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Would You Give A Friend A "Platonic" Erotic Massage?

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Are you okay with giving OR getting an erotic massage from one of your friends...

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The massage is affectionate and intimate but NO penetration at any point during the massage...
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Question Updated: If you answered "Yes" to giving erotic massages 👇 What Rules Do You Have Before Starting The Session?
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  • It sounds like that confusing middle ground where us boys were kept naked in the evening's at getogethers where kissing a girlfriend or fience on the lips indicated a serious relationship towards matromony, but any girl close too us platonically or in a familia way could kiss and play with our balls and penises without raising an eyebrow. Only my girlfriend kissed my lips goodnight, but my female cousins, freinds, their sisters, moms, and my Aunt felt free to kiss and tickle our boyparts while fondling us goodnaturedly while watching television or on long road trips, but sucking face was taboo if the two of you were not an item romantically. An old picture taken by my Auntwith my friend and I making out with our girlfriends in the roomy back seat of my uncle's Buick shows two naked boys over the laps of five girls in their swimming attire, sucking face with girlfriend's, legs and buttocks held apart by them as his sister, my cousin, and a neighbor girl I grew up with, smiling for the. Polaroid camera with their fingers inside our rears pressed into our prostates with our genitals inside their mouths as they amused themselves with our exposed anatomy in the most blatantly lewd objectification of the male form they could think of as a family joke and ongoing commentary of simpler times in 70's and 80' rural American road trips and swimhole outings. Don't view such images through the filters of today's social conventions, because it doesn't work. Different worlds don't follow the same norms. Being objectified by females we trustedwas fun role play back then and I am open too non marital intimate experiences with close platonic female freinds and family relations.

    • Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic! I enjoyed reading! Good morning 🌞🔆🌻

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  • Reading some of the comments, I think people are overthinking this. Lol. It's 100% possible to keep things platonic and make thing erotic. I got an erotic massage before from my massage therapist. It took a lot of time and effort, bur when we built that trust and she got to know me, we became comfortable around each other.

    It went to the point where I was naked on the massage table and she was topless & in her panties and and she massaged *everything*. It didn't change our relationship and it added a bit of excitement to the massage. Of course, that was years ago.

    However, would I give a friend a "platonic" eroci massage? Yes! I think it sounds fun. Lol. Friendship comes in many forms. Some people who are friends go out and do things together. Other people who are friends also have sex. Friendship is what you make it.

    I've done things with friends before. Lol. A long time ago, one of my good female friends used to come over to my place and we used to do naked yoga together. Sometimes we would also go skinny dipping together in her backyard pool.

    With another female friend a long time ago, we went to a swingers club. Why? She was curious about it and so was I, so we just went together. There was a room at the swingers club where you had to be naked to enter. So, we got naked and went inside the room together. All she did that night was give me a hand job and I fingered her. We never had sex and that was a fun night. Lol.

    I think giving each other an erotic massage would also be fun. I'm going to have to try that one day. Lol. Honestly, I don't think it's a big deal. If you and your friend are comfortable with your relationship, you know each other's boundaries and your cool with some potential nudity around each other... why not?

    • This post is sooooooo freaking AWESOME!!! Thank you for explaining your answer to me and for leaving some detailed feedback! This was sooooooooo spot on! I appreciate it and good morning 🌞🔆🌻

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  • it will end up in sex so not really platonic. both sides sorta know that going in so up to you

    • LMBO 🤣

    • Yup that is what my wife gets befor we have sex I give her a nice massage

  • I would and have done in the past, still get that feeling though 😏

    • Totally understandable! Lol! Thanks for the feedback!

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  • Uhm... I don't know if there's such a thing as a plutonic erotic message... Unless your getting it done professionally and paying for it...

    If there "just friends" and they have an interest in putting there hands on you that way... I really doubt if there "just friends" even withought penitration... And it's not too say there hooking up... But there intentions are not pure...

    The only thing I can think of that might change that is if they needed a stand in to practice for school or something like that...

    But I guess to answer your question specifically... If it was just a friend? No... I probably wouldn't give or get one like that... But if there was anything there... Even just on the fun side... Then probably... Yeah xD

    • It's definitely possible!!! I enjoyed reading your post! Thanks for explaining your answer! And good morning 🌞🔆🌻

    • Well... I guess I've been missing out then xD

    • Just have to be open minded and exercise self control! LMBO 🤭✌️☮️

  • I can but with a body as attractive as those shown in your post, it’s arousal torture for me.

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  • I wouldn’t feel comfortable receiving that or giving that unless there was some sort of attraction to some extent otherwise it’s just weird

    • That's totally understandable! Thanks for explaining your answer

  • Platonic means not sexual , but erotic means something sexual.

    They are contradictory to the core

    • I know! Isn't this fun😆

    • I just cringed at that question like one part of me wants to laugh a d the other is just sad.

    • Ahahahaha 🤣🙈🔥 this was HILARIOUS!!!

  • No, I would not. Temptation if she is hot, would be to great for my love muscle. Sorry not sorry, he gets aroused and pleased end of story.

