Can a woman rape a guy?

Just wondering whether you think it's possible... I'm not talking about seducing a male, but actually raping him.
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It gets even more complicated in modern times. One can "withdraw permission" quite some time after having pleasurable and willing sex. Take the case of Julian Assange, for instance. What if a guy had to claim that he had changed his mind about the sexual act, hadn't actually given informed consent, was a bit drunk, etc?
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  • Yes, it definitely can. When I was 19, I was visiting a friend from high school, and we had a few drinks. I started feeling weird, nauseated, dizzy, and felt like I would pass out. I tried throwing up whatever it was, but couldn't. So the girl offered her bed to me to sleep it off.

    I woke up with her on top, riding me, trying to give me a kiss. I struggled and threw her off me, staggered out of her room with my pants down to my ankles, and passed out again on her couch. She never came near me again.

    I found out she did the same thing to at least three other guys. When I tried to file a report, the police literally laughed me out of the station. I went to get an STD test and was belittled and berated by the workers there (all women) who refused to believe any woman would do that. So they were extra rough on the gonorrhea test, which is basically shoving a dry cotton swab into the urethra about and inch and turning several times. I bled from that and it swelled shut for a day.

    The girl's boyfriend heard of the issue and threatened to kill me after I had told a couple people what happened. I had a talk with my dad who said that it happens sometimes, and it happened to him after a night in a bar. My mother simply laughed at me for "being stupid and trusting anyone."

    So, in case anyone thinks it can't happen, here's my actual account. I have a friend who was ridden with a knife to their throat from a family friend (older woman). It happens. The law doesn't recognize it, and men have no rights when it happens. We can't even defend ourselves because then we would be called a rapist or violent.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes, under certain conditions:
    - She is bigger and stronger than him (taller, heavier): E. g very muscular girl, or a fat woman;
    - He is a short, skinny, physically weak man: E. g a nerd, geek, wimp, sissy, wuss etc;
    - She is a martial artist;
    - He is a shy, timid and passive/submissive man;
    - She is armed;
    - He is drunk or drugged and tied up (or chained/handcuffed to the bed);
    - There are several women attacking a single guy (he is outnumbered and gang-banged);
    - He is a minor and she is his teacher or a babysitter;
    - He is handicapped.

Most Helpful Girls

  • of course.
    Few rapes are like what is shown in movies where the rapist jumps on someone, pins them down, and very dramatically renders them helpless before proceeding to forcibly penetrate them. Rape is defined as any kind of intercourse without the receiving person's consent and consent dgaf if you've got a dick or not.

  • Yes there have actually been cases where that has occurred. It either occurs less frequently or remains unreported compared to assaults done by men.

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  • I actually know a guy who knows a guy who was raped when he was younger. His ex drugged him, and restrained him. Kept him there for 3 days while she was ovulating. Fed and watered him, bedpans for toilet use. Bed baths. And she rode him three times a day for the 3 days until he came inside her each time. Using her mouth, hands and body to get him aroused each time.

    This was years ago. I heard the story in school. My mates older brother told us about it. He was actually wishing he was the guy as he thought this girl was hot lol.

    I think she served 6 months for imprisonment or something. She was out of prison when she gave birth to their baby. And he has to pay child support I was told.

    I can't confirm the validity of the story, but I believed the guy who told me was telling the truth. I haven't thought about for years now until I saw this question.

  • It's possible but unlikely, also statutory rape is a thing.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale

  • Absolutely the penis can A have a mind of its own if a girl is touching it even if the guys telling her no it will still get hard because it’s being stimulated. And let’s say if the guy is drunk and the girl is sober and he’s passed out or pretty much passed out he can’t say yes to sex so that is definitely rape as well.

  • Hard to say. If she gets him a hard on and has sex , is that rape., This happened to me I was totally drunk , but I don't consider it rape more like indesent assault. Donning a stap on and giving him anal. Possible but most people call it buggery. So can a woman rape a man , I would say no...

  • Y E S !!! THIS HAPPEN WITH ME

  • Depends on how you define rape

    • Sex against one's wish... not the colonial Brit definition of penetration alone.

    • Then, yes. Especially if you add statutory and objects inserted into the anus.

  • technically yes

  • Certainly anal rape with a dildo. But getting his dick hard and riding it would be tough without him being turned on. But then again, that’s like saying a female rape victim had an orgasms so it wasn’t rape,

    • Couldn't a guy get physicaly aroused even though he didn't want it?

    • Not really... Betty White couldn’t rape me by getting me hard.

    • Assange had sex with a chick who was sleeping. Sex assault.

  • Yes why wouldn't it be

  • Yes she can

  • Obviously

  • Yes, I've been forced upon before. To the ppint i was saying stop, stop. Turning my head away and she kept on and on and wouldn't let me off chair. Grinding me. And i was so not wanting it.

  • Yeah, but most guys won't complain if she was hot

  • Of course, happens all the time.

  • If the woman is very aggressive and the guy isn’t she could literally rape him

  • I don't think so

    • I would put up a good fight 😝

  • Yes, absolutely. Anybody can be raped.

  • Yes of course