Double standards on horny women?

How come when a guy is sexting or trying to chat up multiple girls or post horny stuff its all good, but when I want to post that stuff because I like to then I'm a whore? I think I'm allowed to post pics of myself n be expressive just like guys can on here, even if sometimes I am horny.
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  • its because of WHO you are sexting with...
    most of us guys would love to find a girl to sext with, even if we never meet, its still fun and can be educational...
    some guys are so wrapped up in themselves that anything that takes attention from what THEY are doing, makes them feel small, and so they feel like they need to lash out with an insult or other way to make you feel inferior...
    but sometimes its perception... you send nice, perfectly trashy pics, and then feel a little ashamed afterwards... it not what the guy is thinking, but what you yourself is subconsciously thinking, that you are a but slutty...
    most ALL guys like a girl who can be slutty at times (as opposed to skanky)... even a nice classy, up standing church girl can get slutty in the bedroom without being a skank...

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  • I totally agree and the same applies to people sleeping around, like if a girl's going to get shamed for it, then so should a guy.

    I feel like it's because it's not known for being that way around, like I think guys are more known for being rather open sexually, so the other gender will get shamed for it, kind of like how it's more socially acceptable for a girl to cry, but a guy may get shamed if he does the same.

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  • Personally I find it trashy regardless of the gender but that's just me, I don't care too much anyway. I just ignore it.

  • do it in a more romantic way and no one will hassle you. then u can get as dirty as you want

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  • It's only like that because it's rare for girls to be like that, and for guys it is just expected. I don't think most guys care anyway, but it's probably the other girls to worry about.

  • On here I don't see a problem. Sexting nudes before or during (early) dating is just bad practise / a strategic mistake as it will weaken a woman's negotiating position without compensation.

  • You are totally RIGHT!! Maybe it's time women start rioting and burning businesses to assert their rights!! LOL!!! :) :) :)
    Seriously, though, it depends on the guys you are with!!! Some are just Judgmental pricks, and still think that women should be property!
    Others, if you are dating, and have not chosen to be 'exclusive' together, know you will maybe date, and sext, and do what you do, as a free woman!

  • Well if it's just sexting and pics then you not a ho, maybe ho-light. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SlutShaming

  • Wishful thinking. Guys want you to be a whore because then the task of getting in your pants is easy and, of course, them failing to do has nothing to do with failing to meet your standards because you wouldn't have any.

  • Why is it that women who have many dudes in her contacts, keeping them on a line and make them orbit her is okay, but if a dude is shooting his shot with multiple women, he is a "fuckboy" or you know it?

  • You are incredibly missing the point... You DO NOT judge your character based on the actions of other people. Just because others are doing it does not make it OK.
    The guys are wrong for whoring around. If you do the same, you also deserve the same title.

  • Express all you want, girls like you are always sexy. It's just that you get them hard and their brain has shortage in blood supply that they can't think straight. And send nudes when feeling naughty.❤️

    • 😜, I forgot to add the "less creepy" emoticon.

  • well i don't know what you mean by men posting "horny" stuff since you could be put to jail for that. Also "ManWhore" has no ring to it.

  • Post away @Jadey_Chen and be as explicit in what you say and the pics of yourself you attach as you like, the more the better in my view because that helps enhance the sexual sensations of those of us who like to pleasure ourselves in unison with you

  • personally i also see it as a contradiction and infact i prefer girls like you

  • Because guys don't look for what other guys post

  • Nope. Because there is an element of tastefulness and charm.

    Not sure about the guys on here's postings, but if you're posting full frontals to their dickpics, then you're both not going to get far.

  • I notice it's mostly other women that make the comments though.

  • Go for it Girl!!!

  • Some people are just jerks I think it’s just fine for a woman to be hornet or sext whoever she wants to sext with

    • Horny not hornet lol 🐝

  • Women constantly complain about men being overly sexual online, so I'm not sure who is defending these men posting images of their cocks that nobody asked for.

    And you know, many people don't want to be bombarded by sex stuff, or have attention seekers constantly buzzing around.

  • I agree you can post all you want especially if you're horny. Your body certainly would make any guy horny.

  • Yeah you are right. I don't get this difference too. It's the same thing. So why can guys do this and it's cool but girls are called whores if they do? I don't get it... damn society

  • A double standard as old as time itself

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