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No sex in long-term relationship?

Anonymous
I have the following problem: I'm in a relationship now since 7 years with her and at the beginning it went well with our sexlife. After a time it got less, but that's okay. It gets less if you are longer together. But since 3 or 4 years we barely have any sex. It's 2-3 times a year at maximum. I asked her why and we talked about it, but nothing changed since then. Now I am really frustrated and don't have a solution cause the rest of the relationship is very good.

I'm her first boyfriend and as we came together she was a virgin. So I'm the only one she slept with in her life.

Does she need to have more diffrent experiences maybe? She said no to this. I also asked her to say what she wanna do, but also nothing. Any ideas around here?
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