Am I crazy or in the wrong?

6 months together, very happy active sex life together, now he's always got his phone in his hand he won't let me see who or what, he goes through my phone , he watches porno and gets hard but refuses to let me fuck him, he doesn't talk much w me either. he puts me down, never tells me I'm pretty. I've told him this bothers me but he said he's not doing anything wrong. also isn't snapvhatting naked picks to those girls and they send them back isn't that cheating?
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I just lost my mom and I inherited her property, I brought him with me to Texas to have a home. im going to send a picture and please be honest cuz I'm broke down especially latly... Am I pretty for 42
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I don't know how to send a pick
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Superb Opinion

  • I hear your frustration. At the end of this post is a link to a My Take I wrote on the subject of sexual communication that I hope you'll find useful. In the meantime, I'd be less available sexually. Keep your clothes on around him. Suck up your frustration and just wait him out. I'm guessing he's spoiled after living a dream life with you sexually.

    I'd like to chat on DM if you're interested. Just follow me and send me a message.

    How to Talk to Your SO About Sex ↗

    • One way to play a pic is through your profile. Another is to set up an email and send it that way.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm gonna be blunt with you. Leave him. A man who does not put the work into your relationship, who doesn't treat you with respect, honesty, and trust, is not a man worthy of anyone. You deserve better. And yes, that is cheating. Chances are if he's sending those messages there is more happening as well.

    I'm sure he has the capacity to change these behaviours, and time might make that happen. But he's not going to do it with you, he's comfortable and taking you for granted. That is not ok.

    I hope you find someone who treats you better :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • He is a lousy cheater. Dump him. You can do much better than this scum bum.

    • He will get worse.

    • HE WILL. xx

    • Thanks, gag. xx

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Leave him most likely he's cheating on you and thinks you're cheating on him.

  • So I don't get this porn thing... why watch porn if you have a beautiful girlfriend? Second: sexting with other girls is quiet chesting even if there is no physical contact. My advice: dump him if he doesn't change

  • Why are you still in a relationship that’s as toxic as that he is so cheating not behind your back but right in front of you You are a really attractive woman with a lot to offer

  • Leave him then

  • Ah, a match made in heaven. And you just hang in there because you're so desperate. Got it.

    • None of this has anything to do with your looks. This level of confusion is astounding.

  • Yes, that is cheating and he's likely screwing other girls too. So dig deep and find the strength to dump his sorry ass.

  • That is cheating especially when he's watching porn that right there says he doesn't love you and since he's like that you need to move on and find you someone that will care for you and love you and he is wrong for doing it

  • you have 2 options

    1. Dump hI'm
    2. Beg him to let you suck his dick

    Which do you pick?