Do some men have whoredar?

[purplepoppy]

We've all heard how gay men have a natural ability to spot each other even when they're not camping it up, this is often referred to as gaydar. This has led me to wonder if some straight men have a similar ability which I hereby name "whoredar" the ability to spot promiscuous women even when they're not dressed in traditional slut attire or behaving in an overly flirtatious manner.

I predict the men who are more sexually successful with women aren't necessarily the good looking ones, the rich ones or the ones with huge dicks but the men with the innate ability to slutspot.

Can it be learnt or is it just natural ability?

[Anonymous]

It is the natural ability to interpret people's mimic and gestures. Eye contact also helps. That ability transcends to any social situation because there is an evolutional adaptation to it. I do not think it can be "learned" by dedicated "training" or in a theoretical way as it is probably mostly unconscious / intuitive and inborn. Experience will help though.
What *can* be learned however is focus / attention / mindset and (hopefully) commonsense.
Mindest: If a man is self-conscious all the time, pondering about is problems and too impeded too look up from the ground and occassionally make eye contact with people, he will miss every single social clue around, sex-related or not.
Commonsense: Is actually related to mindset but more about behaviour. If a woman is at a club with several of her friends you *might* not want to walk up her while she is in a conversation and *maybe* wait for a moment where she will not be embarrassed in front of everyone by accepting your overture (depends on cultural context).

This is all trivial stuff, however:
"Common sense is not so common."
(src. of quote disputed)

[Avicenna]

Very perceptive of you. Some guys do have this detection ability, but we usually rely on infirmation from others, primarily other guys, to determine whether she's a do it. In my experience, it's how she carries herself when she talks to guys that really indicates sluttiness, and to a much lesser extent how she behaves around her female friends.

When I was in my 20a, other guys would sometimes have me hang out with them and girls they were interested in to eavesdrop on conversations held in German and to get my opinion on the girIs' behavior.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think if a guy wants sex or an excuse to hate you, he will try to convince himself and others that your a whore

[spartan55]

God I wish I had whoredar, that make things so much easier.

[MathewBWC]

I honestly can't tell.
Sometimes women really surprise me and their attitudes about sex don't always match their appearance.
I can sometimes figure out which women are lesbians before others do though.

[normalice]

If any guy had this ability every guy would want to hang out with him.

[AaronKrieger]

Usually you get an idea by just going off of their behavior, reactions, how they dress, and their opinions on stuff.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

dont know, you can only find out from a common friend.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I consider it a super-power :P

One that I wish I had :(

[Tobi_Lerone]

If thid is so mine is broken I guess. I have a working gaydar, but I can't say if a girl is a whore or not^^

[TCredo]

lol awesome meme :) I do think some guys likely have some sort of sense like a whoredar... I would have paid good money for it when I was a geeky teen :)

[es20490446e]

Sometimes it's obvious, buy some others not at all.

[Texaskid1]

I am not gay. But I still have a good gaydar

As for whores it can be tough but there are some signs thay say whore:

tats
Lots of drinking
Body piercings
Smokes
From a religious family (a lot of sexual repression)

[COMMODOREII]

Sounds like my brother who says he has gaydar. 😂😂

[bamesjond0069]

"
I predict the men who are more sexually successful with women aren't necessarily the good looking ones, the rich ones or the ones with huge dicks but the men..." who hit on and catcall every girl they see. Its simply a numbers game and any girl could be in the mood for some casual sex at any time.

Fixed it for you.

[asshole_]

nope

[venomhbk1313]

I'm in agreement with you it's pretty easy to spot them sometimes

[In_Trance]

no; guys are dumb. they have no idea

[skeetskeetskeet]

Yeah you can smell them a mile away

[Nice222]

Well I have never considered myself anything special as far as looks and certainly not rich or gifted but I seem to do very well. Maybe I do have this ability.

[gandolph3]

Wish i had that power, sluts are the funniest, kindest people, lovem

[flashgrandad]

Yes, I believe I do!
Although it doesn't always work for instance I complimented a young lady on Kik and received a reply of "are you paying then?"
Not what I was expecting.

[Anonymous]

It’s easy one girl in my class was sitting spread eagle what normal girl does that