Have you ever wished you would orgasm more quickly while you were masturbating?

Like you didn’t have enough time to finish

Or the reverse. You wished you didn’t finish so fast.

Not a horny question lol. Just idle curiosity.
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  • It's situational
    - if I'm lying in bed at home on a Saturday morning with nowhere to go - then I want to take my sweet time
    - if I just really need to cum because I can't focus on anything else, and I need to get stuff done - then the quicker the better. Trick, for me, is to focus on some 'go to' images/thoughts/etc that always get me there quickly - this is especially helpful at work in the ladies room lol !! :-)

    • Me too!!! Agree with all that.

    • That is cool.

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  • I don't like to be fast lol. I can control it so I build up and start all over lol what's ever on better is doing it with some one in real on line or on the phone I feel the longer I can last the more orgasm I can give the person I'm with. So let's say this was a sexual or horny question lol sorry for got how you worded it but let's say we were chatting and you told me you wish it didn't take you as long as it does and if we were sexting or on the phone then I would take you right there but then I want to see how many right there I could take you lol if it's taking you a long time I think it's cool that just means. You can feel things deep and you can take your self there and. Control it to build it up for the big one

    • Interesting...

  • Both have happened to me before. There were times where I wished I could cum faster and times where I wished it lasted more. But now, I usually don't masturbate unless I know I have time and the opportunity to enjoy it properly. I don't like it when it's something to be over with.

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  • I have never had it where I wanted to not cum as fast but often wished I could cum faster while masturbating. My body is weird, unlike most girls I can cum very easily from PIV sex. But like clit stimulation and vibration while it does feel doesn't really make me cum any faster. For masturbation, I cum the fastest with insertion like fingers or dildo fingers are normally faster but neither are close to PIV sex. With my boyfriend I normally cum 2-5 times during like 5-10 mins of sex. I think the reason I have an issue cumming from masturbation is that my body knows its not real since I have the same issue cumming if the guy is wearing a condom.

    • So just curious, what’s a comfortable number of fingers u like to use?

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  • Late answer but I think this tends to be shifting for me and it seems to depend on how excited I can get myself. It can sometimes be a struggle finding something that really turns me on and when you don't have enough time or simply don't want to spend hours on masturbating it's annoying and usually ends with a less than optimal orgasm.

    Other times I'm so horny and turned on that I cum rather quickly without having pushed myself to it and I wish I maybe would have edged myself longer to fully enjoy.

    Many things can affect how I masturbate I've come to realize basically.

    • Agreed

  • Yes, definitely. It sometimes takes too much time. Almost impossible if it were without my vibrator.

    • Vibes do speed things up 😊

    • Your clit needs a rest for some days and it will be sensitive again and easy to orgasm 😊

    • @Alexxess No it's just always been like that, no matter if I did it every day or once a month

  • I like to take my time. If it's worth doing, it's worth doing right. The first one is generally less intense but I can usually get it out of the way in like 10-15 minutes.

    • Awesome 😊 Especially when you’re edging and chatting about completely unrelated topics

    • Is there any other way to do it?😘

    • It can be fun 😊. And surprising lol.

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  • i can cum fast if i have the right pictures or videos to look at

  • I already cum fast and I like it that way

    • Awesome 😊

  • Not really, I like taking my time... perhaps read some erotica or even an audio book and close my eyes. Just a shame the narration is usually crap or a monotonous voice droning on

    • That sucks. You need a good sexting session to cheer you up. Or maybe some phone sex.

  • Sometimes. Like it would be great in mornings when I wake up horny and overslept to be able to just touch my clit once or twice and get off.

    • Yes!!!

  • I think I would. Have the feeling lasting longer would be more fun i think although i have not done it yet myself

  • Not at all I love the self build up!

    • Cool 😊

  • its usually a case of not wanting to cum so fast for me which is why im so into edging... for me the actual act of masturbating is as enjoyable as the orgasm so im in no rush to get past it

    • Cool

  • Oh my gosh yes, when I pleasure myself, I orgasm in under 5 minutes, but during sex its a lotttt longer

    • Nice!

  • I like to have multiple orgasms

  • It depends first round I wish I could last longer second round I wish I could cum faster😂 guess I want what I can’t have. I do wish I can cum faster from hand jobs though girls just aren’t good at them and I take forever to cum when someone gives me a hand job lol

  • The evening I was jerking off and my mom walked in on me I wished I jerked off quicker

    • That would do it 😂

    • My sister caught me in the bathroom jerking off but she just smiled at me when she sees me now lol

    • That would do it too lol

  • No way I like edging a really long time!

  • It takes me about 5 -7 minutes but it seems like I want keep going it feels so good and I'm still erected.

  • Yeah it can take way to much time

    • Totally lol

  • No, I like to take my time and make it last. Sometimes I do wish I lasted longer.

  • Eons ago in my teens through early-mid 20's, I would have answered yes - but for the longest time, I only like to edge when I masturbate - so it's never a matter of hurrying up to finish as I like to let it really build up before I decide when it's time to release :)

  • Seems everyone has their issues eh?

    • Basically lol

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