How demanding are you when it comes to first sex session with a new partner?

[Thebeastsbeauty]

How high are your expectations?

[KAT247]

Not the first time, but I do make what I want obvious

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not super demanding if I really like them

[Thebeastsbeauty]

That's the important part!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Totally 😊

[Thebeastsbeauty]

Check pm :)

[AustinMan]

You saw how I laid out my expectations.

[MrCommodore]

I'd be only be worried about myself, hoping I did everything well, and did not embarass myself especially if I really like the girl. So I guess I am not really that demanding.

[TadCurious]

You have to allow for the fact that you two haven't ever done this intimate thing before. It takes practice to get in tune with each other. Being too demanding isn't conducive.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If I had a new partner I would not demand sex from her cause I'm a guy who likes to wait for marriage before sex... I would like for her to be comfortable when we would have sex.

[Drumlin2001]

Not demanding. Set expectations low and anything above that is a bonus

[Iron_Man]

What do you mean?

[Thebeastsbeauty]

How high standards do you put up for her?

[Iron_Man]

She shouldn't be wanting any sex she should be interested in a relationship

[oncpl]

I expect open, dirty, fabulous and great sex without reservation.

[joeldalton]

I demand she gets naked.

[GreenGold1992]

still a virgin, so I've no idea

[machismo69]

Not demanding at all. I'd go with her level of comfort.

[krin_m]

I would say I'm not *demanding* in the first session but very clear about my desires and would want her to be that way also. We can then work on any gaps so to speak to achieve maximum pleasure for both of us! It takes a few sessions (unless you just happen to click the first time).

[gandolph3]

its kinda like meeting someone for the first time, keep it basic, push the boundaries as you get to know them

[Anonymous]

No expectations. First couple of sessions are to become comfortable with each other, build trust and maybe figure out some preferences by carefully (exclam!) experimenting.
If however I fail to make her comfortable and relaxed and being together still feels awkward and unnatural after like 5 or more sexual encounters and several non-sexual dates, I will stop dating her. Some people simply have not been made for each others.

[Anonymous]

Not demanding. The first time I’m basically feeling him out. I’m looking for sexual chemistry. Does he arouse me? Is he a good kisser? Is he a selfish lover? How does he treat me afterwards? I pretty much try to make it as good for him as I can. I want him to be be happy with me sexually and at the same time make sure there are no red flags. Down the road when we’re more comfortable, I’ll start showing him what I like.