When is it too early to become sexual in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with this guy for 3 months and he already wants to try things... maybe it’s okay 🤔

[magiusX26]

thats varies widely. how much content is there between the 2 of you during that 3 months? how meaningful is the content? content being other types of physical interactions, conversations (including online, texting, phone calls, etc), and any other forms of getting to know each other (googling the other, reading up on social media posts, talking in some way with other who know the other about that other, any other sources i am not thinking of for this post). how do each of you feel about the other? have you discussed each others views on the subject of sex? is there any moral, religious, family, or societal factors to consider? do you want to have any form of sex with the other yet? am sure they could be more things that could effect the decision too.

[AustinMan]

For me, it's not about time but about the depth of the emotional connection. Where are the two of you on that score?

[1Sophisticatedme]

this is all up to you, you go at your own paste, and if he doesn't respect that if you, he isn't worth being with bc man should respect a woman when giving consent in being intimate. But also, a woman has to respect the guy too, she has to wait if he doesn't want to do it at the spare of the moment. Both have to agree at thesame time if they want to do it, but if one wants it and the other doesn't, then respect that 100%.

[1Sophisticatedme]

Thanks for the MHO

[SarahP080102]

How long do you normally wait or are you a virgin like me?

[socksguy]

There is only one answer to this question. The day you become sexual is the day you're ready to. If 3 months is what feels right to you, then it's 3 months. If it's a week... it's a week... and if it's a year... then it's a year. Don't feel obligated or pressured... do what is right for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

He wants to "try things?" I assume you are not referring to things like trying calamari. Depends on what "things" you are talking about.

[On_the_other_hand]

More than ok

[theharshtruth]

3 months is about the normal time to do it. have you done other things? naked together, touching etc?

[guynextodoor]

If you both can't handle any "lovely accidents" together. It's too early. Everything else is just taste.

[VanillaSalt]

Now... he held on for 3 months if you didn’t put out within that time ide have dumped ya as it seems your not willing to go all the way with me.


It’s up to you but if he’s monogamous then waiting 3 mo is a good wait. at least give me a taste of you wanna wait for marriage... hj bj something

[Asker]

Nah my “friend,” he has never mad a move up until now. Don’t makes assumptions. He’s probably a virgin, heck should I know. I just want to know how early is too early.

[Asker]

Made*

[VanillaSalt]

Why do you care if it’s too early?

[Asker]

I don’t care :) I just wanna hear ppls opinion :)

[VanillaSalt]

Rewording... why does it matter? This changes how I explain it.

[Redstang88]

If you both want it, go for it. Best relationship I’ve been in we hooked up on the second date

[DIRKINOFF]

It's too early if you or your partner aren't ready, them it's rape. If you're both ready then it's right.

[wondering_guy]

Don't feel pressured into doing anything but if you do want to then by all means

[TravisG78]

I meet a woman the first night she took out a strap on and a bottle of jack daniels

[Asker]

Wow she’s powerful 🥴

[TravisG78]

I loved every minute of it I wished she taped it

[Asker]

Would’ve made a good tape to watch LOL 😂👀

[TravisG78]

I’d watch the tape with you while I play with your boobs

[Wise4myage]

Three months is long enough if you feel like it its. But since your asking, Id say wait a bit longer because it doesn't sound like you are ready to go further.

[COMMODOREII]

As soon as you said hi on the first date.

[Twalli]

I would say that's fine, but you could wait longer for sex.

[GreenGold1992]

whenever you feel ready

[In_Trance]

It's really hard to say. It depends how much time within those three months that you spent together.

[Xoirwinkan]

I dont know, maybe 16 years old.

[gandolph3]

when ever you feel comfortable it's time, could be first date maybe never

[Anonymous]

Um? Already?
When did you think you should get laid? "By the end of this decade"? Dating is not rocket science and certainly not the moon landing.

[Anonymous]

Before you are married.

[Anonymous]

3 months and you haven't fucked yet? wtf?

[Asker]

I’ll say it again. He’s never made a move up until now. :)