Is it weird to go skinny dipping with your brother even if others are there?

[Anonymous]

Bunch of our friends came by and we jumped in the pool, it was stupid hot yesterday, and we all got naked including my brothers. Is that weird?

[Red_Arrow]

Many families are nude in front of each other in different circumstances. Sometimes they are comfortable nude when at home with only family present. Sometimes the family goes to nude resorts together and are nude in front of many. Totally acceptable for many people. No reason that seeing a family member nude should be considered wrong.
Seeing anyone sexually involved can be very different. It may excite you. It may disgust you. Most nudists avoid such behavior around others. But many people in general enjoy seeing others have sex or being seen having sex. If you have a mind set that a relative is just another body, then that should not make a difference, either way. If it bothered you, avoiding them was the best thing to do. Would it have bothered you seeing a couple doing that if they were not relate to you?
I would not want to use the hot tub with the jizz in there afterwards.

[Asker]

XD, yeah I was actually thinking that afterwards lol. I also see what you mean too.

[Anonymous]

Nah from my friends' experiences a lot of siblings see each other naked at home all the time

[rachel776]

i've done this. it was weird that they had hard-ons, but i think they were for other grls there not me

[Asker]

See same, untill one of them started to fool around in the hot tub.

[rachel776]

fool around w you or some rando grl?

[Asker]

A friend.

[rachel776]

that wouldn't bother me, i'd prolly go somewhere else, especially if she started sucking him

[JPrez]

There’s always that friend that wants to play “hide the weenie”. 😂

[Asker]

Lol, there is isn't there! XD I can't say I haven't played that part.

[JPrez]

🤔😂😜

[MarkyMark77]

@Asker what did they do in the hot tub?

[MarkyMark77]

@rachel776 lol have u watched someone suck a penis before?

[rachel776]

@MarkyMark77 yes but when was that part of this question?

[MarkyMark77]

@rachel776 "that wouldn't bother me, i'd prolly go somewhere else, especially if she started sucking him" u said that

[rachel776]

@MarkyMark77 ohh i see sorry

[Asker]

@MarkyMark77 a friend of mine, his girlfriend, was giving him a blow job.

[elizamichale1]

No not at all honey

[Asker]

I see that, so many people have said its fine. thank you guys.

[elizamichale1]

Have fun

[Asker]

I think its going to be a normal thing now, and I actually didn't feel uncomfortable at all :)

[elizamichale1]

And it should feel normal anyways I am glad you could find a little help here darling

[Love2Jackit]

Have u always got naked around ur brother. Does he like 2 see u naked. Maybe u like 2 see him naked. All I got 2 say if u are attracted 2 him. Then don't be shy tell him u want 2 see him jack off. See what his reaction. U might be surprised he may want 2 get it on with u. Bad as I hate 2 say it. If u want 2 get it on with him. Just tell him say brother u like 2 fuck me. It can be ur secret. U would be amazed how much brother and sister fucking each other goes on.

[theharshtruth]

i see my sisters naked at home it wouldn't bother me to see them skinny dipping

[TremorJay]

Fuck people are weirdly okay with this. I do not want to see my sister naked.

[HartleyB]

I am not trying to be rude, but why would that bother you so much? I never really understood why everyone is so afraid of the human body but yet it is so overly sexualized in our culture as well 🤔

[TremorJay]

I don't think it has anything to do with an overly sexualized culture. Men used to openly sleep with their daughters, and now we don't. So even before pornography, people (or at least men) didn't draw a line between sex and an immediate family member. The fact that I associate nudity with sex isn't a problem, it's a solution.

[HartleyB]

@tremorjay I have no idea what you are talking about that was the weirdest response I have ever seen.. so you said that men used to not consider genealogy before engaging in sex with a female, then you say that your "solution" to something is to sexualize the naked body, to me implying that you would sexualize your sisters body if you saw her naked? It didn't answer my question but thank you for responding 👍

[TremorJay]

@HartleyB it's not "my" solution. From my understanding, it's baseline biology Problem: How do men know when it's time to reproduce? Solution: When he sees a naked woman. Yes I would be inclined to sexualize my sister and that is exactly why it bothers me. It's weird and gross and I don't want to think about it. I hope that answers your question. Calling men weird because they have instinctual thoughts that don't agree with societal standards is pretty rude in my opinion.

[HartleyB]

Sorry if it sounds rude that wasn't what I meant to do. I just didn't get your response it didn't make sense. I didn't call men weird either? I'm not sure where pulled that from but you do know that most of human history humans were naked right and weren't just having sex all day long and the men weren't just having sex with there family like I'm pretty sure you said in the first reply 🤨 I think maybe you should check out some other fields of research because boiling everything down to strictly biological determinism leads you to some inaccurate and quite strange conclusions it seems 😅 Thank you for responding though, maybe for you it is a fear of thinking of your sister sexually if you see her naked body so I guess that sort of answers the question

[HartleyB]

@tremorjay I'm sorry if that sounded mean I think maybe it did :/ my English isn't the best so it can be difficult for me to tell how it comes across sometimes

[TremorJay]

