Does he just want to have sex or does he want a relationship (Please help, it's urgent! )?

[Elii1]

I have been talking to this guy for more than a year on Snapchat and at first we were just friends, then I started to have a crush on him, then we stopped talking without a reason. We have been talking for 2 months again now and he told me he had a crush on me a year ago when I had a crush on him too and he still has a crush on me. We are flirting and face timed a few times, then he said he wants to meet (which would be the first time we would meet each other) but we still haven't met yet. We are flirting almost every day, it seems like we fit together perfectly, but we don't talk that much and often his answers are really short. He asks me for booty pictures and since 1 or 2 weeks he sends me nudes or half nudes. Really often he snaps me in the evening before he goes to sleep and says he is horny...
It's like we are not getting somewhere, I really want to finally meet him and I want to be in a relationship with him but I don't know what his intentions are? Sometimes I have the feeling that he wants to be in a relationship and sometimes I have the feeling that he just wants nudes from me (which I have never sent him before) or have sex with me.
So what do you think?
Does he want a relationship or does he not want anything serious? Please help, I'm really desperate haha

[Littleshep03]

I would say to ask him, straight up, next time you face time, explain what you have been thinking, what your thoughts are, and ask him exactly what he wants from you. Ask him simply if he wants to be in a relationship with you for him to try and change what he does, texting you more and with more for example. If he says he doesn't want a relationship, or he doesn't change, then he probably isn't worth your time, if he actually makes an effort to be with you though, then you will have found your answer, and I wish you both luck in that case

[Elii1]

Yeah that sounds like a good idea, I will do that. Thank you so much

[Littleshep03]

No problem, I hope it helps and you get the clarity you deserve, its not good to have your mind fiddled with

[theharshtruth]

he obviously likes you. have you sexted or sent nude pictures back and forth? that's a long time on snap without that

[Elii1]

Haven't sexted and neither sent proper nudes, just teased each other a bit but just for the last month, he sent one nude like 2 weeks ago that's all

[theharshtruth]

i would get into more of that for awhile and see how it goes, then you can ask more directly what he wants as far as a relationship and have an answer before you have to do anything in real life

[Elii1]

Sounds like a plan haha, thanks :)

[theharshtruth]

let me know how it turns out for you

[Elii1]

Will do :)

[triff]

It sounds like he controls this relationship I feel from what your saying You may not be the first he has done this too Dont send him any Nudes Be less forth coming to his requests These type of relationships online are known as fantasy relationships where a more vulnerable person gets told exactly what they want to hear Feel very special and false chemistry os built over a period of time The break you had whosch confused you os while he brings another unsuspecting person to fruition Surplies photos and are recorded when face timing Then these are sold or end up on websites they shouldn't He is behaving in the pattern of his types Hope I'm wrong but I think you should be very careful

[Elii1]

Oki, thanks for your opinion :)

[triff]

Pleased to help I have 2 daughters myself dealt with a few of these cases as part of my work within the community

[Avicenna]

Any guy sending or asking for nudes is only interested in sex.

[Emanon_18]

He wants sex it’s obvious

[Elii1]

I know he wants sex but I still kinda hope and believe that he wants more than just sex

[Emanon_18]

What if he doesn’t! Good luck if you still have hope

[Elii1]

Then I would probably be devastated haha Thanks :)

[Emanon_18]

No you won’t be devastated, you can get a better gentleman

[Elii1]

Aww thank you

[Emanon_18]

Anytime, just don’t exaggerate things and you will be fine, I’ll follow you if you need any opinion

[Elii1]

I will try haha, okay thanks

[Emanon_18]

Good luck

[Iron_Man]

Time will tail don’t put out and see if he sticks around

[Elii1]

Thanks for your opinion :)

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome

[Gripper1970]

I think he is feeling you out, no pun intended., He is seeing how far you will go with him and to see if he can get sex without a relationship

[Elii1]

Thanks for your opinion

[Gripper1970]

Feel free to ask me anything

[KaneSyno]

If he talked without sex for a year he likes u.

[Elii1]

Thanks :)