If your partner wants to wait to have sex how long are you willing to wait?

I've heard some people wait till marriage but I have also heard some people split because they don't want to wait. Where do you stand?
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  • I guess it depends on the situation. There are things i need to do like touch and kissing to know that we are on the right path to wanting to be together. If there is no intimacy in the relarionship it suffers. I would not be able to last too long because if i don't know where the relarionship is going then it's not worth it. Plus to wait till marriage and find out later its something the person never wanted to do in the first place after marriage is major deal breaker. Thats why i never bother girls that wait, i won't waste my time with them. We only have a certain amount of time on this planet and i want to live it not waste it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Hm. Normally... for the first 5-7 dates at the very most? If she is brilliant, and we cannot date face to face very frequently I might give her up to 2 months in total, but our conversations would have to be most stimulating in any other respect than sexual.
    I never had to wait more than two weeks or so after I had left school.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I’ll wait on actual inter course, as long as need be , as long as we can fool around.

    I’ll wait on sexual stuff a long time as long as there is physical contact.

    I will wait 1 month for physical contact (literal basic contact-not euphemism) unless there’s some real issue That they have been open about.

    it isn’t the Waiting I mind, it’s waiting for nothing. And when you wait you can’t really be sure which it is so trust, matters.

  • Depends on where we are. Like in a restaurant, yeah, wait til we get in the car or something. I'm not big on waiting.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • A month, maybe 2

  • For me, every scenario is different. It’s hard to say without taking into account variable change. Hugs to you lass 🤗 😊 😊

  • A few months.

    • Hbu?

    • Im willing wait I would respect my partners choices I don't mind

    • That makes sense. Not every sexual experience has to involve intercourse. So many other things to do with someone else.

  • Yes I could wait. But my first wife to be didn't...

  • I won't have sex before 3 months. I won't have it before 6 months if I am with a virgin. Furthermore I won't wait more than 2 years, and won't propose until at least 3.

  • 5 min 😅

  • I'll wait, even till marriage.

  • I have to find a partner first

    • Sounds about right

    • Thanks I’ve never had one

  • Im waiting till marriage... botha us are Muslims

  • It depends. What time is it now?

  • like 2 months. Waiting til marriage doesn't make sense though, are you going to go out and buy a house without actually walking through it in person next?