"Broken record great answer" response from me 🤣I agree 💯 That's why these what are you into questions when two me it's more about the person involved not just the acts cuz the acts itself aren't as good if you're doing them with the wrong people...
*to me not two me lolol
I agree with that. You find out through action/experience, not talk.
🤣🤣I always love your answers 🙂♥️And I know exactly what you mean. Someone on here called me a prude cuz said wouldn't sleep with someone they would sleep with any available "P" and someone else called me a slut for asking a sex question.. guess I'm a prude slut 🤣🤣🤣
See? That's what I'm talking about... damned if you do, damned if you don't! 🤣This is why it's less drama to avoid sex and relationships
Right true sad but true lolol
I'm with you, Cynicaldreamer.
No you answered right! ,👍🙂
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I think all three are important 🙂
I agree. I just try to get it all settled beforehand.
I personally think before to make sure you're on the same page sexually for better sexual compatibility... During so both are getting pleasure and after so you can compliment, praise what you really enjoyed and the can be a good next time I'm gonna convo starter and sometimes might just start a round two 🙂
Agree there 🙂
That’s when I bring up some preferences. But the communication is ongoing during and after sexual experiences. It’s like a flowing conversation/journey that never ends.
Great great answer and so true
LOL I'm laughing too. She said that she "liked busting me"... She was a sergeant in the Air Force... LOL... Probably the only ex-g/f who I would consider getting back with.
🤔 is that a possibility, maybe 🤔
Last I looked on social media, she was "taken" but not married. I have not looked in ages... LOL Perhaps I should... LOL
Good answer 🤣 and talk after sex is good too and sometimes can lead to round two 🙂
Very true 😊
Well better if communication is heard
Right! I usually do at least before and after, sometimes talking after gets another round going lol
Oh, I meant like days before. Gives you time to get ready. But communication during is mandatory.
Excuse me... I was married and am now widowed and if you wait till you're married would that not be a new sexual partner? So uhh, yeah... Don't try preaching
You should wait until you make love.You should only make love with your husband.The question seems like you had partners without getting married and you had sex with them.If you DID wait until marriage, good.But, if you are widowed, you are back at the beginning. You can not make love until you are married.
Excuse me again. You're new on here so maybe you don't get that not all questions on here are personal about yourself questions I ask a lot of questions geared at getting men and women to actually discuss things instead of the constant gender bashing that is prevalent on here. And not that it's really you're business but I'm not looking to be with anyone. But if I was I think I know more what's best for me than some 19 year old from the internet, 🤷🏼♀️
What do mean that I am new on here? I didn't comment that "you" were the one in the story.I just commented "you" to the person reading my comment.You comment that you are widowed well enough. I mean, I think you even made a post about it.
Agree.. But also after is good as well to find what you both found more enjoyable, other things you may want to try, and sometimes after talk may get another round started 🙂
oh yes most definitely... i was more refering to maybe talking about kinks and stuff early on so there's no nasty surprises later but yeah comparing notes afterwards is always good ;)
You don't think that's too soon?
Well I'm not so much a relationship guy, I tend to self-sabotage so I don't really date so much as hook up anyway, though as I get older this admittedly is getting more difficult, so when I meet a chick and express interest it is generally a sexual interest so I make that evident.
While it's not for me, As long as you're honest from the get go can at least respect that.
I understand that the sexual) relational choices that I subscribe to your n life aren't for everyone. We wouldn't be completely autonomous if they were. I'm glad you can respect my choices, I respect yours, whatever they may be, because they are your choice and the decision to make it is your perigative. What is right for you isn't necessarily right for me. Lol
Exactly.. I'm more the ltr person. I personally think the hookups, friends with benefits, all that sometimes causes more drama and circumstances than what it's worth.
It definitely can especially if it isn't really what one of the players, in this act we call life, wants. But if both are 100% honest, then a lot of that drama can be avoided.
Yeah tried that ONCE I told truth, HE STILL lied 🤷🏼♀️ Why Won't do that friends with benefits thing..
Well every system does have its flaws
Besides after can sometimes lead to a second round 🙂😇🙂
I like how you are thinking ha :) Made me laugh with your stolen halo hidden in the middle there lol
True that 😅
For me I like to know what she likes. It's amasing what some girls like.One girl didn't like cock viberaters only which I quite liked..
🤣 okay lol thanks for sharing 🤣
I'd say all three
If that's the case, sounds like it doesn't really matter when.
No they're all equally important:Talk before,- better guarantee that you find a compatible sex partnerTalk during-allows to express your needs, pleasure, etc.. Talk after can bond you closer, praise, say what you really enjoyed,... sometimes might start another round lol
Tell them what you want what you really really want... lol
Oh God are you singing 🤣🤣
Yes I am... lol
I swear I heard singing when read that reply 🤣🤣
Voice of an angel
And sometimes after can start another round 🙂
You got that right. I am always ready for another round, and another round and another round.
I think all three.. Yes, before for the important things during for the pleasure in the moment, and after to talk about what enjoyed most, praise partner type of thing., Which can sometimes start a round two.
It would work for me cause I'm always talking about sex anyway! LOL Before, during, afterBrainstorming, schedules, spontaneous naughty acts ~ I just can't shut up! 😂😂🤦🏼♀️
What you liked more, ext.
Right! That's what I'm saying 🙂👍
Every woman on here knows what I like sexually 😜🤣😂😂😂
You know it's true LOL
That's good. I also think during for mid during and after for glowing remarks that sometimes may lead to a round two 🙂
In real life interactions
You should. Communication is key to good sex life... The better able you are too have those discussions between you, the better your sex life will be
I'm not that close with anyone to discuss this stuff