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My friend is only touching my pussy, why?

He's been doing this for a very long time and he only finds it enjoyable/fun to touch my pussy ( never been naked ) .

To explain it in a better way, he doesn't want to do more beside these " fun things/moves " .

For example: he does many different wrestling moves which is pretty much requires touching my pussy or like telling me to give up while holding my pussy as he's pinning me gently ofc it's mostly messing around with me.

Some gym exercises and other similar things.

Sometimes just tickling my stomach / upper thighs and yeah he keeps touching my pussy.

Sometimes he simply grab my pussy straight forward as he's messing with me for " fun "

There are many more but these are in a nutshell just to understand me without really going into details.

Why is he not aiming for more than this and he doesn't think about sex / sexual things which i could do on him?

Am i missing something there? I already talked with him many times and he said these things are fun and enjoyable to play with me without thinking of actual sex things. ( again been doing this for a very long time since over a year and half probably more )
Updates:
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After 3 weeks I figured out everything and understood him fully. He only finds it fun and enjoys doing such moves on me just messing and playing around with me without really wanting more. So yeah it's all good I got the full idea now.
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  • @hannahhehe No offense, but since you haven't kicked him in the crotch, and you go along with it, are you just wanting someone to tell you that is it TOTALLY OK to just like PLAYING like that?
    If you are, really 18, and he is touching you, through your clothes, and he likes that, and because you don't say you are pushing him away, I think you might like it too, and that is NORMAL, and you should like that!!
    Maybe he doesn't know what to do next, of he is afraid to ask you, or suggest sex?
    Next time you are "wrestling" maybe try pulling his shorts/underwear down, and see what he does! Maybe he isn't sure you like him, and he's trying to tell you he likes you, A LOT!!!

Most Helpful Guy

  • You did not give your age but i am guessing your young. Perhaps he cums in his pants is why he stops. Or real close to Cumming. One day just touch his penis to see if he is hard. Or if your really into him rub his penis for a second or two and then pull it out so you can see it. Then you can blow him or jack him off. Hope this helps.

Most Helpful Girls

  • ? He grabs your pussy... Like your pussy lips? Like i Don't get it.

    • If I'm wearing clothes and he grabs my pussy, what do you understand from that duh? No need for very detailed things to write in public it's awkward, if you wanna understand such things then we can talk about it in private.

  • Might as well get your kicks in and touch him back

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  • The way you describe it, this looks like you are more than friends and you have good communication. Just ask him to describe it. And while i'm here i would say that Hannah"HeHe" is a cute choice for a name.

    • He's my close good friend so yeah I've known him for many years. I did ask him similar questions but I didn't get clear answer, it's like he say It's soft and fun to touch without saying much more. Awwuh thanks ❤😊

    • if it doesn't bother you and it's a thing between you guys, then who am I to say. As long as you have the ability to say no in the situation and back out it's your go. Maybe what he said is all there is to it (though unconvincing reason to me, maybe perfect reason for him). It's just that it's considered generally inappropriate in the society and a sign of malicious intent. If you know him well enough then it's your call. Maybe you can ask about his feelings for you since this is really unusual. Though if I was your boyfriend that would raise alarms rofl

    • Yeah I understand it's not acceptable in the society bla bla but it doesn't matter in this situation for me. I did ask about his feelings and everything related to this but nothing clear there, I figured out it might be just a fun thing for him to do in a friendship level not aiming for more.

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  • Ever tried touching him back while he does these things? I mean usually if a girl let's ypu touch her you know that more is possible. According to your description I don't know any guy who won't try more.

    • Yeah I tried and it didn't make him want more, same for me.. I haven't seen a guy like that and I just started wondering now after all this time he has been doing these things.

    • Okay... don't really get his point. As a guy I just can tell that I would be doing more in this situation. Maybe he doesn't see you in a sexual way? More like a sister or smth

    • Ah i haven't thought of that, yeah that might be true he's just playing around with me for actual fun and not for sexual reasons o. o is it possible? Would you be able to do such thing without thinking of sex? Also do you mean like brother sister games or like not looking at me in a sexual way?

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  • Don't you ever WANT more than just touching? Maybe if you demanded more from him, he'd get into it... and you!

  • Find a real man that will take care of your needs that other just gets you horny and frustrated if I touched your pussy I would have my dick in you quick I couldn’t resist or eat you out you will enjoy when you start fucking believe me

  • Maybe he’s working his way to having sex with you. Nothing wrong with playing with your pussy. Me personally I like playing with the girls boobs and ass

    • He doesn't want sex at all and I did make sure many times about it, he only wanna do these things i mentioned and he's enjoying it a lot ( cuz he's been doing it for over a half and a year so ofc he enjoys it ) At this point I'm not sure why he doesn't want sex or to do an actual sexual things..

    • Have you done anything sexual to him?

    • Not really but I seen and touched his dick before out of curiosity. He doesn't want me to do anything to him ( I tried ) so i respect that and yeah It doesn't matter for me if he wanna play with me or doing the things mentioned up. Either way it's confusing for me why he don't want sexual things.

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  • Tell him you'd both like it much more if he used the ti[p of his tongue

  • Trying to have sex with you. Next time he does it grab his cock and you'll know what to do next.

    • I already tried and asked him but he doesn't want that as I said up.

    • Thats just fucking weird. He might just have a pussy fetish or something of the sort then.

    • That make it more confusing xD Pussy fetish like just touching it ( the way he does it as I mentioned in the post ) without wanting to do more?

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  • how does it make you feel?

  • How is he "just a friend"

    if you're letting him touch you there?

    • That's how I'm in general

    • So you're a little slut

    • Yeah you can call me that, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

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  • Grab his balls and see how he reacts.

  • Sounds like he is no swordsman

  • Maybe he is worried about being rejected it be tried to make it more than fun?
    Couple of questions
    1. Are you shaved?
    2. Has he ever tried get into your knickers/panties?

  • Are you always fully clothed? If yes, probably he's just aiming for some fun. But if you're naked then definitely there's some sexual elements involved.

    Can you pm me? ... I am quite curious what exactly he's been doing with you..

    • I'm always full clothed yes and he never aimed or tried to touch me under my clothes. ( all this time he's doing it, he never tried or done that ). Alright go ahead

  • I am sorry to hear that. I was hoping that you could introduce him to more stuff that you could both enjoy together.

  • Already answered your previous attempt, but again: Not normal, no. Not at all. Maybe gay and has difficulties coming out? Asexual?

  • Because he is a molester.

  • Maybe he has ambitions to run for president...

  • Maybe he doesn’t want to be more than that or he would have taken further after so long

    • So it's like he only wanna have fun that way without thinking of sex? You mean he's happy with only playing with me nothing more?

    • I guess, do you ever see him with other girls?

    • Not really , I'm his closest friend.

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