Hi my boyfriend and I are 26 and I want a baby and he doesn't. He has a kid from a previous relationship and he doesn't want another, but he uses the pull out. And turns around and constantly lecture me about pregnancy and how he doesn't want a baby and how miserable pregnancy is and how it ruins your body etc. I've mentioned condoms and he brushes me off, he knows I'm not on birth control and the reasons and he mentions a vasectomy but hasn't went to get one. This doesn't make any sense and I'm contemplating ending the relationship. What should I do?