Semen runs out of me instantly after sex? Is my vagina too big or something?

I read somewhere that vaginas naturally trap semen inside that way it is easier to get pregnant. Well, everytime my boyfriend and I have sex, he cums in me, but it all falls out of my vagina and gets on the bed under me after he removes his penis. Wtf? Does that mean that my vagina is too loose to hold his cum? Please help.
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  • "Does that mean that my vagina is too loose to hold his cum?" - this I'm sure of the answer because I'm a guy: no. Definitely not loose. Otherwise us guys will not cum. Our penis need a "tight enough" grip to ejaculate.

    Hence rest assured you're good.

    Next, semen oozing out is very common. In fact, when fuck bare, both his semen and your vagina fluid mixed. The mixture's consistency is no more as thick as pure semen.

    Hence with enlarged volume + increased liquidity, oozing out is a very common thing among girls.

    Finally, unless you're monogamous with him, and you insert IUDs, plwase use a condom. Pregnancy and STD are real.

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  • Semen is mostly just fluid that contains sperm and nutrients for the sperm. When a man ejaculates into his partner's vagina, the sperm swim through her cervix to look for an egg to fertilize in the fallopian tube. The seminal fluid remains in the vagina. The female body absorbs some chemicals in the semen, partly contributing to the happiness women feel when their partners ejaculate in their vaginas. The actual fluid is not absorbed and is subject to gravity like anything else. Therefore, semen will seep out of a woman's vagina after her partner orgasms inside her. However, this doesn't have any effect on pregnancy, as the sperm have already gone searching for an egg.

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  • You’re not too big. It’s normal for semen to leak out fairly quickly. It doesn’t need to be held inside. Vaginal secretions destroy sperm. That’s why there are millions of them. They swim toward the cervix and try to enter before they’re destroyed. Those that make it into the uterus have a shot at fertilizing an egg. So it doesn’t matter that the fluid leaks back out. The fluid was just a carrier and some of his sperm remains behind inside you. Your anatomy is perfectly fine.

  • This is completely normal. Most of it comes out. It's why only sometimes some of the sperm can swim upstream and eventually get to the eggs. The liquid they're suspended in mostly leaves the body, but a little of it shoots up, to the back, and eventually through the cervix.

    Are you sure you're 18?

    • Oh yeah. Actually, I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21.

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  • It sounds like it is a short one to me. I had an ex with a very short vagina and once I made her laugh after she had a load in her and it all came out. She was very tight.

  • It's gravity, my dear! WHY ISN'T HE WEARING A CONDOM? Do you want to get pregnant?

  • Sometimes it's runs right out of me and sometimes it waits a good 20 minutes to come out at the worst possible time. I don't know why.

  • That's normal, sometimes I wonder how many people on this site actually have sex... like only one sperm gets the egg, the rest of them go, and the pussy is self cleaning and the losers come out

  • Maybe when your boyfriend cums in you tell him to keep his cock inside you (sounds good to me )

  • Just not thirsty enough

  • Perfectly normal and nothing to be concerned about.

  • Maybe his dick is small and he’s just shooting at the entrance

  • that may just be precum

  • No this is very common not all the semen is ejaculated at the same distance and as he pulls out some may be left just barely into your vagina making it leak out quickly

  • It's just the way it is sometimes

  • Some comes out with his cock, that is normal

  • No your not, it is a very common occurrence.

  • Normal.

  • If it is precum; that is more watery and not as sticky. Sometimes I can excrete more precum than cum.

  • If the semen is very fluid it is likely chemistry. The ph-value of the vagina makes semen more fluid so it will gradually release the sperms. Your boyfriend may also be lacking zinc. I would not worry too much just keep some tissues ready or use a towel or sth.

    • Someone said that this is most likely just precum if its watery. And his semen is very watery most of the time when it comes back out of me. Sometimes it is thick and white, but more often than not, it is very thin and watery. Could this mean that he isn't experiencing actual ejaculation with new and that maybe he is just pre-cumming instead?

    • *with me not new

    • Unlikely that he does not experience actual ejaculation. Semen will become fluid in the chemical environment of the vagina. Also sometimes semen is watery, I would try to supplement like 5mg/day of zinc and see if there is an effect within like 2 weeks. If not and if it is really worrying he might want to see an urologist or endocrinologist.

  • It’s not uncommon. I saw that happen once when having sex. Not gonna lie it was pretty hot 😅😂

  • I have exactly the same problem