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What is your number one concern about having sex with someone you have met & now wants to be intimate with for the first time?

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  • Well it would have to not be a First meeting 😆 but where things are going to go relationship wise

  • That they’ll leave after :)

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  • Is he going to leave me or suddenly disappear after we have sex now that he "got what he wanted?"

    STDs are a major concern as well, but I don't let anyone near me until I see if he's tested and clean first.

    • so you would actually ask for his test results before having sex with him?

    • [commented here to see answer]

    • Sure, than than finding out when it’s too late.

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  • I guess this question is directly directed to women because it's a non issue for most men, we are born horny and ready.

    1st, even if you don't know him, do you like or attracted to him? Do you consider him to be a potential partner? If yes, there is nothing wrong smashing. Furthermore, its fun, means you'll explore each other's bodies, experience intimacy with someone new, and hopefully, feel amazing. So, if you hook up, don't worry that you're agreeing to start an actual relationship with this person, it will depend whether its what you both want. I want to remind women who still believe their eligibility as a worthy partner diminishes if you have sex on your first date or too soon that, there is a lot that makes a man stick with you even after sex, your character, how you are vibing with each other etc, not just sex can hold a man but a good pussy can. Trying to get him all twisted to wait for several months is not a guarantee he will stay. A man who is only after that pnssy can wait for that long, and leave immediately once he has smashed.

  • If he would prioritize my pleasure and able to arouse me enough for penetration.

    • How does vaginal penetration feels like for you?

    • @akashnaik95 there is always that 1 perv who gets nasty and talks out of his ass on each question

    • @Siavash_1990 Which is why I ignored

  • STDs really. That's the biggest one.

  • How they'll deal with my anorgasmia.

  • 1. Women today are sleeping with so many dudes that their body counts look like car odometers. Her privates, mouth and hand could be as filthy as a public toilet.
    2. False rape allegations. When a woman accuses a man he loses his job, reputation and may be convicted and spend 5-8 years in prison. Even if she admits to lying after his conviction she’s unlikely to be punished.
    3. Paternity fraud. A woman can steal a man’s sperm from the used condom in HIS trashcan and impregnate herself. The court will make him pay child support even though it was 100% against his will to have a child.
    4. Banned from talking about abortion. Let’s say a woman found out she’s pregnant today & told the father. If says, ‘why not get an abortion?’ the court will take away his parental rights & force him to pay child support. Meanwhile the woman can ask the father that same question 100 times and faces no penalty. She can also decide to abort late in the pregnancy without warning to the father. All good! But him merely askimg on day one is considered an unforgivable crime against humanity!

    • the moment the semen enters the condom the sperm die because it isn't the right environment. Anything she does then with it can only be to accuse him of rape if she put his semen around her vag. Audio Record on your phone if you feel you can't trust a girl.

    • No, sperm can survive a long time in semen! Look it up.

    • Best just to wrap it in tissue and take it with you

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  • STDs and sexual compatibility

  • Probably STDS

    and whether I’ll get off or not

    a tie between those

    • do you need an STD test result beforehand

  • Stds. Making sure he wears a condom. Trying not to queef on him cause that’s embarrassing. That’s about it.

  • STDs

  • If she criticises. If she has STDs. How many partners she's had. If she smells down there.

  • Will she enjoy it?

  • Whether she's bringing anything with her from somebody else... Is she disease-free

  • I wonder about STD and if she will smell down there. I have learned to put my hand down by her vagina then remove and smell the back of my hand. I can then tell if she is clean down there. The odor travels that far. Believe me!! Also birth control. I now ask because it happened to a buddy. She got pregnant. He said he pulled out but that is a VERY unreliable method.

  • that they would have a std and knowing you don't know them and that it would be to casual

  • STDs
    Getting MeToo'd
    Pregnancy

  • That the sex raises the commitment too high, and she leaves due to the pressure.

  • Getting her pregnant. Condoms aren't 100%

  • Am i big enough, will i make her get off, STDs, will she want to stay after sex (i prefer relationships over one night stands), can i diesengage my mind enough to enjoy the experience, and does she enjoy the same things i do in bed.

  • We they be mature anough to handle the emotional impact of doing so..

    • I’m glad it’s not only women who think about this

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