What hurts more: Do be used for sex or to be used for money?

[elisa_0]

In my opinion, I feel like being used for money is 10 times worse. Because you give away something you've worked hard to obtain, for the sole benefit of somebody else. Whereas being "used" for sex is really just both of you enjoying a sexual relationship but the other person wanting more than that. But in the end, you were both benefited in some way.

But being used for money is giving something away forever, you'll never see those $300 again if you got a necklace for your girlfriend. But having sex is just sharing your body, something you'll have until the day you die. It's not like you're giving something away.

I hope this made sense. In your opinion, which one's worse?

[Apple1996]

Being used for sex is worse. Someone can never regain dignity that they lost by having sex with someone that was just using them. But with money there is always more out there, more to be earned, multiple ways to earn it. In my eyes this question is like would you rather be robbed or raped? The obvious answer for most people would just be to be robbed

[elisa_0]

I don’t understand why you’re comparing being used to actual rape.

[Apple1996]

Cause that is what it is. At the end of the day a normal person would never agree to be used. If they knew that info beforehand they wouldn't have said yes to sex. And with the getting robbed thing. No one would have agreed prior to knowing they were being used for their money

[Apple1996]

If you agree that rape takes away from someone's emotional being then it's the exact same for being used for sex. Both are not a physical thing. We can't see that like we can see money being taken from us

[elisa_0]

Hmm okay

[simonqq]

Those who use for money probably often does it while making the other think they are together or promises of being together. Some for sure go all in with relationship and sex just to get the money. Have you seen that 90 year old f1 guy that just got a baby with a 40 year old. Some are very dedicated to secure their future and they might be so dedicated that they believe they actually are in love because they are happy receiving everything they desired.

[yucel_eden]

Being used for sex. Money is physical and doesn’t bring happiness.

Emotional intimacy is something I don’t give easily so to be used is something that will hurt me

[Flower7]

I feel like being used for money is worse. Because if someone is being used for sex, that at least means that they must be attractive. But to be used for money, the person doesn't even have to be attracted to them at all.

[ohshee]

Really neither one if you pay attention you know what's really going on so I will play along for admin or so and if I didn't know wjatvwas going on then i eould say money u can always work and get more having sex o get into it and I want to please her like she's never been please before I would say sex and giving. That part of your self away

[TheCuriousDude]

Being used for sex means the person finds you attractive, being used for money means the person doesn’t like anything about you besides the money. Therefore being used for money is the worst.

[Nikki1989]

Money. I have worked too hard to just give it away.

[genericname85]

used for money obviously. cause if you're used for sex, you don't lose anything that you had before.

[Jessie91331]

girls are often used for sex, just one of those things we learn to live with. I work for my money and to be used for it... just wrong.

[MountAverage]

I agree with you.

[cush_ebo]

Used for money sucks.

[alance99]

Being used for money is way more hurtful according to me

[Dare38]

Being used for sex is worse.

[SmallSaint]

used for sex hurts more for sure.

[Guardian45]

My Sex is WAY BETTER!

[CharlieDMX]

I'd rather be seen as a sex toy than as a walking ATM

[nudeNhorny]

Being used for money is worse, I don't mind being used for sex 😝

[Tstrbrainer]

Being used for money is worse

[Smirnoff23]

Definitely used for money

[B2281]

Good question. Probably being used for sex. But really is a thought provoking question.

[gandolph3]

i agree with you

[bassinguy76]

Used for money. I hope to be used for sex 😁

[Anonymous]

Being used for sex is worse.
Unless you are stupid and get use for a fortune you gave up money for what? A dinner? That is nothing!
Being used for sex you feel dirty. Like a comon whore. It hurts at an emotional level way more.

[elisa_0]

Are you serious 😂😂

[elisa_0]

Well after reading this twice I think I know what you mean

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I am serious.

[Anonymous]

I would definitely want to be used for sex more than money