How do I make my boyfriend believe me about my sexuality?

I compliment women all the time. I notice when girls are really pretty or have nice bodies and i compliment them. So my boyfriend noticed and now he thinks I’m bisexual. He says i should experiment with a girl to make sure but i tell him that I’m straight. I check out girls because i like a pretty body, but it doesn’t mean i want to have sex with one or date one. He feels insecure now and I’m starting to think that he thinks I’m gay altogether. What can i say? I try not to look at girls, but i do. But i really do just like a pretty body and i notice things more because i am secretly comparing them to myself. I feel bad that he feels insecure now though.
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  • Well thats his problem not yours. Us woman are made unique, and our bodies are made like art, so ya i check out girls too and I think some girls are extremely pretty and I compare theirs to mine, and sometimes I work out hard to get me to that level too, but at thesame time I compliment the girls too and I am not jealous bc I am also am a girl and its sometimes nice to get compliments from someone that sees us and I know it boost my self-esteem and confidence high in my own personal mind and that would make my day!! Special!
    My guy would know me very well, and there shouldn't be any confusion bc as long as he knows I just think girls are nice looking and like what they have but not into them it should not get my man all confused if I am bio or not. If your boyfriend realy knows you well then there should be any problems, but if he makes it into a huge big deal and you keep explaining to him over and over then he ain't for you. My man I know would know me very well that I am not biosexual. Hope you get your guy turn around, if not then its your call to quit or put up with him telling you to go out with girls when you are clearly straight.

    • thanks for the MHO

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  • Well, imagine how you would feel if he were complimenting other men and telling them they're very handsome or have nice muscles when he was with you. Not a really nice place to be in, to be honest, when your partner is being extra friendly in a flirty kind of way, especially now that everyone goes both ways

    • I guess you’re right. I mean, if i were gay, i wouldn’t be able to have sex with him though. But, yeah, i see what you mean. I’ll just start keeping my thoughts to myself.

    • That'd help

  • Reverse the genders on everything you said here and see how you feel about it.

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