Have you noticed any male insecurities within the actions of those around you or you just casually observe?

[Anonymous]

Society teaches, then reinforces bullshit male stigmas. Then a lot of people are left scratching their heads and wondering why guys do such things. They’re not characteristic, just a bunch
of uncertain characters following bullshit protocols. I’ve personally heard guys nonchalantly admit to buying extra large condoms that hardly fit because of perception. If she sees it and think he’s packing, then he must be packing. Male insecurities are more common that they’ll ever admit to. I know of few women that question their intimate abilities the way they would question the perception of how they’re physically viewed. But guys will literally question girls and make comparisons of themselves in size and abilities, in comparison to one of her exes.

[btbc92]

Well that's what happens when you're lost in sin. They hair every other which way, and they do not have love for themselves. They think just by being a certain way they've been getting love from a woman, it's no different than how a lot of us women are forced to believe certain things hey that's why when I started getting more into the Bible, I had to learn to put myself in line with the things of God. And not what to think of this world. And anybody that wants to use the things of God to justify their flesh, I do not accept. I don't accept it because I know it's not a God to be doing certain things, but they have these insecurities exactly like how you said, from outside sources.

I have always had love for myself, but it wasn't until I was around other people other than my immediate family is when I began to have a lot of problems. A lot of people assumed that it was because I was just shy, Etc, but that was not necessarily the case. It was because I didn't know them, they didn't feel right to me, and the next thing you know they decide they want to attack me because they knew I was different. I never had much issues especially considering my body or what not until again I started dealing with other people. It put a damper on a lot of things, it made me feel worthless, like I wasn't worthy, and what makes it worse is that what a lot of guys they only see body. They don't see soul. All they only see is what they can use.

The sad reality is the same thing how a lot of women are using men. What is it is that a lot of women use the size of the penis to justify the wrongdoings that a lot of men are being taught to do to women. By the way it's wrong on both ends. But yes I do notice a lot of insecurities and people. Not just my own. But with others. I am highly observant so I understand fully what is the problem. But the only issue that I have dealing with a lot of men, they don't want to change, the things I can never change, they don't want to accept the things of God, but then don't want to drag you down along with them. In the end I am not responsible for another man's problems.

[Asker]

Appreciate the view and share, thanks a bunch.

[btbc92]

Your welcome!