and if your getting really frustrated you will feel a load better post orgasm. Then Have a blast when he gets back. Make up for lost time. Win win.

  • By breaking up. If she doesn't like having sex with me, she isn't attracted to me. As simple as that.

  • Why not try phone sex?

  • Best way is to masturbate, if you don't your frustration will grow

    • lol want to wait for him and not touch myself

    • Nothing wrong with touching yourself, wouldn't you rather explore the venue yourself before inviting someone over

  • If I can't masturbate, just go out and find a random, parks and parking lots are good for that.

  • Well, let me put it this way. Without masturbation, Id probably explode, lol. So for people who don't, I have no idea how they handle it.

    • If your up for chatting, send me a pm.

  • You can't.

  • I just masturbate?

    • I dont want to

    • Why?

    • And also, sexting is also a real option, or roleplaying aswell

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  • I find masturbating a good release for this tension or frustration. If you have no one to share your desires a sextoy can fill a big need...

    • I dont own any

    • I don't , they are all belong to the girls in my life. I use my hands. Never seen one that I fancy buying...

  • Exercise

    • thats a good idea

  • Watch food documentaries.

  • Edging my self

    • lol omg that is so hard to do without giving in. I have tried it

    • Try listening to edging instruction audio

  • I usually ignore it

    • trying lol

  • Well still being a virgin, I guess I'm naturally frustrated. I want to have sex, but with the right person, not some stranger or friend or prostitute, so my only option is to masturbate.

  • Maybe exercise? Distract yourself with something you enjoy and try not to think about it? Any particular reason you're opposed to masturbating?

    • waiting for boyfriend to get back from his work term

    • Sure, but why? Is there a reason behind it?

    • not really I just try to avoid masturbating

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  • Go crazy!!!

  • You masturbate

  • Ya call up your friends with benefits for a nut.

    • I don't have any friends with benefits

    • Bummer

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