Why do black guys always make me call them the N word when we fucking? Though they hated being called that by white people?

[Anonymous]

[pajamasam]

Some people get off on feeling insulted, or feeling inferior, that may just be what gets their rocks off. No different than girls that like to be called sluts during sex.

Being insulted during sex turns pain into pleasure and can *sometimes* help one take the fear of being inferior and use it as a way to fuel their confidence.

However if you go overboard with it you may end up encouraging an inferiority complex where you never feel worthy of being loved.

Its a delicate balance

Always use a safe word.

[Anonymous]

It's a psychological thing, something which you might not get as a woman and most guys won't get either because they don't think about race in this way.

@dandiecandie was half right in her answer. It's to do with him feeling like he's somehow getting revenge for the past/for racism by having sex with you. He gets off on the idea that he's having sex with a racist white girl. The "revenge" part is actually towards white people in general, white men in particular, not you.

This is why many black guys fetishise white women and ask them to say such things. They just see you as a sport fuck.

[dandiecandie]

Because it's degrading to you cause you're white! n** means slave and they were treated as such by the whites so the fact that you're white and he's fucking you its kinda like saying im gonna do to you what the whites did to our anscesters. It's prejudice. Remember racism is not only experienced by the blacks. The blacks are racist towards the whites too.

[Asker]

Oh so they being racist towards me?

[dandiecandie]

Racist and degrading

[RyanK9b]

Did I red the question wrong? I red that the guys encourage her to call them n** or so.

[dandiecandie]

Yeah but as he is fucking her! Not on a regular bases!

[katiesmuff]

It just never ends what this lying, useless, fucking Anonymous TROLL will do to get attention on this site. Your just an ugly useless little boy pounding his pud and lonely because you are such a creep in real life as well on here.

[AustinMan]

I think it's sort of a dominance thing but as a very anglo guy, I'm just guessing.

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[AustinMan]

Is that a photo of you? If so, you look amazing.

[Asker]

Yes and thanks

[jmstarling]

Very beautiful.

[Paris13]

You have to be their TYPE. lolxx

[simonqq]

Probably the interracial part that makes it extra hot for them. I would be surprised if it's not a fetisch thing.

[Asker]

Oh k thanks

[BCA6010]

Well since this has evidently happened to you before, why not ask them directly?

[RolandCuthbert]

You might want to change the type of "Black" guys you are dating. They may have some serious mental issues.

[Asker]

I don't date them

[RolandCuthbert]

But you have sex with them?

[Asker]

Yah lol

[RolandCuthbert]

I guess this is the Howard Stern skit I heard back in the early 2000s. Good job.

[Asker]

Whatchu mean?

[RolandCuthbert]

Howard Stern recorded a porn star who was having sex with a "Black" guy say the n-word over and over as he was pounding her for a bit.

[Asker]

I only say the n word when he tells me

[ImagineSketchy]

Just sounds like they're into race play. Odd a kink as findom, but whatever floats you I guess.

[Tobi_Lerone]

Can't give you an answer because I'm a boring white guy xD usually this a kind of a dominance thing. At least it's smth people don't say because it has a big negative sense. But why they seem to get turned on by this? No idea... besides: very beautiful picture, you look amazing :)

[Bananaman177]

You're just a fantasy to them.

But so are they to you, so I guess it doesn't matter.

[Don-_-Don]

I've never done that before, that sounds really weird. I don't care about being called "nigga" or "n**".

If any of the black guys you fuck call you "nigga" or "n**" while your having sex and then get mad when they get called that by someone else then they're just hypocrites.

[Twinrova]

Who hurt you?

[Asker]

Nobody? Y

[CuriousGuyP1]

Lol That’s pretty weird to be honest. I would not have a girl call me that.

[pigoat]

That's not you

And that's just role playing shit

[CasaNorba]

yet another bait question

[NicolaJ35]

OMFG, you look amazing in that photo!

[magiusX26]

could be some form of raceplay

[finallylettinggo]

Hopefully it's the husband at least.

[Coffemmmsoogood]

Probably a fetish thing and wow your super hot and georgeous i can't stop eyeing you up and down😉.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Coffemmmsoogood]

Your welcome can i use your the picture for a project involving my left hand☺?

[Asker]

Only if ur black

[Coffemmmsoogood]

O ok im not then i dint have permission

[Asker]

Nope (: u can jerk off the my tough not my pic

[Coffemmmsoogood]

Ok i just finished twice and i have another boner😉 do you wear short skirts and leggings? You must look sooo hot in those😘😘😙😙

[Asker]

Skirts and shorts

[Coffemmmsoogood]

Mmm ooo yeah😘😘😙😙 you wear tennis skirts?

[NotKrispy]

People like degradation... I don't know why tbh but they do. Like I know some girls who like being called S*ut and W***e while having sex, but of course those same women would have a problem with me randomly and publicly calling them one of those terms.

[Nalix]

Well I can't comment as a black man, but I can say that in sexual situations we like lots of things that we normally wouldn't tolerate. True for most people, I've heard. Like in my case, I enjoy talk about how women are superior, and other femdom / mind control stuff that I would laugh off outside of the bedroom.

[AmeerX]

They love you for having sex with them