Do you think it's OK to lie when sexting?

[Anonymous]

OK so I was sexting this girl online, for awhile we were getting along great, I showed a fake pic aswell as my penis size, no intension of meeting, just the fun of sexting and it was so hot.

I was afraid of showing a real pic incase she didn't approve plus last time I did it with real pics a girl tried to blackmail me online so I was sceptical.

Anyway this girl found out that it wasn't me in the picture as I couldn't show other pics of myself, she did cease communication with me.

So here's my question really if you start sexting with someone online with no intention of meeting, is it ok to lie? I know it's kind of like catfishing and there's a danger but if there's no meeting, isn't it OK and you can fantasise how the other person describes themselves.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

Lying is never acceptable when sexting. When you are communicating with others online, either show the other person a real picture of yourself or don't show her any pictures, even if you don't intend to meet her. If you fear that women won't approve of your appearance, I strongly recommend building your self-confidence and gaining the courage to use your real pictures. Using other people's photos to sext, especially other men's penis pictures, is considered creepy to many people and when women figure out that you're lying, they would drop all future communication with you. Therefore, I recommend just being honest.

[tattou]

I think if you can't or don't want to send pics of your dick, don't do it, you can finish the sexting without pics, or maybe you can talk with the girl about that and figure out a way together.
Communication is the answer !

[Asker]

I was hoping to do it without pics but she wanted one and nearly left if I didn't, I've tried communicated with her again but she said she understood but because I lied she didn't feel comfortable talking any longer. Same really but I understand, maybe it's because she shared real pics of herself (I think) and I didn't do the same

[tattou]

Maybe she didn't liked the fact that you lied to her

[Asker]

I get that but because of past experience I was trying to be causous

[pierre7i]

@tattou you are so right, communication when sexting with a memberi of the opposite sex is all about communication and being comfortable with what you and the other person is saying As the usually intended goal is for both to help each other orgasm/cum, pics can of course help and I'vr found whilst most girls I've sexted with who I don't know in person like to/agree to see dick pics from me they rarely send nude vulva pics of themselves. Why is that do you think? And have you or would you ever exchange pics (without facial or any identifying features) of yourself?

[EmmaMary]

It's Never OK to lie... Full Stop.

[Hannahsworld]

If she did that 2 you would you be upset? If so then there's your answer.

[Asker]

Not really, the whole point was it being a fantasy being together

[Hannahsworld]

Then your good.

[TravisG78]

I think everyone lies but I never lie about the size of my penis they might get to see it one day

[Serkan__]

Yeah