Well I didn't say people would have sex all day long, and I didn't imply that men ONLY had sex with family members, my point was that it used to be normal. It's a well known fact that less civilized societies reproduce more, even though it causes more economic hardship. Clothing is a result of higher civilization You didn't call men weird, but you said my response was the weirdest you've ever heard I don't think anyone would come to the conclusion that naked people just have sex 24/7. So that kind gives me the idea that you're treating me like an idiot. Which is backed up when you say I need to do more research before I can have this conversation with you. For someone who doesn't mean to be rude, you sound very rude. The assumption of ignorance is ignorance itself

[HartleyB]

But but... you said men used to sleep with there daughters? And you said I called men weird and now you're saying I didn't? And you said it was biological and now you are saying it's due to being "civilized" which, like I said in the first place is cultural but you are just using the word civilized, out of place but that is a social and cultural behavior not biological so pretty much every reply has completely contradicted the one before it 😂 alright we can stop now thanks for the replies

[TremorJay]

Yeah you just don't understand what I'm saying because you're trying to end a conversation instead of listening to a perspective outside your own. Keep feeding your ego and see where that gets you

[HartleyB]

I saw and read what you said... it just didn't make any sense and it quickly deviated from my question to you talking about men having sex with daughters and you sexualizing your sister as a solution to a problem or something 😂 it's fine I was just seeing but maybe I asked the wrong person

[Mikelaughs]

It definitely depends on each person involved.
How did you feel about it at the time? Was it awkward, or just okay?

[Asker]

Just ok untill one of them was having his dong sucked.

[Mikelaughs]

Ok, that would be awkward. But just being nude would be ok. It really is liberating, being nude in the right time and place, & if the others are cool about it. I have a couple questions, care to follow me?

[Mikelaughs]

I'm curious as to something your brother may have or may have not done. It has nothing to do with a brother looking at you or thinking about you in a sexual way.

[Asker]

Sure

[4eyes2mouths]

I wouldn't get naked in front of my family and I'd hope they wouldn't either.

[Taeamiar]

It's very very very inappropriate , they're ur brothers , and as a person of shame , i at least wouldn't do that EVER.

[Red_Arrow]

Her brothers did not do anything improper with the asker. Does not sound like anything was bad.

[MarkyMark77]

@Taeamiar ever skinny dip?

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

This seems really weird and innappropriate. It would be wrong to see your brothers naked and vice versa. What if they got hard looking at your body, it just isn't fair on either of you.

[SarahP080102]

It would be weird if you were alone with just your brother's or if you spent the whole time staring at them, but I'm guessing you are the only one thinking about it

[TheCuriousDude]

It depends on the situation and your relationship with them, if there’s no sexual tension between you when you do it then I don’t think it’s weird.

[josephinelcajon]

Nothing wrong with nudity. I bet when you were younger you were often naked together

[Gwenhwyfar]

It’s fine

[perineum]

Heck it was hot!! I mean it wasn't sex. Like at a nudist resort. No sex. So as long as there was no penetration everything's ok. I mean even a hand job is ok as far as i can see.

[Asker]

Lol what are you talking about?

[perineum]

Going skinny dipping with your brother. So you will be nude also!!

[humanearth]

You did it a small kid, whats different now. Nothing your just grown up now

[Asker]

Yes, but its still weird to see your brother have sex in the hot tub.

[humanearth]

Well you never said anything about sex. Okay that part makes it weird

[Asker]

Sorry, yeah I kind of ignored it and hung out with someone my friends when it happened. Thats what weirded me out tbh.

[humanearth]

It would weird me out to. But i'm the type that would say something. Like hey, fuck tards go get room or something

[Asker]

I didn't want to acknowlege what was happening, though he was calm for the rest of the day, so that's a plus.

[Red_Arrow]

Your brother is a human, and you have probably seen other humans having sex. As long as neither of you made it weird, it should be okay.

[WhiteGlaze]

Nah its natural. It gets weird if y'all fuck. But still not wrong in my opinion. Just a possibly regretable moment. Just dont worry about it.

[oncpl]

If you are from a nudist family, or you yourself are open and uninhibited, it is normal.

[Wise4myage]

No, I don't think so. It sounds like it was a spontaneous moment and nothing sexual went on. But at the same time, Its not something I would tell everyone about. Me and my sister have skinny dipped a few times, It was fun.

[Tztop2006]

I mean if you’re all just swimming it should be all right but I saw that you said one of your brothers was having sex that part would make it weird.

[Asker]

Yep, thats why I was wondering if others thought it was weird, I guess i should have added that tidd bit.

[Tztop2006]

Honestly if that happened I probably would of left

[Gedaria]

Can keep a eye on each other...

[Asker]

What?

[Gedaria]

Skinny dipping is do great but if someone takes advantage each other can be there to help...

[Twalli]

How old are they?

[Asker]

I was the youngest at i was the youngest at 20.

[Twalli]

I think that if they are old enough it's not a huge deal.

[MarkyMark77]

@Asker were other boys there checking u out?

[BoxySama]

Nah, all that anxiety about self-image nude is poppycock anyway