I have a question about a fantasy?

So I am a very liberal woman I am pro civil rights and pro women. However recently I fell into a new kink and its seems wrong but everyone I talk to says it's just a fantasy and not real life does any black girls or white guys have fantasized or participated in raceplay and if so how do you find other people who enjoy it? No trolling please if this isn't your thing just carry on.
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  • Race play is a complicated and confusing area. The idea that someone might reenact genuine traumas that their ancestors experienced, but for sexual gratification, is a confusing one to anyone who isn’t that way inclined.

    My stance on sex and sexuality is always, and will always be, that what you do in your bedroom is no one’s business but your own. As long as it’s consensual, why would anyone need to have any kind of opinion on your sexual fantasies? So yes, it is part of the BDSM spectrum in a lot of ways and it shouldn’t be gasped at or judged. Nobody should be policing how anybody else relates to and expresses their race, heritage, gender identity, or sexuality. It’s theirs to own and express as they wish.

    No kinky person wants to refuse their sexual desires on the basis of politically correctness, but no decent person wants their partner to feel fetishised for their race.

  • am open to trying it but unsure of what level of it i can do. am a white guy and a dom by the way. i know a fair enough amout about it but am sometimes offended by some components of the deeper levels of this particular kink. it does not only go to black and white by the way, thats just the most common version i have heard of. its sort of like how most people think of interacial dating or porn is a bkack guy and a white girl but it can be any combonation of 2 races for example : an austrailian guy and a rusdian woman is interacial too or an aborigini guy and an African woman. also a saudi woman and a korean woman or mexican man and a french man.

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  • So I wasn't sure what Racepaly really was so I looked it up and it seems like when you basically call the other person hurtful racial insults for sexual fun. I have definitely never even though about that and I couldn't do that, it just makes me uncomfortable. I mean I guess in a way it's just like Dom and Sub rolls where one is putting the other one down but I don't know it just seems wrong or a bit too far to include race or religion for that matter.

  • Your political views and bedroom activities do not have to match up so its completely fine. Hell I am sure everyone is guilty of wanting things that sound so wrong loll. As for where you can find other people who enjoy it, I guess you can look for a like-minded community.

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  • Most people have kinks that counter there real life... And not generally for the obveous reason... If you like race play it dosent mean your raceist or think your less or better... It could simply mean you enjoy the control or lack there of over your own life. And it's a common situation that highlites that desire.

  • i think this is a big fantasy a lot of people have. i would like to fuck a black guy sometime

  • Vast majority feminists are actually submissive, as for how many black women are into 'raceplay' I am not sure. That's one of the reasons why many men don't take feminism seriously.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AggressiveSubmissive

    I have a question about a fantasy?
  • You do know conservatives aren’t racist right?😂

  • What exactly did you mean by raceplay?
    Do you want him to treat you the way white people used to treat black people?

  • What, exactly, is race play?

  • My female friend did this with her ex once. AFAIK that was the only time she ever lived out that fantasy. He didn’t call her names or anything but they roleplayed that he was a plantation owner and she was a slave.

  • Join a community into that stuff

  • What exactly does raceplay mean?

  • What is a raceplay?

  • When virtue signaling hits you in the pussy, lol.

  • Well it’s not my kink but I have known people who enjoy it. I believe as long as both parties are consensual and there’s no actual hate or racism. I don’t see a problem as long as they’re both adults.

  • I'm not really sure what raceplay involves but I find interracial sex really hot 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • Im interested. 😎

  • A mentally ill liberal asking about racial sex fetishes. You are a crazy bitch.

  • As long as it's consensual, it's totally fine

  • I really wouldn’t say it’s race play for me but as a white male, I do have fantasies about black girls. Lol.

  • Get ready to be bashed for being a liberal. lets see how many wind up doing it

  • Sure, fantasies come from an upside down world based on your hatred and horrors. Like repubs railing against gays and getting caught with a gigalow.

  • what should these "races" "play" though?

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