    • I appreciate your honesty! Thanks for explaining your answer and good morning 🌞🔆🌻

    • It is an excellent morning. I do wish yours bright as well. My apologies if I come off as an ass sometimes. I try to choose my words carefully. I've a very small filter with little tact im told. The honesty, thank my mom for that one. I just make choices. Its her teachings. I am sometimes to brutally honest. I learned to use a method of self reflection at night as a habit to on purpose control my brains functions of just blirting out, (my give a fucks are broken. But my go fuck yourself is fully functional today. Would you like me to share some of that?) Lol

    • I will share this, my woman does benefit from massages. I've been to several misuses. Im a former long distance runner. So i know a little bit about the human anatomy. How the muscles are attached. Where they go. From mixed martial arts. Certain pressure points cause pain. Others relief. I do give excellent massages. Unfortunately my limited experience with women being in such long relationships with just 3 women. I've not been able to give many massages to such say intimate places. Such as feet, legs and head. They just didn't like to be touched there. The backs, shoulders and necks were more what was permitted.

  • am 100% with jax on this one

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  • Oh sure. :*

    • Perfect!!!

  • If you mean a massage that could be erotic but is platonic then yes. I have done with a girl. It stops being sexual if you focus on what you are doing.

    Not sure about guy friends, I think would be okay with a sports massage but i think my guy friends wouldn't be.

    • Thanks for your help! I enjoyed reading and thanks for explaining your answer! I hope you've been well! Started to worry about you! Good morning 🌞🔆🌻

    • I wasn't well, so I took a break from most things. But I am comforted to hear I was missed. Good morning to you too.

    • YAY!!! I am glad to hear you are doing better and you were definitely missed!

  • I'd say simply no. It's too sensual. Your friendship would start to cross a line at that point... Now if you wanted to start a relationship with you friend or neither were in one that's fine but if either of you have a partner the massage is just too sensual and personal for it to be between friends. a massage therapist sure but not between friends at least for me

    • Thanks for the honest feedback!

    • Welcome 😊

  • Oh heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell no. Ain't no body gonna touch my bubbles, are you crazy.
    And definitely SHALL NOT touch anyone's ass either. I sla!!! Massage the Mrs giggly delicious booty and she droooo! Massages mine too and let me tell you how nice it is after a leg day workout, dear lord! It's magical

    • OMFG!!! You are sooooooo freaking AWESOME!!! This post made smile!!! "Not my bubbles" I love that!!! You guys are beautiful together !!! Thanks for the fantastic energy and for explaining your answer! I enjoyed reading sooooooo freaking MUCH! And Good morning 🌞🔆🌻🧘‍♀️

    • Nothing makes my day like you and few others do reading your overwhelming comments. Good morning to you too. So! What have you been cooking for us today?

    • Ahahahaha 🤣🙈🔥 I am sorry for being overwhelming... I call it effusive but yessssss 😆👏🔆🧘‍♀️🌻

  • Only if I were unattached to someone and was attracted to that friend.

    • Thanks for sharing your rules!!!

  • Yes I would do this. I'm told the give good massages so why not?^^

    • Niceeeee!!! That's a very desirable skill!👈

    • Yeah I know. I do this quiet often 😅

    • To the update: rules? Usually none... I mean if smth happens I don't like I tell it. Otherwise I just let it happen^^

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  • Do you mean avoiding the hot spots or just not vaginal/anal insertion?

    • Both I think 😆🙈🔥 ahahahaha 😆

    • ***puts on single hat*** I would do what she asked or didn't decline. I had a girlfriend in high school that liked to receive an intimate massage laying on her tummy. She really liked it.

  • I'd like to think so. Everyone likes to feel good and if I can help out a good friend why not

    • My thinking exactly!!! Like why can't friends make each other feel good WITHOUT it being about sex 😭

    • It happens but its hard

    • Totally understandable! I have incredible self control!

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  • Would You Give A Friend A "Platonic" Erotic Massage?

    This happens every time I try.

    • I bust out laughing at your post! Well done ✅ I choked on my tea! It felt GREAT 😆🙈🔥

    • Glad I could make you feel great 😉

    • YAY 🙋

  • Yes, for sure! I am kept locked in a chastity device, so I would not be able to penetrate even if I wanted to.

    • Then it's the perfect match!

    • Hahaha, very true! 😳

  • Yes, I would massage her all over and go slowly cause that intensifies the orgasms to be mind-blowing.🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😜😜😜😛😛😛😋😋😋

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    • @secret6620 Hahaha !!!

    • @secret6620 No rules anything goes

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  • I would I love massages <3

    • Same

    • Will give massage till I'm all wet and dirty

    • LMBO 🤭

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  • That’s a real questionable grey area

    • I like to be unorthodox 😊

    • Lol I mean just don’t be surprised if it turns into something. Or you better be prepared to answer a lot of questions

    • Ooooooo 😯 I get it now! Thanks for explaining your answer for me!

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  • I think it would be quite hard

    • Most definitely

    • So true

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